For those of you with 5" girth

I’m just 5.5” girth. Almost all women I’ve been with in 40 years, some very experienced, but one (that I can remember) who said I was “normal”, have told me either “you’re thick or you’re very thick”. Some have refrained from anal and other have requested me to be careful at penetration: “go slowly, that thing of yours is too thick” told me a married woman in her forties, for instance. Other said “it is too fat, place the head (in the ass) and I’ll drive it it in myself”. So, I presume that 5” will satisfy any lady. Just use it well, don’t jerk off in a pussy, fuck their brains out.

I can infer from what you write that you abstain from sex due to your size. Please don’t!! Be confident on yourself and fuck as much as you can.

I started below 5. I rarely had comments before PE. Mostly it was a vague, “nice one” comment.

Great advice Hog7.5,

The self esteem is the sexiest thing in a man. It is when you know you are going to make her feel good, even if she doesn’t believe it herself. Your older than me, I was wondering if you just had some man advice. I’ve been in a similar place as you - where I have to rebuild and all, you don’t get any help as a man and all but after you accept this and cut off your negative contributors it’s not so bad after all.

Exactly, and if you open up the penis size door, there are those women that will be blunt enough to be sharp enough to cut you deeply.

My wife has never mentioned my penis size to me at all and it bothered me as I grew this last couple of years, but now I see the physical reactions to my size and that makes me smile.

Last night we were joking about monsters in a non-penis context, and she said, YOU have a monster!

Needless to say I was surprised that she would say something like that, but it did make me smile.

Nice gains bro, how did you achieve these?

Although my length has derailed me from having sex with a few girls, every girl I have slept with has always mentioned my girth was “thick”, and I’ve had to use extra lube to make sure I can get it in without hurting the girl. Don’t let yourself get outdone by your own package, it’s your whole sex game that will have them coming back for more :D

A year of using a mechanical stretcher in a hot bath for a half hour at a time, then plateauing until I began to hang recently

I haven’t measured yet but I can see a change in length, girth and EQ.

a-unit, you monster you! Good for you. My wife is the same way. It comes out as an indirect statement with a double meaning or just a soft ” oh you fill me so full” while I screw her. Any compliment from them is a reward for our PE efforts! Maybe my wife will call mine a monstrous name like “KingKong” or “Beast”. I’ll see if I can plant those seeds. (Deep-haha!)

My wife has asked me to please stop any width exercises, girth went from 4.9” to 5.2” with 80% eq. Normally. However, with great eq I can possibly hit 5.5”, but normally it’s 5.2” and below girth.

She does deep throat normally and says as she feels it growing width wise, its starting to rub hard on back of throat, scratching and irritating. She loves to deep throat but PE is making her hate it.

Vagina wise, she adapts, so as I slowly gain, she slowly adapts. She notices eq more than anything, the harder, the more she squirms.

This is my experience, maybe one night stands with random girls I’d have stories of then saying it’s like a pencil or big, but unfortunately my wife has told me I care more than she ever will, and she has never felt bigger or wanted bigger.

Oh, as far as talk goes, the entire time we have sex, my wife talks about how huge I am, how she feels me stretching her tiny asian vagina, how she feels me hitting her bladder.

She talks a good game,she is a good wife. Maybe I pe to live up to all the compliments,who knows.

I am good with the indirect comments from my wife. I spent too long with a woman who thought it was really funny to sing about big black bucks and wonder outliud about how big movie stars were. I do have be grateful for that in one sense though, that experience drove me here!

a-unit - Amen to that brother. PE and Thunder’s has renewed me, my sex life and eye. (I see myself for who I am) It’s been better than my group therapy sessions were for PTSD years ago. And a whole lot cheaper.

Good for you MetaMorpho.

I treat depression, anxiety and panic disorders, and I will tell you, it takes courage to get help.

The courage to overcome is rare indeed.

I think this forum has been influential in improving the mental health of many more lives than has been commented on.

My starting measurement is just a tiny bit over 5” EG. I’ve never had a woman complain about the size of my cock. (And I’ve been with a few women who were definitely bitchy enough to say something if they had been at all disappointed.)

raceready - remember it is not a race! PE at Thunder’s is a marathon! Filled with much more than what meets the eye.

a-unit - I have to applaud you for choosing your profession. More people today need mental help/direction then ever and it is difficult to find the help you need. The stigma is terrible and can scar people socially depending on their circle. I pondered the direction in high school and later in college. I never realized that I needed help for things in my childhood and high school years until I was 54 and had an identity and health crisis. I guess my plate was over filled and my liver wasn’t removing enough ammonia. Anyway I appreciate all the advice you hand out for free here. I am sure others feel the same as they come to terms with insecurities and relationships gone/going bad. Peace and thanks brother PE’er.