For those of you with 5" girth

Two question that I’d appreciate input on, as 5” is generally considered to be average girth.

1) How have the women you’ve been with reacted to your girth? Sexual prowess aside, what have their remarks been toward your penis?

2) And, from reading on quite a few forums, I’ve somehow gained the impression that those who were blessed with a larger pre-PE girth generally gain girth a lot quicker than those with average/below average girth. What are your experiences with this, fellow 5”ers?

Thanks in advance, everyone. My first post too, and I’m excited to learn a lot more about PE and make progress!

I never even took girth into consideration about penis size before joining this forum. Unlucky for me I found I had a long way to go to be considered huge in the girth department. I always knew I was a little bit above average in length and I was proud of that. Little did I know that I was just plain old average in girth. :(

Women have never really commented on my girth. I have gotten comments that I have a really big dick but nothing directly related to how fat it is. In general I know I’ve made some chicks scream with excitement and I have beat the shit out of some pussy with my dick but I think unless you are well below average in the girth department like 4.25 and below you shouldn’t have a problem doing the same thing.

Your second question is not necessarily true.

If you are avoiding sex because you are 5 inches in girth, you are wasting your life your life for no reason.

Couple of threads to read if you get the chance.

Penis Size - A realistic view

Check out the blog post "Does Size Matter" I quoted here:

sta-kool - Penis Size - A realistic view

See also:

Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB

I started at 5.4 inch girth and gained .1 since joining, whereas lengthwise I’ve seen a substantial increase compared to girth (From 6.7 to 7.5). Not that I mind at this point, if the newbie routine stops being effective I’ll look for alternatives.

Reactions? A smile due to going up in condom size.

I started with 5.5’ girth and have NEVER, EVER - heard a woman that I’ve been with say that my penis was thick, which always lead me to believe I was average, or even less than average .

To further compound my inadequacy, every woman I’ve ever talked to about dicks says the same thing (generally) - that girth is more important. Makes sense considering where most of the nerve endings in the vagina are.

But don’t fret. In actuality women have absolutely no ability to rationalize size et all. They see a 7’ penis and they think its a 12’. Tell them your penis is 8’ and most likely they’ll take your word for it.

I don’t think you will get much repsonse sexually until you hit 5.5 really. It’s all subjective as it depends on what women you hook up with. Some will think your girth is big some won’t.

I agree. I started at 5.25 and once I hit 5.5 women responded much more positively. It’s the difference between sliding your cock along and having to push it into her in my experience. I’m now about 5.7 and I can now be much more lazy and still beat up the gspot, no need to worry about angles so much.

Same experience as Patch! Definitely a positive response!

Most women are not stupid enough to comment on size at all:-

If you don’t have a massive dick and they say “…ooooh your cock is soooo huge…” they know that you know they are either lying or very inexperienced. So they don’t say it. They know your head will go off into ‘I wonder if she means it or is just saying it…’ mode, and totally ruin the moment. :eek:

If your cock is massive, they don’t say anything because it just sounds obvious and stupid, the same as it would if you said “you’ve got giant tits” to a girl with giant tits. :)

Plus all girls know that so much of men’s psyche is attached to their penis, and the wrong word, even meant well, can mess a guy up, which is the last thing they want if they are just getting down to doing the business.

So women are not stupid - they will only usually comment if you practically ask them to, and as we all know, that is about the most stupid thing any guy can ever do.

Whatever bullshit the media and porn have sold you, the vast majority of girls really don’t care anything like as much as you may think. They just care that you want to be with them and are being attentive to them. Don’t believe that? When was the last time you rejected a girl because of the size of her breasts? Men care far more about that than girls care about dick size, unless they are size queens, and they are as rare as guys who only like huge breasted girls - some say that’s what they go for, but often it’s only their mental ideal, and in reality they don’t care much.

I’ve seen a lot of dicks and 5” is over average. 5.5%+ is well into the uncommon realm. This site used to be very rational about dick size, but oddly in the last couple of years that has changed considerably for the worse, as cultural changes have occurred. :shrug:

Mid-EG is and has been 4 1/2 for as long as I can remember (it’s barely bigger now since PE) and length was around 6 3/4 (I know cause I have a measurement from about a year ago that says so). A few years ago, I was messing around with a girl and she reached her hand down my pants and grabbed my dick, rubbed it for a few seconds and then proceeded to comment with something along the lines of “you’re big.” Now at the time, I thought “what? is she serious?” The thing is, I’m certain she was. Guys don’t realize that most women haven’t been with many above average guys and those that have, may or may not have noticed depending on the circumstances surrounding the encounter. Like if it was just straight up sex, no foreplay or fooling around, she’d never actually feel it with her hand or in her mouth, therefor wouldn’t get a true appreciation for the size of it. The average length, that I’ve found during multiple searches online in the past puts it a 5 3/4 to 6 or 5.8 specifically. As a guy, it’s easy to think “there is no way that’s right!” The thing is, these studies have no reason to bullshit you and some are done on thousands of men and the results are generally the same in all of them. Some you’ll find the average is a barely over 6, others 5.5 which again, averages out to exactly what I mentioned. If you go for a girl that has character, a ‘real’ woman so to speak, the chances of her rejecting or even wishing you had more will be very low because she see’s the person for who they are and not what they do or do not have.

Know that just because you’re below average, average or above, there is no substitute for knowing what you’re doing and being as good as you can be. I’m not talking about just the sex, but the foreplay, verbal and physical. If you know how to ‘press a woman’s buttons,’ you’re already ahead of the game. Yeah, she may wish your were a little more of this or that, but that’s the same with everybody in any area of their life. People like to pretend that they think their mate is ‘perfect’ or something, but the truth is (even if they don’t admit it) there is always something they find unflattering about them. Size probably does matter a little bit, but so does everything else you do… it’s all part of a greater whole.

One more thought… People in general are much to worried about what others think about them to get hung up on you’re short comings (a little pun intended lol). Only the super insecure ones, the ones that have to point things out about others to make themselves feel better will be the ones to actually say something behind your back or even to you but of course, these aren’t the type we aren’t now are they?.. So, who cares what they think?

Well said SB_M.

Great stuff, SuperBad_Man.

I started with 4.92” pre PE, I had every girl i fucked come begging for more. The only reason I did PE was to maximise potential during intercourse and partly because I had mild Erectile dysfunction.

I do not think just because you start with 5” you will have a hard time gaining. After 4 months of PE I have gained exactly 0.71”, going from 4.92” to 5.63”

Thanks a lot for actually giving real replies with thought, everyone! And SuperBad_Man_Man, you’re right - I just need to keep rationalizing in my head, haha.