girth is where it's at

OK…. I have been doing PE since May, and I have done quite a bit of reading. After reading posts at this site, a few others, online surveys, and different magazines, I have come to the conclusion that girth is the main concern for women. In most posts it seems that women say the girth is what they like. I read a survey that said length matters somewhat to women and girth matter most. With that in mind, I started PE in may for two reasons. #1-To get a bigger dick. #2 To satisfy my girlfriend like never before. Now I slacked off for about a month and a half and didn’t really get started until July. So I have been at it for about 2.5 months, and I still haven’t seen much for gains. I have noticed a deifinte thickness and hardness, but no gains. Anyway, in my opinion there are three things that make sex good for most women. #1 emotional attraction (love)

#2 how you do it #3 size of your penis. I like to think of the love/emotional side of being one part and the other two as being physical parts. I think that the emotional part is by far the biggest, and then how you do it, and then the size of your dick. I think this because I am a little of 6” in length and 4.5” in girth and I get my girlfriend off just fine with that and my technique. However, I do believe that a bigger dick is definitely synergistic. My girlfriend has been with a few guys. The last being big. ( She told me in girth…not length). I am asuming that he was between 5.25 and 5.5 in girth. She has told me that size doesn’t matter. Do I believe her? NO. I think that it is perfectly logical. I bigger dick hits more nerves and therefore produces greater sensation. In addition to this, I think that the feeling of being filled during sex is very important. So the bigger the dick the greater this sensation also. Anyway, girth produces this feeling and extra length just rams her cervix. I do believe that she thinks that it doesn’t matter that much. I think that she thinks it matters, but not enough to not get her off. She can get off now….therefore she says that more size doesn’t matter. For my goal I think that it does. I want to get her off like never before. I think that this requires all three aspects mentioned earlier. Love, technique, and size in combination. I know I have technique, and we are deep in love. The love is something she never had with the previous boyfriend who was big. (she told me this) However he did have size and I dont. If I can get huge…I already have technique and love pinned down (not to mention these the two biggest attributes to sex in my opinion)….then I can satisfy her like never before. I need girth and a little length. So I am excited to start posting here. I am looking for good girth gains. I would love to here some of your stories, and I would also like to here any good techniques for girth gains. Let me know what you think

Thanks dirk

Girth is where it is at, and I believe that women get more pleasure out of a hard and very thick rod. More meat stimulating all those nerves makes more sense than a 12” slim hot dog that cannot fully penetrate and simultaneously tantalize many nerves at once.

I have been jelqing with the Power-Jelq device into my fourth week now. I started with and erect length of 7” and and erect girth of 5”. Now my girth is maintaining 5.5” - a 1/2inch gain.
Absolutely thrilled about the girth gain! If I reach 8” length that’s fine, but my emphasis is on a girth goal of 6.5 to 6.75. The Power-Jelq device is the best device I have ever tried. It is a pleasure to use, and if something is a pleasure it makes it more easy to stay with it.

I agree that girth is important, maybe more important than length. However, if you have any length goals at all you should try to reach them first instead of going for the immediate gratification of a thicker penis. Why? Because a thicker rubber band is much harder to stretch than a thin one. There are many other posts on this board regarding length versus girth, and I would invite you to read those before deciding what to focus on. Good Luck :)

May I give you a bit of constructive criticism? I’m 58, so help out this old man. I started on your post but it’s one big-ass paragraph, so I sort of gave up, it’s a bit overwhelming. You mention you’re going to post a lot. Please do, but break your information down into several paragraphs. I’ll give it another try tomorrow. And by the way, your size ain’t bad already and if you have the technique down, you’ve won half the battle. Sorry, battle is not a good word.

Welcome, Glenn

Its’ a war out there for us single guys, buddy :)

yeah girth is important but so is her size, if she does her kegels then it can become a shared experience as your girth expands and her vagina contracts.

Sex is a two way thing too. I think there is a tendancy to think that if you are doing the insertion then you hold entire responsibility for whether the sex is good or bad. A passive partner can really kill enjoyment.

On the emotional front I personally have much more fun with a partner I know well, why is this attributed to woman. Ok so sex in public with a strangers is also nice but its different and I think women get the same kind of thing out of it as men.

Hey maybe all this is stating the obvious but we are indoctrinated with boy/girl sterotypes from birth and some of it sticks.

Guys

I think once you get to about 7 to 8 inches girth is more important but you need a good 7 inches to get to those hard to reach places .

Dino

if you think about it, it is reasonable to believe that the walls of her vagina are where the nerves are. Since this is the case a larger volume or girth will touch and expand a larger amount of her vaginal walls. Thus more nerves are stimulated. Length is important also, but I still think that girth is the main thing.

Will try to get at your earlier post today. I don’t have either much length and certainly very little girth, but I can get my wife “off” several times each time we have sex. I ride her high so my dick rubs her clit with each thrust. Doggie style is also great for full contact. Have you ever rotated yousrself (making circular motions with your hips) while you’re in her? It hits the walls both side, top and bottom - my wife loves it and so do I. Give it a shot (no play on words).

Glenn

Ok guys im new on here and wanted to know how to measure girth the right way.really never done it before,i know its the thickness but i see some girth in here that says 6.25 so how the hell you get that….see you can tell im new at this…lol so you guys that know can you fill me in on this so i can start measureing my girth to see what i gain from jelqing……Thanks

aceman1968. The way to measure is to get a piece of twine and wrap it at midpoint of your erect penis. get a sharpie marker and put a line at both pieces of string where they come together. Lay that out flat on a ruler and you have your girth.

If you do it a couple of times and you get the same measurement, you’re doing it right.

Thanks guys for thinking that I am where it’s at. I have wanted to be where it’s at since the sixties. :D

If your skills as a lover are as good as advertisted and it was possible I would gladly trade you an inch of girth for some of your secret sauce!

regularwhiteguy

Hi, for some reason, I can’t start a new threat. So I’ll have to ask my question in here.

My problem is the opposite of a girth problem. I’m 6 X 6, so I desperately need length only, not girth.

I’ve been jelqing for quite a while and it only gives me more girth. So I wonder what the best techniques are which concentrate on length only.

My penis looks awful this way. Short and fat.

better than short and thin