Hard time keeping erection during jelqing

While i’m jelqing i have a hard time keeping it erect. I start by seeing some girls photos or videos to get hard, then i put the lube on and start stroking. But after some strokes (20-30) the erection starts to fade away and my penis gets to like 25-30% erection, when the erection is this low my penis doesn’t feel like there is something being done to it.

Just a reminder that when i’m masturbating or having sex, even when i ejaculate my penis stays erect for a long time before fading away.

That just happens with the jelqing and it does make sense because how are you suposed to stay mildly hard for a long period of time since you’re stroking your cock and not actually giving it pleasure?

Any tips? I don’t want to rely on having porn on my cellphone by my side to watch it as soon as the erection starts to fade away because i want to ban porn from my life.

Thanks

1) Use light intensity and slow strokes.
2) After some strokes if your erection start fading stop jelqing and start masturbating lightly and after the erection is good continue the jelqs.

After some sessions you will get used to it and you will improve.

I thought you couldnt stop in the middle of the jelq session cause you would lose efficacy, is it okay to stop? And i hope this helps because it is frustrating to see my penis shrinking as soon as i start the jelqings. I dont know if it will because the strenght of my stroke is pretty light i believe.

Also, inwas doing 200 jelqs and i’m in my month 1 and 2nd week of pe as a newbie, and that was taking me more than 15 minutes, was thinking about changing it to time instead of counting, what do you think? Only 10 mins.

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