Maybe some would say it is better to have a small head, but I think that most women, at least those who are fond of penises, prefer a big head. About this, I have not got many express indications from women themselves. But the few express indications from them, and the other suggestions that I have got, almost wholly show, at least to me, women’s general preference for a big head.
The tightest part of the vagina, or even anus, is usually the opening, while the depths are much looser. Meanwhile, the head is the most compressible part of the penis. So even if the head is big, I really do figure — although admittedly I do not have the big head which I would like — that the head can be compressed enough for insertion. Then, after insertion, the head can swell again to provide more girth within the looser depths. That is just my own logic about it, even though the few times that I tried to get some women’s direct answers on head size’s effect on their enjoyment of intercourse, I got no clear responses.
The only couple pointed indications, from women, that I recall being made, unasked but specifically, about head size were not about intercourse. One woman, who, although she liked penises overall, thought nearly all penises ugly and unpleasant to look at, yet had seen a few she thought pretty and which she loved for that, said, among other things, when I asked her the distinctions, that she thought they looked much worse when the head was smaller than the shaft. She brought up head size on her own; I had not mentioned head size at all.
The other woman, an avid penis fan, said that, although she loved to look at them all, she especially liked to see ones with big heads because then she imagined the particular feeling of that kind in her mouth. My own question to her had provoked this answer from her, but in asking, I had not mentioned head size at all. Meanwhile, I have never heard any woman express a preference for a small or even average head. My impression is that, generally, women are either mostly neutral about head size, or, if they do have preferences, prefer big, or at least not small, head size versus the shaft.
I do speculate, merely speculate, that women with some degree of aversion to penises probably prefer a small, or at least not big, head. But as for women who especially like penises, I think that they tend to like them more when the head is big, or at least not small.