Hi size, welcome to Thunder’s Place.
First order of business is to slow down. Yes I know, the potential of growing a bigger dick is extremely overwhelming, and you want to learn everything as fast as you can to get started, but you’ll need to take it slow - especially in the beginning - to ensure you do it correctly.
Now, get prepared to do some reading and start here: Most Important Newbie Threads/Info. Read every thread that is linked in there at least 2 times. The best way to get started right (and safely) is to be well informed.
After you’ve read all the information contained in that thread, spend some time thinking about your current size and what you’d like your initial goal to be. Take a look at the Pre PE Length and Girth polls for a better understanding of the true average. Be sure to vote your stats while you’re there.
Finally, get started. Start with the Newbie Routine for about six weeks in order to condition your unit. After that you can move on to other forms of PE.
Oh yeah, here’s some information on kegels: My Kegel Folder
Edit: BTW, here’s a thread with information about requesting a mentor: Mentoree Guidelines and Questionnaire