Yeah, I know what you’re saying kowal. I tend to think that a lot of “greedy” members like me might be motivated by the desire to always be *the* biggest a woman has had. For most women, anything with 6” girth and decent length would qualify; for women who get around more, however, you might need 8.5 x 6.
In my own case, I had gotten used to getting comments about being big, even huge (girth makes all the difference, plus my skinny build), so when I first encountered that rare girl who had had a 9” dude in her history, and told me about it, unprovoked, I experienced quite the ego blow. In the average guy’s case, however, this wouldn’t have been as possible, because he would never have built up strong expectations about penis size comments, having received a mix bag over time and never having built up his size to be a big component of his ego.
That’s how I think about it anyway.