How useful is length for stimulation?

From life experience, and from what I’ve read here on the forums, I’ve gotten the impression that more girth equals more vaginal stimulation (though when too high, it causes pain and discomfort for some women). I’ve gotten the impression that length can be visual impressive, and for some percentage (I’d love to hear people’s thoughts about how common this is) of women it can be nice to have gentle stimulation of the cervix and posterior/anterior fornix. Negatively though, I’ve read some discussion that since most mean are wider at the base than elsewhere, if you’re too long, it can keep you from using the thickest part of your dick.

So I guess that’s a little inarticulate, but what I’m wondering about is: From the perspective of physical stimulation is extra length (when I say extra I mean something beyond 5.5-6.5 inches.)
A. A painful, inconvenient jabbing factor.
B. I pleasurable fornix stimulator.
C. A throw away stat ,and girth is where real stimulation comes from?

Last question, for women with whom cervix/fornix stimulation is enjoyable, how much does girth factor in? The idea that a thicker penis is better for stimulating the relatively shallow portions of the vagina is pretty familiar, but when it comes to stimulating the deep parts, is length enough? Or is length useless without width?

From what I know length and girth are both important maybe leaning toward girth more. The anatomy of the clitoris now much better understood shows us that it goes all over the place inside the vagina. On the top as the G-Spot, on the sides in contact with the vestibular bulbs. The perineum may also be part of the same nerve network although not physically connected to the clitoris proper.

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More girth means more friction on the vestibular blubs. All the scientific jargon talks about most nerve endings being in the first 2 inches of the vaginal opening. Another thing girth does, and you can see it if you watch videos and the guy is wide enough, is that it pulls the external clitoris and hood on every in and out stroke.

As for length, there are spots to hit (g-spot, a-spot and the area under the cervix, between the cervix and the anus) and I think some women (many?) like the feeling of being filled. If you see this thread by luvdadus (Collected wisdom from the vets and good gainers) where he says:

"When I got to a little over 7" bpel. I noticed that the wife seemed much more approachable for sex overall and initiated much more of the time. I postulated that I must be hitting areas that I hadn’t been able to before and the orgasms were more intense and pleasurable for her hence the increased interest. After reading up a bit I decided that I was getting to the cul de sac area at times since I had noticed that the cervix would slide over the head of my dick at times - when it did orgasms ensued shortly therafter for wifey. Over time I noted an increase in the frequency of sex with my wife from about 10-11 per 26 day cycle to 13 or 14. It was when I got to 7.5 bpel that I learned that the wife was haveing some "discomfort" from time to time during sex. The "discomfort" however never resulted in her reducing her interest, in fact if anything her interest continued to steadily increase. None-the-less I ended up spending 3 or 4 months doing girth only routines or on a PE vacation till she seemed to have accomadated to the new length. I did this because I felt that PE should enhance pleasure for her, not just be an ego booster for me. I definitely got the benefits of better erections, I also got a bigger dick, a more sastisfied spouse and a good deal more sex in the bargain."

Reference on the A-Spot:
"The A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the ‘female degenerated prostate’. (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity. "

7”NBP and over has advantages.

-Less likely to slip out of her vagina during your stroke
-Availability of more sex positions that would be very difficult or impossible with a shorter penis (thus more fun for some)
-Easier to give head to a longer penis
-More pleasurable for some to receive head if they are longer (hands plus mouth simultaneously)
-More pleasurable for some women to give head to a longer penis
-More friction time with each stroke due to length during the stroke (more vaginal stimulation)

I think if you were over 8”NBP though with most women you would be too long and would loose clitoral stimulation because you wouldn’t be able to penetrate deeply to where your pubic bone touches hers.

Damien beat me to it, although I am not speaking from experience but extra length is mainly helpful in being able to do various positions and go from position to position without having to pull out. If you are 5” long, I’m sure you can stimulate most parts of the vagina except hitting the cervix which isn’t desirable by all or even most. Girth gives the most pleasure, although I don’t have much experience in that department either, some girls have said that it feels so thick inside of them.

Length is visually stimulating and an ego booster for yourself and I wish I could flip the girl around to on top or doggy and twirl her with my dick still in them. It’s a good feeling to do that. I have to pull the girl real close if i want to go from the bottom to the top without pulling out and sometimes it doesn’t stay in. Not like that matters all that much, but it’s nice to never lose contact.

From my experience with various women I believe my length is near perfect at about 7.25 nbp or so. Several women have told me that it “sort of” hurts when I bottom out in their vaginas, but that it’s a very pleasurable feeling. Often, when they ride me, they will stop and try to push it inside themselves as hard as they can, as if the static pressure of my dick against the bottom of their vagina feels good.

Since I’ve bottomed out in all women (more than 20, I’ve stopped counting) except the one I lost my virginity to I think that I would be vain trying to get any more length than I already have.

Girth wise, I can’t give you a good answer. At about 5.7 MSEG when fully engorged I am not huge (at least not by Thunder’s place standards ;) ), but I’ve gotten comments about being thick and how it stretches them out. I’m also thicker at the base than at the head, but since my length isn’t TOO long, i.e. I have to leave a few inches out, I reckon I can probably utilize most of my base girth.

However, it’s totally up to the girl. Some girls dig the length and love the deep penetration while some don’t. There’s no good black or white answer, just a grey zone :) .

In one word, VERY. Length is useful and I don’t regret growing to my size.

With enough length, one wields the capability to jab the cervix and encroach the area just beyond it ( CDS ). Pounding this space balls deep is the method of attack we encourage at thundersplace.

Those were some very helpful and thoughtful posts, thanks guys.

My answer is B. I have only gained about .25” in length, going from 6.75” to a little over 7” (BP) and I now seem to be hitting my wife’s A- spot when I go in deep. Her orgasms seem to be more intense and her vocalizations are different when I do this. So up to a point length certainly has it’s merits.

Giggity….alllright! :)