Length will always rule.
I haven’t been PE-ing for about 8 months now and I’ve lost some but I’m still larger then when I started. My problem has always been length. I range between 6.25-6.4 NBPEL and 6.75 - 6.9BPEL. My MEG is about 5.825 which is nearly an inch above the average. The thing is I feel small. To the point I haven’t had sex(other then an occasional hook up with my ex) in about a year and a half. I’m turning down a lot of hot chicks and now it’s frustrating. And it all comes from my insecurity over length. Length dominates my thoughts on a big dick. Even though it seems as though girls would prefer girth. I know I would think I had a big dick if I could take my girth and make it average and add it too the length. So that would give me about a 7.25NBPEL x 5.0EG dick. I would feel comfortable and even proud of it. And I know I have even bigger volume at my current size. I feel like girls talk more about length then girth. Cause when they talk to their friends when asked about dick size they almost always show in terms of length. Maybe the insecurity is fueled by the fact that a thicker dick alot of time makes it look shorter. Mine looks shorter then average to me. I don’t know how to mentally get over that length is everything. Girth to me is an afterthought. Any way to get over this?
Btw, it’s not just about my length at max. I find that when I’m with someone I can’t get maximum erection so that’s what bothers me most. I guess it’s nerves. If I could always get a hard 6.4NBPEL I’d feel a bit more comfortable.
Pre-PE: BPEL 6.25" NBPEL 5.8" EG 5.75 " Now: BPEL 7" NBPEL 6.5" EG 5.95"
Final goal: BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 7" EG 6"