Hydromax Bathmate Help
Hi Everyone!
I just wanted to say hi and maybe ask a question. I’m new to PE. I just started using the bathmate Hercules about 3 weeks ago (it’ll be 3 weeks this Friday). I’ve been doing some jelqing too and kegels. I’m 27 and healthy and my starting size is 5” erect and 4.5” girth so I’m about average length and below average girth.
The reason I started PE is because the last 3 women I was with said I was too small. The last one even said that oral was just not enough. That was about 5 years ago and I haven’t been with another woman since. Needless to say my confidence was shot. Not only that, but I was struggling, more than my peers, to get a good job and move out of my parents house. Long story short, I’m in a better place now. I’m in grad school and don’t live with my parents. I actually have friends too! After my bout with depression, which I’ve kicked, and I’m scared to say it, but I am happy with my life now (though I am still broke). I’m still having difficulty approaching women though and it has undoubtedly been because of previous experiences. It’s pretty much gotten to the point where I don’t think women view me as a “man” or someone who could be a sexual partner with anyone. So, I’m giving PE a try. I mean a real try.
I’ve been using the bathmate for 3 weeks now and I’ve noticed that there isn’t much change after using the pump (I wasn’t expecting life changing results after 3 weeks). In the beginning, there was a clear difference between before and after. Unfortunately, for the last 3 days my penis kind of just looks like it would after a hot shower. I even measured it after using the pump and my penis is the same measurements when erect.
I’m uncircumcised and I also noticed that the head of my penis is practically the same size and the “girth” difference is in my foreskin. Is that normal? I get that blood will go to my foreskin as well, but shouldn’t the glans be getting bigger too? Also, is mild soreness a thing towards the base of the shaft (specifically the underside, but also all around) normal? It’s not unbearable or even annoying. I’d equate to muscle soreness after a workout at the gym.
I normally leave it on for 15 minutes. I start with my penis semi erect and then pump until I’m about halfway between the 5.5” and 6” mark. After 5 minutes I go to the 6” mark and after 10 minutes I max out at 6.5” (can’t really pump past this). After 15 minutes I take it off and jelq for 10 minutes. In the beginning there was a noticeable difference and it lasted almost all night (I do it around 6 or 7pm every day). Now it seems like it’s going back to normal after an hour. Has anyone ever experienced something like this? Am I doing something wrong or is this just not going to work? I hope it’s not the latter. Realistically, I’m just hoping to reach the 6 inch mark and maybe 5 inches in girth. If I get more then great, if not then whatever. I just want to be on the upper side of average. I understand that it can take up to a year or two, but I’d rather do it now than at 30. I’m just wondering what normal experiences are. I’ve read other threads, but haven’t found an answer to this specific phenomenon. Anyway, thank you for your help!
-Tom