I used to be small, gee thanks.

Ok so long story short.I was divorced last year.wife of course played the small penis card on the way out the door.I felt a little down but felt like it was at least 6 EBP.I started dating a new girl about 8 months ago.Coming out of a sexless marriage I was freaked that I would suck at sex and of course I did I lasted about 1 minute tops. She was patient but I knew she was getting frustrated because I think the guy she was just with before me was some kind of stud or something, based on her tongue slips and reading between the lines.

So, I found thunders and read that PE helps with size and also premature ejaculation so I started about 4-5 months ago.

I used to be 6.5 EBP but honestly I was probably around 6 max when I started with this girl.I think it shrunk from the sexless marriage.

Anyway,I am now almost 7 EBP.Girth around 5 mid and 5.2 base. I was having sex last nite and my girl started in with saying I feel really huge now.She even said humongous and that we had to stop doing it from behind.My EQ was 10 last nite for sure.I had a humongous load and then when showering off she says “I have to admit I was a little worried about your size when we first started dating.It was a little small.” OUCH! I took this real hard. She thinks I’m bigger because she turns me on so much and it “came back to life.” Partially true but she doesn’t know about the hours of PE.
So I’m a little pissed and here’s what I learned.

Penis size matters
Girls talk and think about it constantly
Girls have no idea about inches.she thinks mine is like 8 or 9 now and is shocked to learn it’s only 7, barely.Honestly she thinks it’s 3 inches bigger now.

Hmm I’m worried why girls think average penises are small… Anyway.. Good post and yes, size matters

Well done on your progress so far, stick at it mate and you’ll continue to make steady gains, it’s all about commitment! Hopefully she’ll get used to your size over time, my girlfriend required some ‘stretching out’ to accommodate my new size, but now we have fantastic, mind-blowing sex every night! By the way, do you have any problems with penetration? I still have difficulty penetrating my girlfriend, especially from behind (doggy style), while in other positions I’m able to fully insert my penis.

Anyway, may your relationship be long and prosperous!

Penis size matters (to a certain extent), but a great deal of women look for the ‘primary qualities’ in men such as personality, how you present yourself (i.e. clothing, etc), a good sense of humour, and so on. I know a few women who don’t give a rat’s ass when it comes to the size of a man’s penis, provided it is hard, and stays hard, that’s all that matters to them. One girl, an old friend from school, made it perfectly clear to me that she would only go out with a guy who was of average size or above. She also said that there’s nothing wrong with average penises, but the level of enjoyment during sex is also determined by who she’s with, weather or not she really likes that particular individual, if he’s really funny, a caring and loving kind of guy, athletic, good looking, etc. Penis size doesn’t sum up a man as a ‘whole’, unless your a sex object to others. Life doesn’t revolve around penis size, yes, a bigger, harder dick provides increased pleasure for both partners, but then again, look around you, not everyone is perfect and yet you see hot women with ugly men, ugly women with hot men, it’s not all about physical appearance, a massive cock or big titties, individualism is what makes us what we are!

Ask around, ask women what they know about penis size, ask them for the honest truth and see what they have to say.

JMatrix Gunn, we have exactly the same size (7.6” BPEL BY 5.6” MSEG). I was wondering, does your girlfriend take your girth well? Do you think any more than 5.6” would be even better for her?

I ask because I’ve just started seeing an amazing Serbian girl. The sex is great, multiple orgasms, but I can’t help thinking maybe she could take even more girth. We do a massive amount of foreplay, and so maybe this is why she never experiences pain when I first penetrate.

I know of 3 girls with fairly large dildos. It’s kind of intimidating looking at them. Even if average is suitable, they are jabbing themselves with more-than-average pseudopenises.

Being a young person, or someone who isn’t looking for a relationship (i.e. fling, ONS, fuck buddies), is probably going to care more about his penis. Rightfully so, if someone is just a sex object, your physical qualities are going to play a bigger part in how a woman rates you.

Since this is a PE site, and I believe most (if not all women somewhere inside) care about penis size, I am going to say this:

Keep P.E. up, you’re doing a great job. Don’t worry about what she said about your old penis — you have a newer bigger and better one now.
And if you keep up you will be able to smash things and knock over buildings and shit.
Congrats on your gains and sexcapades. OBG. :D

I don’t really have a hard time penetrating although we have to use lube.she says that from behind it feels like I’m trying to go through her cervix so on EQ 10 days I have to be careful.I guess I should be happy that she now thinks I’m big but I’m a little upset that she had an issue with my past size.I never knew that.

If I knew that back then I would have crawled into a hole. In her defense,even though I was about 6 EBP at the start,that was at max boner,alone,kegeling with a bone pressed ruler.I was probably less during sex.I definitely had erection problems due to stress after my divorce.

I find it funny that she is shocked I’m only 7 inches.she thinks it’s a few inches larger! It is clear that women have no idea about actual size.so when they say 9 or 10 inches they really mean like 7 or a little bigger.this means that some ex of hers went around calling himself 8 when he was like 6.5 and so she thinks mine is more than 8.

So I guess if anyone out there feels bad about the ex that was 9 inches, don’t.it was probably much less and you can get there with PE

If the sex is great, why get any bigger? But then again it’s entirely up to you. However, if I were you I would stay where I am and concentrate on cementing my gains, followed by some form of maintenance routine. Your a perfect size for your girlfriend, why change that? But you want to see how much she can handle, girthwise, right?. Go ahead, perhaps she’ll adjust over time to accommodate your ever-changing dick, or one possibility is that she leaves you because the sex is too painful. It’s your decision.

I can almost guarantee it was your erection problems that she was concerned about at the beginning of your relationship. Reliably hard dick = big, awesome dick to most girls. Remember, if your dick was at all soft, it was probably compressed to about half its size when inside her. Congrats on your gains in EQ and in size :)

I see what you’re saying, and would definitely agree. However there was one night where I did a manual clamping session(only clamped for 2 minutes maximum each time) before sex. While clamped I increased to around 5.8” mseg.

Having sex with her after, she obviously felt it as it first went in; I could tell by her expression. However the sex was amazing as usual, not much discomfort at all. The problem is I don’t know what my girth actually was during the sex. I would think probably still less than 5.7”…:-k

But anyway, as for the thread topic. I would say don’t feel offended dude. It wasn’t a personal thing, because when you at that average size, and she was a little disappointed, it’s surely a “fault” or at least special preference of hers, since you were at the most common size there is.

Now that your size is much bigger, she thinks it’s enormous; your a lucky guy and should feel proud.

Sex will continue to get better with increases in both girth and length, but eventually, sooner or later, you’ll hit the upper limit of what your girlfriend can take (her physical boundary as it were), or you’ll reach a plateau after maxing out your potential growth / gains. Whichever comes first.

Congratulations on improving your sex life with PE!

Another satisfied TP customer.

Yeah I’ve experienced this a couple times, back in high school, a girl I slept with told her friends I was at least 8, when I was basically 6, but hey, I didn’t complain, I just winked at all her friends knowing to myself it wasn’t even close lol

And my current girlfriend thinks it’s over 8 and routinely calls it huge, but I’m getting there, .5 gain in 3 weeks so far, :P

Congrats on your gains and new girl ;)

e211, I am really happy for you, keep up the good work. One other thing, please read the Forum Guidelines. We use 2 spaces after a period. I know, but we have rules and everybody here has to use them. Take care.

Jeez man, NEVER correct a gal when she overestimates the size of your dick! Just smile! ;)