Is it possible to jelq too slowly?

I used to try to do 3 second jelqs but this always gave me an erection. In order to continue jelqing for 20 minutes I have to grip tightly and slowly move my hand up, letting all the blood drain slowly from the upper portion of my penis. Now each jelq takes 15 - 20 seconds. Is there any way to desensitize my penis or is this slow jelqing OK?

15-20 seconds seem way too long to do one jelq stroke. If you’re having trouble not getting an erection when doing faster jelqs, maybe you should masturbate an hour before to desensitize your penis first. After awhile, your body should get accustomed to knowing the difference between jelqing strokes and masturbation strokes. Also, if you have a tendency to get an erection while jelqing, you could just stop until your dick becomes flaccid/semi-flaccid again, then continue jelqing once more.

Peforeal

Yeah seems way too long… I’m assuming your looking for length? Try what peforeal said about desensitizing before you :jelq: BTW I do that same technique about an hr before I use my traction device as well and it works fine.

It takes too long, try to find a way to desensitise your penis, for instance masturbate before a jelqing session.

My penis is very sensitive even when I am not touching it. It can get hard at random times and it is sometimes embarassing when it is in public. Other that masturbating all the time, is there a longer lasting solution to desensizing my penis? I think the major cause for my frequent erections is because my penis is so small. If it were bigger it would take more blood and effort to make it errect and therefor would not happen as often.