Is mine big enough to please a woman?

I’ve been reading the forums here and came across another members post who was depressed about not seeing gains after just starting PE. He was worried about not being able to please a woman with his penis. I just joined the forum to respond to this member. Unfortunately I cannot find the post now. But what I have to tell him probably could be said to many members.

Here’s my story. A long time ago I dated a girl who just got out of a long term relationship with a guy sporting 12” (yes I saw the pics, and these freaks of nature do exist). It was quite obvious my 6 inches wasn’t doing much (literally throwing a pencil down a well). I started PE and hit my routine aggressively. I gained 1” in length in 7 months. I realized I would never be a 1 footer and stopped. I then started doing research on the female orgasm and how to really please a woman. After educating myself on the how to’s, I was able to give her orgasms she never experienced with her ex.

For you guys that think all it takes to please a woman is a huge penis to hammer away at her, you couldn’t be more wrong. Women are not like men. Their orgasms are more about a connection with their partner (spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical). If a woman isn’t connected to her partner, chances are she will not have an orgasm.

If you want to satisfy a woman but you think your penis isn’t big enough to do so, there are several things you can do. First and most important.. TAKE YOUR TIME DURING SEX!! Its not a race. Make sure your partner is comfortable. Give her a massage. Talk to her.. Find out what she likes. DON’t SKIP FOREPLAY! Being the gentleman that I am, my rule has been “women cum first”. If she doesn’t then I don’t deserve to either. Learn how to perform oral sex properly. It’s a totally different orgasm for a woman. Learn the biological make up of the vagina. There are a multitude of things going on down there, each thing you stimulate has a different affect. Learn how different positions can stimulate these areas no matter what your penis size is. A slight change of your penetration angle can make your penis feel larger to her. If your goal is really to please a woman, then listen to her and know how to read her. If she doesn’t seem like she’s in the mood then stop because she probably won’t have an orgasm (and you’ll probably take it personally and kill your self esteem). Any guy can easily become the best sex partner a woman ever had. You just need to stop thinking with and about your dick.

The thing women are most attracted to is confidence. A big penis will give you confidence, but so will giving a woman an orgasm (or two, or three) every time your with her.

You may ask why am I here then. Well.. I enjoy a tighter feel. And after my wife had a few kids, things aren’t what they use to be. So I’m working on making sex more enjoyable for myself and I’m sure my wife wouldn’t mind either.

So your story beginns with a girl that comes from a 12 inch guy? lol didnt read the rest.
Whole story now is useless as she simply lied to put you down(that worked ;( )

So you are at 7 inches. You are far above average.
Learn how to please a woman. How to hit her spots. How to arouse her.
Know how to use your tool(most dont know how) and if you want to then start PE with a newbie routine.

There also is something called vagina tightening that your wife can look into. Just google it.

Thanks Dickerschwanz for the advice.. But if you would’ve continued reading you would’ve seen that I learned a lot more than using just my tool.. This post wasn’t me looking for advice it was giving advice. And yes.. He had about 12” for real. I saw the pics she had saved. Being a tradesman I’m pretty accurate at estimating lengths. But what you said is right and fits with the remainder of my post.

Gprent.. NEVER EVER TELL A WOMEN SHE’S LOOSE! They are the complete opposite of men. We want women to tell us we’re big .. They want men to tell them they’re small. Telling a women she needs to tighten up her vagina is like telling them they need to lose weight. And since I’m doing it for my pleasure why shouldn’t I do the work.

Ok read it and you make good points. The 12 inch dick though is hilarious lol .

Would probably be the biggest on this planet.

Biggest I ever seen.. Its kinda like spotting bigfoot. Though anything that big is pointless really. She could only use half of it and he really couldn’t do anything but lay there and let her be in control (So she said).

The girth is what wrecked her.. And it was very noticeable.

You mean the huge girth was enjoyable or not?

I had once a similar experience, a girl I wanted to sleep with had been previously with a black guy whose dick was like a third leg (my gay friend discovered in the urinary). I eventually backed out. It was stupid of me.. With a normal dick I have made very big women cum without a problem. The thing is.. Are orgasms as pleasurable with smaller dicks as they are with big dicks?

Was that guy black too? Could he ever make her cum?

Btw, your PE career is nice, 1 inch in 7months is cool. Why did you stop it and what was your routine?

Quim92..

She said she didn’t enjoy sex with him but they were together for 5 years. I think she just said that to keep me from being insecure. I’m sure she learned to enjoy it somewhat.. He was a goofy little scrawny white guy. Definitely a genetic mutation.

A 12” penis in a picture? That’s spurious at best.

Your current size is more than enough if used properly.

You can contest the validity of what I saw all you want. I know what I saw.. I know what it left behind.

Why would she lie? Then she lies also about the fact that you make her orgasm like nobody else before?

I don’t even get how one can come with that junk inside, there has to be some motion, that sounds like you just get stuck.

Well, it’s a good thing that the size of a guys penis is a minutely important aspect of a woman’s selection criteria, or they’d all be out looking for the anomalous guy with a 12 incher. Here’s something to consider, and perhaps a better marker of what is important- a woman who has her head together will be more interested in selecting her partner based on his ability to care for and protect her. Can the guy provide, is he smart, can he be a good dad if and when the time ever comes. Dick size is of inconsequential importance.

A question for you- does you wife know you are self conscious, and if so why did she allow you to see/stumble upon her ex’s penis?

Just to clarify.. I’m 42 years old, happily married with 3 children and very secure in my manhood. I have no reason to lie about someone else’s penis. People are acting like 12” is impossible. I have known of 3 other people in my lifetime who rumor has it have a 12” penis as well. I can’t validate those claims though because as I said it was rumored. But as for the guy my ex dated I can vouch for him, as I seen multiple photos of him on her computer.

The only reason I joined the forum is because I read some guys post who seemed extremely depressed about his size and didnt think he could ever please a woman. My sole intent was to advise him and any other guy going through these insecurities. So to call a new member a liar who is only trying to help is just juvenile and unnecessary. If you don’t believe that part of my story then fine, but don’t let that take away from the rest of the message (for those who actually read the entire message).

Signing off.. First and last post. Good luck and be proud.

Who took the pic and are you sure its not photoshop? This cock dwarfed mandigo? Are you sure it wasnt a 8-10” cock on a slim guy?

It left a huge crater?