Is your penis big enough? Or not?

Maybe I didn’t get the point (English is not my first language).
Your reasoning is: a girl likes only big penises so she is superficial?

Yes.

It’s not that weird to come to that conclusion. Are gold-diggers superficial? Of course not! They just prefer rich men.

To be fair, if a girl was much more interested in the penis than the guy attached to it, and was choosing the guy based just on his penis, I’d say she was likely to be quite superficial. A guy who is just after a woman for her body and doesn’t care about anything else would be quite superficial too. It seems to be a slightly more acceptable trait in men than women.

Some girls may have big vaginas, as such maybe they didn’t experience as much pleasure with average penises and so they seek larger ones. They may or may not be promiscuous, but the big vagina is not likely a consequence of that (they aren’t mutually exclusive).

Sizes vary for them just like they do for us. I WILL say that the downside is there hasn’t nearly been as much research done on vaginal sizes as on penis sizes. And many times (although not always) you’ll find that the woman who is a size queen is really just trying to find someone that fits her own larger size but doesn’t realize that her want may be just as much as a result of her physiology as that of her past smaller and maybe less satisfying partners. We (as a society, in the media, among friends, in bar talk, etc) tend to lay the blame at guys for “not being big enough”, when it could easily be the woman who is too big, or a combination of the two.

Slamosaurus: if you say they’re superficial because what they do (care of a man just the penis) is the definition of superficial i totally agree.

Firegoat: but I’d like to differentiate superficial from whore. I mean in my opinion you can’t judge a girl just because in a moment of her life choose not to have deep relationships. Obviously everything depends. I believe it’s the way you do something that defines yourself. A superficial girl has to be more conscientious and careful than a man not to be judge like a whore.
There’s also the possibility as J_izzo said that maybe the girl just has a vagina that fits better with a larger penis that gives her a lot more pleasure so that’s in someway a “need”.

Very nice input Firegoat! I have the same woman now for 15 years, married for 8 years and my experience is that how good the sex is is all in the head of the lovers. You can have a 10 cm long penis and be the best lover in the world for your woman. If you can get her out of her head ( focusing on only you and the feeling of the sex ) and highly aroused and you are able you self to be in the moment the sex will be fantastic in most cases.

In my case I do PE because I feel good doing it. It has helped my confidence around other men in for instance looker rooms. I am a grower so in flaccid mode my little friend tend to go to hibernation and disappear behind the fatpad.

My woman doesn’t really care for my size. She has been struggling with her weight and it has been difficult to get her out of her head when we have sex. A woman that worries about her body is hard to get highly aroused in my experience at least. After I have started PE again sex has improved. Somehow I manage to get her more in the moment with me. I think it has to do with my confidence and my feeling of having a harder erection.

Anyway. Well put Firegoat! / Soulmedeep

There are long vaginas you know. Just saying. Let’s be fair.

@bill10, yes of course. I didn’t trash big penis. I just stated that its a factor in real life that is not that important as mostly guys believe. It is by far more importance to know what you are doing. Having a big penis is another ballgame than having a smaller penis. Both requires its own craftsmanship so to say. / Smd

I know you didn’t. I am just saying if you have big feet you need big shoes to be comfortable.

Otherwise you can walk barefeet, meaning no shoes at all or use slippers, not to comfortable for every activity.

Shallow example, but I think you get my point.

I can’t believe I am actualy standing for women…Anyway…

Well put! This is one reason why many of us have ended up here. But I’m glad I did. This site has given me so much more than just a size increase.

Very well written post Firegoat.

Agreed. One of the best posts I’ve read on this forum on this subject. Kudos to Firegoat.

I’m glad that people revived this old post. It is quite an excellent read that every member of this community should read.

-Jazz Hands

Thanks for the compliments on the post guys. It’s weird that I have written over 13000 posts and pretty much remember every one of them when I come across them, but I’d totally forgotten writing this one until I just re-read it! :D

I like the comparison to breast size. Average boobs are good enough. Bigger boobs keep getting better. Until they get too big, and then I’d rather they be average.