Jelqing erection level Problem

I did do a search before posting this, just couldn’t find exactly what I am looking for. So when I’m jelqing (wet overhand) I can’t seem to get a high enough erection level to my liking. I had one session where the erection level was perfect and I have never been able to obtain this feeling since then. So I guess I’ll try to describe what’s happening better.

When I am erect enough to push the blood I will do about 1-3 jelqs and then I lose that ideal erection level. After I lose it and continue jelqing it just feels like I am stretching the skin and I get the doughnut effect pretty bad. It just feels like I am filling up a water balloon and the bottom starts to get full and sag but the top isn’t even remotely engorged. I’ve tried using visual stimuli but that doesn’t seem to help. Oh, and I normally have a high EQ, except during jelqing.

Anybody else have or having this problem? Suggestions our welcome and appreciated. Thanks

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Some guys find that their erection level increases if they jelq straight down. If their E. level is too high they jelq upwards. Might help?

Thanks. I’ve tried a bunch of different angles and I just can’t keep erect enough. I don’t think I am squeezing too hard, because if I go any lighter I don’t even feel like I’m pushing anything around, just stretching the skin it feels like. Also, if I work it up to a high enough erection and do just one jelq I pretty much go flaccid, well with some pump, but nowhere near erect maybe just 30%. Maybe I am just squeezing too hard. Any help would be much appreciated.

Perhaps you are squeezing too hard. It’s okay to use porn to remain aroused. I don’t really know what else to suggest. Most people have the opposite problem with jelqing. What kind of lubricant are you using?

Thanks for trying to help, I do use use porn to try and stay aroused. Oh, and I use petroleum jelly.

I’m new to this too mate and from my own experience with jelqing ( and having the same problem as you are ) I’ve found a way to get the same or similar effect as having the desired erection quality. I could have perfect EQ for the jelq one minute and 15 strokes later it’s no more than a semi, but what I do is one kegel rep between each alternation of hands when you jelq that forces blood into the penis giving it a harder feel. Also after 20 strokes or so ill give it a quick yank just to get it a little aroused. Hope this helps!

Oh and yeah squeezing too hard could also be a problem. I read on a post yesterday someone made that you should imagine you have a stick dipped in runny honey and your “OK” grip is tight enough to wipe the runny honey from the stick- apparently that’s how tight your grip should be. There shouldn’t be any pain or discomfort when jelqing but you should be able to notice the veins in your penis becoming larger and more engorged the closer to the head you get. If after jelqing also, you get spots on the head of your penis that is a sign of squeezing too hard as your are rupturing the capillaries in the penis.

Thanks for the replies. I’ll try the kegel thing tonight, and I’ve had no spotting so I don’t know if I’m squeezing to hard or not.

Try using an oil. Olive oil works very well. It should let your hand slide over the skin more easily, hopefully so you can apply less pressure.