Large hands make it difficult to jelq

Hi Everyone,

This is my first post. Thanks to everyone who has contributed. Its been very enlightening.

I have a problem I haven’t been able to find a solution to. My hands are quite large compared to the size on my penis, especially the girth. I find it difficult to start the ok at the base and then even to cross over the hands. More importantly I absolutely cannot get a tight grip around it, ok or v. I am just really clumsy with my hands on it. I absolutely cannot do a stroke of 2 to 3 seconds. I hope to be able to once I gain a little length and girth. The best I can do now is use my fingers. I have been using a double hand method where I use my thumbs on top and my index and second fingers at the bottom and simultaneously stroke out from the base towards the glans. The force is quite intense and depending on the erection level and the squeeze can leave some soreness. I try to go easy though. I’ve been working for three weeks. I remember reading somewhere that there is a nerve somewhere along the top of the shaft. My questions are as follows: Is the fact that I have to place quite intense pressure along the top with my thumbs to compensate for the lack of even pressure around the whole member be dangerous and possibly harmful for this nerve? Secondly, how effective could this method be? Thirdly, what is the right way to work with my large hands and fingers?

Thanks,

Biroli

1. Try to avoid heavy pressure on the top of your penis just below the glans (head).

2. If you are getting good expansion and it feels as though you are pushing blood up your penis, creating a ‘pressure wave’ then it should be effective.

3. You’ll have to experiment. Work on getting the right feel. If you imagine a smooth stick dipped in runny honey, then imagine trying to use your hand to ‘squeegee’ (remove) the honey and leave the stick clean, it gives an idea of the feel you are looking for.

Welcome to the forum, and good luck with your gains.