last too long during sex?

In general, if you go in slow, you will slide past the cervix painlessly for her. Thats if you are long enough to reach the cul de sac. It doesn’t have to be super slow, just slow enough for your dick to contact the cervix and slide off of it into the cul de sac.

Many times, once your in it…you will tend to stay lined up for it…but a little experience will quickly let you know.

If she is flinching, just go slow.

Many times, once I’m in a particularly good spot in her cul de sac (she goes crazy) I will just stay in it and rock my pelvis.

This doesn’t give much in and out, but pressure, release, pressure in that area.

Because I’m not going in and out, just rocking, I keep my place, but yet the stimulation for her is the same as going in and out…but not losing my place at that spot.

If you go fast and just pound her…chances are you can end up hitting the cervix, which then get pushed up and can jostle the ovaries…painful for her!

Beside the slow buildup really allows most women to cum really hard when they do orgasm.

I think the attitude (like grx says) is don’t chase a woman’s orgasm….just ENJOY the woman…slow down and just enjoy making love to her…don’t try and push her into an orgasm… let the orgasms slowly build, then explode.

As you get better at this, you can get her right up to it, then let her down a little.

Repeat that a few times and you will have her begging you to fuck her harder.

Just don’t lose your head and start chasing her orgasm, or you may end up with a pissed off gal (unable to cum after all that teasing).

Just let it slowly build up again, but this time keep a slow steady pace and let her go over the falls.

If she has some favorite dirty talk, thats the time to throw it in! :)

I have a similar issue. I’ve gone for up to 2 hours.4

Going slow helps you as much as her. Focusing on rubbing your underside near the head will help you.
Taking a break to eat her for a while will turn up her heat a bit (sometimes even better if she comes and then you restart). But just pounding for an hour is probably not good.

And of course fantasy or fetish on your part can help you. Your brain is your most important sex organ.

I’ve never fucked someone with my brain. Odd.

The cul-de-sac, huh? That’d explain some stuff. If I thrust too hard, I tend to find my girl flinching and saying she gets pain over to either side. She always said I was hitting the cervix (I agreed) and that there’s no reason to go past that. Ahh, but now there is. It’s funny, because there are times when she’s REALLY horny, and I go in slower, I can push all of me inside of her and she loves the feeling. The second I pull out and try to go in too fast though, it hurts again.

So a friend had told me there’s a spot behind the cervix. Is this the case? You go around it? I figured there was ONLY the cervix, one really closed up hole, that you will not penetrate, no matter what. Now it makes me sense, if you can go AROUND it.

Of course, getting around it may require a certain angle and such, yes?

For those who have hit their womans sac (hahaha, woman sac :rolleyes: ), did it seem to get them to respond better than clitorali or g-spot stimulation, or what?

Hitting the cervix can jar the ovaries ( that pain to either side)this is similar to getting hit in the nuts.

Just go slow and slide past it…she will usually really enjoy that.

You’d have to go through it, which won’t happen. When you get there though, you might feel it. Sort of like butting your glans up against a soft pencil eraser. This hurts some women, pleasures more women, though. In the case of an ovarian cyst or infection, stroke shallowly, unless you’ve been told not to have intercourse at all for awhile. My ex had an infected ovarian cyst - during our honeymoon; what fun. We read a lot by the hotel pool.

Would be a good excuse to get her to give you anal if you ask me, lol.

I have to agree with the brain part of another post, if you can go on for hours, you must not be into it mentally or she doesn’t do it for you. Pounding away for hours has to have desensitized you in and of itself and had nothing to do with jerking off or whatever else you may have done. I have to laugh, most women think they make their men cum, and for the most part they probably do. But, if they only knew that some of the time we were fantasizing about the sex with them as being infinitely better than it really actually was/is. Hey I know they fake it or fantasize just the same about it too, I could care less, sometimes great sex is about being selfish for a moment for the guy to get off. Be honest with yourselves, how many times has the session just been about beating off into a female body and any female body would’ve done ? I know it sounds callous and cold, but it happens that way, that’s life.

Maybe I am the only one, but this is completely wrong in my case. I don’t think I could use a woman in that way - I personally wouldn’t have sex with anyone that I didn’t love and wouldn’t ever be selfish, if I knew the woman wasn’t enjoying it as much as me then I don’t think that I could get off from it, lol.

Looks like you’re a far better man than I am on more than one occasion. This isn’t the norm, but if you mean to tell me that every woman that you’ve ever done has taken you to that euphoric place without you closing your eyes and fooling yourself with a mental psyche out, I have to call you out on this one. I’m not putting up Wilt Chamberlainesque numbers for sexual encounters, but I have been through enough to know that every situation has been different. I’ll say there have been times I performed/did my part out of sense of duty and obligation, to keep the times when it’s the other way around or when both of us are frisky that way, open. Libidos do coincide, and it would be wonderful if every encounter worked out that way, to suggest it does is unrealistic, even to suggest that one individual is that locked in, to that one partner is myopic. Look at all the failed marriages and relationships, I can’t be the only one and that goes for both sides of the equation. It’s called a “booty call” and I didn’t coin the phrase or have the market cornered on the concept. I was raised like you suggest (a monogamopus relationship), real life experiences have morphed me into this other conceptual lifestyle as a reality and matter of fact. Don’t get me wrong, it takes an act of God for me to be unfaithful and indulge in infidelity. But after a couple of times of going through the how could you leave/cheat on me victimization role play. What is there to gain ? It happened just the same and nothing can change it. Does it make anyone a better person for not being the one that was the infidel ? At the end of the day the score is the same and it doesn’t matter how you play the game.

I’m currently the emotional tampon for such a relationship that ended in infidelity, She was cheated on and now I have to deal with a friendship after that train wreck. I gladly do it as a friend, but I wind up being the spokesman for the male of the species. At times I feel like Ari Fleischer or Scott McClellan.