Hi All. I’ve been a long time lurker and have experimented a bunch with the exercises and strategies from time to time, but for whatever reason have never committed to a regular PE schedule.
At 5.7” BPEL / 5.8” BPFSL / 5” girth, I guess my measurements are pretty average. My EQ has always been pretty great. I’ve been with several women and received legitimate surprise and compliments about how hard I get. I don’t really have a complex about my penis size and my wife doesn’t really care, but every so often find myself wishing it was a bit bigger for both my sake and hers.
I am now almost 32. I swear things are generally shrinking and not quite performing as they once were! I have more “small days” lately (where I go to take a piss or get in the shower and just kinda get bummed at the visuals) and the strength of my ejaculation is not what it was years ago.
No more am I willing to be a PE wannabe! This past Monday I started a bit of a primer routine I am devising and documenting on-the-go in order to get a bit conditioned and comfortable with an ongoing regimen. I plan to continue this for a couple weeks and expand on it based on the wealth of information on the forums. By June 1, I plan to be totally invested.
Right now, I have three short-term goals I would like to see by ~mid Dec 2015 - one is measurable, the other two are a bit subjective.
1. Length (measurable): I’d like to see measurable length gains. I am not yet in tune enough with my body to project a specific 6-12 month goal, but I am going to length over girth at this point. I gather length is easier to obtain when girth is lower, which is another reason for this as my #1 goal. Also, it’s just a personal preference that I place the length gains over girth right now. I am curious to see if my wife notices or cares about the gains.
2. Ejaculate: I’d like to see more “power” and “distance” in my ejaculations. When I was younger I could shoot it from one end of the shower tub to the opposite wall no problem. Lately it’s between a dribble and travelling a short distance. This one is purely selfish as I find it feels better with more power behind it. Also the visuals of it improves the experience if I am not doing it inside my wife. I have already realized improvements here through semi-regular kegels, but have room for improvement and aim to see more consistency.
3. Sac: This might be weird, but I would like to have more free-hanging balls when erect achieved through stretching and kneading the scrotum. Currently, my balls really get pulled up close to my penis when erect, sometimes to the point where one slips up inside my body. Most times, this isn’t a big deal but if one slips up inside it can hurt from “impact” during sex and I have to pop it back out by pulling out and pressing gently on the pubic pad. Also, sometimes when it’s hotter during the act I do hang lower and experience what it’s like to have them swing a bit, which is nice.
Any feedback or encouragement along the way is appreciated, but not expected! I thank each and every person who has ever posted a question, helpful content, personal journey, or gains progress on this forum. It has given me the courage and knowledge to get started on my PE journey in earnest!