Losing touch with reality

Hi

I have a weird feeling looking at some studies about averages, some say 12.5cm long is average, others say 15cm.
Most graphs show 20 cm, is the big area,

But I am lately measuring 20.5cm bone pressed, yet my penis looks really small in full body photos. I mean ridicule small.

I have 1.5 inch of fatpad so non bone pressed it´s more like 17 or even less cm… but regardless, how can something considered good size appear so ridicule?

Also it feels unimpressive in my hand … it´s nothing notable.
So I tend to think those averages studies must be poorly performed, maybe pressing the bone too little or not having good erections in the clinic… .I dont know
Most people in the forums are more like 6.5-7 inch on average, not 5….

So what is it? are those studies a conspiration to make dudes feel good or what?

You have a good dick don’t worry. Some things you can’t change in life but dick size you can

Iowa,

You are falling into the rabbit hole brother.

Why do you want a bigger penis?

So many very large members here suffer from this dysmorphia. Including me, sometimes it just looks small.

Don’t get sucked into the incremental differences between the sizes of our cocks.

It brings such little value to ultimately pleasing a woman.

As a matter of fact, the farther you chase this rabbit the more likely a woman will be dissatisfied by ones lack of self confidence.

You see, a woman standing next to man concerned about his cock size will become of her self concerned with who she is, as that becomes the message. “We are not good enough.”

When a woman stands next to a man that shows no fear and believes he can succeed regardless of physical stature, this empowers her to also succeed regardless of her own self perceived shortcomings.

This raises her up and she will walk from big cock every time.

Long story short, she opens up and great sex becomes the reality.

I’m a horny dude, every relationship I have ever had has been about the women wanting to come back for more.

Little Engine is telling you the truth.

You can’t start bending the rules of reality to suit an increasingly unlikely supposition that your penis is small.

The ruler is objective. Your eyes and hands will lie even after you’re over 8 inches. So…don’t do this. It’s a mental issue that about 90% of us suffer from.

No matter the size I believe the majority of us have dysmorphia about ourselves. Just remember your penis is just an extension of you. I’ve been with women that could care less, all they wanted was to share the experience.

thank you everyone

Hey lowe.

I understand you. It’s easy to lose track of reality when you compare yourself with the 1%. In fact, bone pressed you are larger than 99.7% of men in the world.

You seem to put a lot of empathy on what others think. Screw that. Obviously it’s healthy to check yourself if you are poor, out of shape, small duck. But we know for a fact you at least have a huge dick. And you can improve your situation.

You could even be the happiest guy in the world right now, if you wanted to. Just read “mans search for meaning”. The story of victor frankly and how he survived concentration camps in auswitch.

“He who has a why to live for, can bear with almost any how.”

What do you think are twenty good qualities about yourself? Write them down. Seriously. Write them down. Remind yourself every time you think like this.

It’s helped me and I know it’s helped others.

thank you… I think the problem comes whith a lack of meaning indeed…
Thank you everyone for good advice

We have the same length. Sometimes it looks very big to me and others not that impressive.

I think a big reason for our semi body dysmorphia is our false perception of what is defined as big. In our minds we think that we have to be over 9 inch nbpel to consider ourselves big. Although you don’t need a monster size to be big.
For example Chris Strokes has big a penis, but it’s not even close to Julio Gomez or Mandingo.

Agreed.

At 7.5/7.75 x 5 I feel so small when I look down or see myself in the mirror. I see a small and thin penis. My wife says otherwise.

+1

When you are bigger, a given penis size looks smaller relative to the rest of your body.

A 7 inch penis looks gigantic on a small man, but tiny on a big man.

I’m pretty big and as a result even 9 inches looks average on me.

You may have a cognitive issue with accurately viewing your body, but being overweight will cause your penis to look much smaller relative to your body.

Often, people with problems accurately assessing their own body appearance can see accurately using photographs of themselves or using two mirrors to see themselves without the reversing of their own image. Most of us have trouble assessing our actual appearance in the way of apprehending that we appear **more** attractive than we think, and this experiment can be particularly stressful. Try it at your own risk.