Originally Posted by 32quarters
Wanting to have sex a lot means having a good/high sex drive. Wanting to have sex a lot but being unable to get an erection or keep an erection means you have some form of ED. Physical ED is the “permanent” kind; understanding that stress, relationship issues, poor health and similar can yield a non permanent/temporary or “situational” type of ED which can be overcome.
Well I hope it is something that can be overcome, although I have been experiencing it pretty bad for the last 5+ years. I’ve had to use ED drugs since a bit before then, but sometimes don’t need them. I really do hope it’s something in my mind and not some physical issue that stops me from maintaing my erections. It takes me forever to get one these days and constant stimulation to maintain after that. Most of the time, if not all, I’m sitting on the verge of ejaculation (like edging almost) because this is the only time it gets hard enough for penetrative sex. As you can imagine this is very difficult at times and very mentally taxing/draining.
Even with ED medication this is the same, however it makes things slightly easier, and buys me slightly more time if stimulation is interrupted.