Negative effects of masturbation.
I’m single at the moment, and not getting any action (6 months +) and in order to keep everything down there working, as well for my needs, I masturbate daily. Today I realized that I am screwing myself over. Let me explain. When I masturbate, I usually just want to “bust a nut” before heading off to work and getting on with my day. So I usually do this in the shower, but here is the problem - I try to do this as quickly as possible.
I masturbated today and I realized the pattern: I would take a little while to get an erection (2 or 3 minutes), but almost as soon as I get 100% hard, I ejaculate about 10 seconds later. Now I’m freaking out as I’m thinking the next time I do have sex, will this also be the pattern?? I’m training myself to come quickly!!
The last time I had sex was with my ex, and that was a long-term relationship. I would usually last for quite a while. Since we broke up, I haven’t had much action, and no sex.
Any thoughts on this situation? I guess my first step is to masturbate less frequently…