New Here, mainly After Better Erection Health And Flaccid Enlargement

Hi,

I’m new here. I’m your typical embodiment of a grower not a shower. It’s not big at all when flaccid (looks like a child’s penis) but on erection it’s around 6 inch BPEL, and over average girth right in the centre (around 6 inches, but only in the centre). I’m 45yo, and it bothered me a lot growing up, I had hang ups over it due to seeing porn as a teenager, so gave me a false impression of what a man should look like.

Being in a loving relationship now, I’ve learned it doesn’t matter at all - my partner couldn’t care at all. But I’m here to hopefully learn to use extenders to get a longer flaccid state, and to improve erection quality. I was single for so long that I get performance anxiety on penetration sometimes (but not when alone - so annoying) and I’m working through the issues.

I must admit when I saw the scary warning about penis valve defect becoming permanent on PE I almost quit, but then I remembered that I did some PE in my 20’s (jelqing and heavy pumping) and I didn’t get ED so I think I’m cleared.

Thanks for accepting me as a member. Hopefully this is the right section for an introduction.

Welcome! You’re now hanging out with a bunch of wild and crazy guys.

You’re in a good starting place; you’re already above-average in erect size. Flaccid hang often improves with PE; you’ll have to experiment to find your personal limits.

At 45, you’re in the age range where EQ - erection quality - may start getting iffy. PE can often help that, too.

You’re absolutely not alone there. "Welcome to the club!"

It’s very rare. It’s also another good reason to start off easy and slowly ramp up intensity. It’s pretty common for newbies to try to yank their dick off going overboard with time and tension. Remember, when you’re recovering from an injury, your progress is zero.

It’s fine. When you can post in all sections, ask a moderator to move the thread to the "Progress Reports" section if you’d like to use this as the beginning of a progress thread. I recommend you do; sometimes it’s astonishing to look back and see how things were when you started.

I don’t have a lot of experience yet regarding enhancing EQ but from what I have experienced so far, low pressure pumping has been pretty remarkable.

I have just ordered a stealth for men innerwear that claims to help with flaccid length. I measured incorrectly and had to reorder, so I do not know if the product works, but I can say the customer service is excellent. ( stealthformen.com ).

Thank you so much for the warm welcome! And thank you so much for accepting me as a member

Re being over average when erect, it doesn’t feel that way because I’m overweight too (started at 200kg, now down to 117kg) so my fat pad is big unfortunately and takes away about 1.3 inch of erect length sometimes, but I’m working on it. Condoms are horrible for me though as it is extremely tight in the middle but if the condom comes down over the girthy bit in the middle it springs off. I actually thought I had small balls too but I bought some medical testicle measuring beads from Geekidoc and my nuts are normal thankfully.

Thank you re the take it slow advice, I need so much advice please - I have the Penimaster with weight kit and extender bars, and I have the phallosan forte. Every time I tried to use the penimaster I gave up, as my penis is small when flaccid, but the moment I try to put my penis head in the suction head of the penimaster, I start instantly getting an erection when my body knows I’m going to extend (for some reason it’s a subconscious turn on) and then it won’t fit in the plastic suction head and the head will half hang out. I tried to just do it anyway for 1.5 hours and got a great stretch, but when I took it off I had a huge blood blister on the top of my penis that took a week to heal. I want to figure these issues out. Thanks again.

Thank you, hmm what pressure is considered low if you don’t mind me asking and how long would I hold the pressure? I suppose I better buy a pump with a gauge, I’ve only got one without the gauge, a very cheap “handsome up” pump.

Thanks so much for sharing that, I’d never heard of it. I’ll give it a shot myself actually, I mean I don’t have a big flaccid bulge at all but I’d love a bigger one. I wonder if they even do my flaccid size. No joke my flaccid to erect ratio is about 1:5 when it’s cold (or maybe it hides in my body, I’m not sure).