New Member. Just saying hi. Question about basics

Hi yall!

I wanted to say hi. I found this place via a friend and wanted to get started my journey towards better penis health and functionality. I won’t bore you with the details but I am inspired to get my “dick” together going forward. I am a long time sufferer of performance anxiety, low self esteem, and lack of self confidence (not just in my dick and balls but in life. And I woke up recently during covid and finally felt the need to take responsibility.

My main sticking points is that I have issues with achieving an erection when it is go time. I have always struggled to have sex with women due to religious shaming and guilt about the sexual act itself, and also being a victim of sexual abuse. I am in therapy and it is working out. I’m hoping to re-lose my virginity next year.

Being older I am concerned I miss the boat (I am 33).but I learned in therapy that the best time to plant a tree is when you are young and the second best time is now. With that said here are my goals with this site.

Size: Despite my lack of experience, I am fine with my size (8 1/2) and thickness. The women I’ve slept with all said I was more than well enough in that department.

Performance: My big hang up. My erection quality is not good. I want to make my penis harder and have my performance be consistent. I understand many of my issues are mental but I am searching for what can I do *now* to just improve the quality of my penis and my erections. Off the top of my head (and research) I noticed that quitting porn, getting a good night’s sleep, exercise, proper diet, meditation, a kegel routine, and a good supplement or two are essentials. Anything else I am missing? Also, what is a basic routine I should start now. Not so much for size increase but just improving erection quality?

Confidence: I lack it sexually but I feel that only comes with experience

Body issues: I want to accept my body as is (while working to improve it). I noticed that I always hesitate to pull the trigger when it is time to show off the cock and balls. I noticed I have a lot of shame about my nude body (and nude bodies in general).

Anyway, sorry for the long winded introduction but glad I am aboard. Thanks for accepting my membership!

While you’re most welcome to be here (Welcome!), it does sound like most things you mention are not exactly PE. Especially when you say that you like your length and girth. But, yes, one happy byproduct of PE is EQ.

Hey John, you’ve found the best place on-line for confessions, people here are amazing, I’m your opposite, often called cocky haha! I’m a show off, always been, this is sth you are, can’t be taught. Stick to what you are, unless you feel like changing, then do it.
I’m sure you’ll receive just compliments posting pictures here.
We all need improvement, what counts is to improve, we want results.
It doesn’t matter 8”, it matters improving it to it’s fullest, just as your body, your psyche, your sexual performance and goals.
Life is amazing and this place has iconic figures ready to help and throw out amazing advices at any matter in life, and best part always end with a penis conversation

Thanks. Yeah, I’m fine with my size but just want to have higher quality erections and more confidence in my cock.

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I’ve arrived where I want change. I am following “any thing a man believes he can become.” I just want to enjoy my life starting today.. With part of that being sex and my erections.

Looking forward to the conversation!

Good choice joining the game.
One and only rule to score as many girls as you want (from my point of view and expertise)
Women will want you for what you do, your profession stability, your hobbies and adventures, then looks, money, cocksize etc… And of course show off that sausage anywhere you can, people just love seeing a rocket being worked on