New Member, Some Experiences and Observations
Hello all!
This is my first post. I stumbled upon this site just about the time when I first read about PE: about one week ago. I must compliment the people that run Thunder’s and it’s general membership. When I first entered the site, I was expecting all manner of hogwash about penis enlargement. I expected the forums to be rife with sophomoric remarks, juvenile attitudes and pseudo-scientific nonsense. I couldn’t be more wrong. I’m thoroughly pleased to note that this is an amazing resource for those wishing to enhance the size of their penis. (As an unexpected, major bonus, I was thoroughly impressed with the fraternal atmosphere cultivated by the members. Bravo!) I can’t believe I’m in my late forties and never heard about some of these techniques! I mean, I’ve seen ADS for pumps and extenders, and occasionally read about exercises and such, but I never believed there was any real legitimacy to any of it. Although I haven’t tried any PE yet, aside from some Kegels, I’m convinced the techniques recommended on these boards must work. I just wish I had come across this information years ago!
Perhaps it took me so long to find PE because, although I’ve always wanted a bigger penis, I was never 100% paranoid about it. Sure, I’ve had some size anxiety over the years, but I always somehow understood that I was just about average. The way I looked at it, I wasn’t “big,” but I had a “good” size. I’ve had the wonderful fortune of attracting good looking/beautiful women all my life. I’ve slept with my fair share of lovely ladies. They ranged from one-night stands, to occasional lovers, to short-term/long-term relationships. (I’ve never engaged the services of a prostitute.) In that time, I’ve rarely come across any remarks that indicated the woman I was with thought I was “small.” (Of course, some might’ve actually thought so, but were decent [and smart] enough not say it.) I remember this one particular female I picked up on the beach years ago. I laid her within an hour or two of meeting her. After I came (which, as I recall, was very quickly), she made the most insensitive remark I can remember: “You’re not too big hard, and you’re almost invisible when soft.” It might’ve been meant as a stab at me because she felt I hadn’t cared to please her, but it was a vicious thing to say to a man. The funny thing is she wanted to see me again! Lol Fat chance, after that remark! Lol
Other than that, I’ve only heard very few remarks that might’ve indicated the woman I was with at the time thought I was on the small side. Frankly, I think some or all of this was interpreted by me as such. And that’s partly the purpose of my post: to point out that most of the men here, including myself, are overly concerned and sensitive about the size of their penis. I’ve seen several posts already where guys, with what I would certainly consider above-average sizes, thought they were somehow “small.” Last night took the cake. I read about a member named “Goldie,” who thought he was too small. Having seen his pictures, I almost sprayed my drink onto the computer screen when I read this! I couldn’t stop laughing! The guy is huge, even by porno standards. I wasn’t laughing at the man’s anxiety; I was laughing at the absurdity of these ridiculous notions we all seem prey to. (“Goldie,” if you’re reading this, I’m not trying to belittle you, man. You’re enormous, bro. I strongly advise you to see a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Your self-perception is way off. There’s a problem when being huge isn’t big enough, like the 95 lb. Woman that thinks she’s not thin enough.)
On at least three occasions that I can remember, people have commented on my lack of “bulge.” Two were men and one was a woman. The guys were breaking balls (no pun intended). The woman was just being a cunt. I must admit that all three hurt my ego to some degree, and I have no doubt that was the intention. I’ve particularly always felt I could use a little more “bulge,” but it really strikes home when someone says it out loud. I haven’t taken official measurements yet, but as of now, my BPEL is 6.25”, my MSG is 4.625 - 4.875 and my typical flaccid length is 3”. I’ve always had a tendency to “scrunch-up” inside my pants or underwear, causing my package to appear on the small side. I’m pretty sensitive to the cold, and my scrotum tends to withdraw along with my penis. I’m obviously a “grower,” but I’d love to be more of a “shower.”
Over the years, I’ve developed into quite a good lover. I attribute this to my concerns (however slight), that the woman I’m making love to might find me somewhat small, and my genuine desire to make my lover feel really good. Enthusiasm, technique, imagination, affection and consideration goes a very long way. All that stuff you read about what women really care about is all true, in my experience. Having a big penis doesn’t mean you’ll get laid and stay laid, certainly not with any quality women. Good women want to be pleasured, but sex is ultimately in the mind. This is even more true for them than it is for us. I guarantee you that a big penis is a bonus, at most, to good women. Never lose sight of the fact that growing a bigger penis is more for us than it is for them. Most of the guys here, myself included, are looking to upgrade from the Chevy to the Cadillac. But let’s not forget that Chevy makes a pretty good car, too.
If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. The main idea of my post is to thank you guys for your posts and to help get the message across that NO ONE here is “less than,” regardless of penis size. With that said, I want to wish everyone great luck in realizing their size goals. I completely understand the notion of wanting to be “more than average,” or even “just” average. See you around!
