Orgasm vs. PE success

Hi all fellow PEr’s,

This is my first post on here however I have been visiting the forums for a few months, and recently joined here. So on to my question. I am 18 years old, have been fascinated by PE since about age 15 and have tried several different techniques since then, I have even bought into the “Magic Pills” scheme. Well over the years I have never seen any gains and am wondering where my problem lies.
Do any of you have any insight or advice on whether the frequency of orgasm effects PE exercising. I have not masturbated in about 2 months, but my girlfriend and I usually have sex at least once a day, sometimes 2 or three times. We even have sex at least once during her time of the month. Could this, and my frequency to masturbate about 5 times a week in the past be effecting my gains, which are still 0. I have searched lightly through the forum looking to see if anyone else had touched on this subject and was unsuccessful in finding any info.
Also a few months ago I was living in NC with a roommate who one day commented on how some women want sex all the time, and will even want it twice a day. That seemed odd to me as I have been sexually active since age 14 and every woman I have been with thought nothing of having sex 2 times in a day. I thought it quite normal. All comments and suggestions are welcome. I’d love to hear all of your views on these matters.

Thanks

It sounds like you have a good woman, I doubt anything you describe have anything to do with gain rate.

If you describe your routine and exercises performed and so on, someone may be able to help. Could you elaborate a little more?

Well I am on week 2 after takingabout 3 months of from PE, I am following a mainly jelqing routine that I got from a paysite I purchased a few years ago. Basically I warm up with a rice sock for 6 minutes, Then do a simple stretch routine where you just pull out and hold for about a second and repeat 15 times in 4 directions. Then about 300 dry jelqs, I never had any luck with wet jelqs so I am trying just dry for now, unless I have some extra time in the shower. Then a 6 minute warm down. I usually do my routine at night around 12 am. So that is usually at least 4 hours after I have been with the lady. And yes I do believe I have a good woman, although if needed I don’t know if she would be so happy with abstaining from sex as often, she would probably question my motives as well heh.

Thanks

Perhaps you need to mix it up a bit? Trying different things is the key! There is no 1 thing that works for everyone. After you go through the newbie routine and get your dick conditioned, then you can move on to more advanced routines and see what works best for you. But no I dont think sex or masturbation hinder gains at all.

To what force do you stretch / jelq? You need to go outside the range of “comfort” but not so far that you cause damage.

regards,

I concur! Stimulating the penis a lot is going to increase blood-flow, etc. which will help induce penis growth if anything.

1. Sex or masturbation is not preventing you from gaining. Although I wonder how an 18 year old, who should be working or in school, has the time to fuck three times a day. :eek:

2. Manual stretches should last longer than one second. Try holding them for 30 seconds and do two complete sets (up, down, right, left, and straight out). Made sure you have a good grip (talcum powder, rubber glove) and grasp just behind the head.

3. Are your jelq strokes taking three seconds? Do you jelq at about 70% erect? Wet or dry should make much difference if you’re doing them correctly.

Ok, my stretches are very simple and short because the routine I am following has me doing the this way and I think next week I start 15 second holds and such for stretching. But I guess if I’m feeling very little fatigue I should try and make the exercise my own. Thanks

I dry jelq usually about 70% erect, my strokes are less than 2 seconds :( so I guess I am not doing them properly. Thanks again

And to answer your first question. I am pretty lazy for an 18 year old. I dropped out of Highschool a while back, went to college for a semester, and came back home. Now I am working with an online foreign currency trading program which gives me plenty of free time during the day, I do most of the trading during the day, and just set stops and losses. My gf still in HS gets out at like 3 and we usually hang out every day until about 9. Between then lies the time to fuck 2 times a day, and yes sometimes 3. :) Lol

Thanks for all your replies