Pumping While Starting Puberty?

My son is 13 and he knows what I do and really wants to get started. He’s concerned about his size and I told him your growing fine for your age and to stop watching porn because it’s not accurate and a lot of dicks are made to appear much bigger than they really are. By the time I was a teenager around 19 my penis was 7 inches long. I told him you’ll probably be around my size or maybe even bigger so don’t get discouraged you’re still growing.

Would it benefit a teenager to start pumping very slowly and cautiously all through their growth spurt? I would never let him do this by himself and I know that sounds weird but at least starting out I would make sure he’s being safe and everything is good. What are your guys thoughts on this?

I personally would not! Especially so young. I feel like any type of body modification should be attempted after you are done growing.

You never know what kind of affects this could have physically and physiologically. Maybe consult actual studies or a Dr for that one.

I am sorry I could not be more helpful, but I really feel it is something I would go forward with caution.

Also, maybe talk to him man. I am sure he is just growing. He does not need to be so young and feel he is too small.

Encourage him some. Like let him know he is average or big for his age… Idk. I wish you luck brother.

Just wanna add though, I am quite proud of your openness and relationship with your son. Props there.

My family shamed and never talked about sex or sexuality or masculinity. I think these are all KEY to make development. Please keep up the great parenting!!!

Maybe tell him to keep a log of his growth through puberty? Have him do things like simple manual stretches and whatnot for a time.

That way he can be included and feel he is IMPROVING himself and feel validated.

I know porn has a bad rep and it will be impossible to keep him from it. Maybe help him to understand the overall risks of porn to both his self image and sexual ability.

I know this is weird but he needs to know he is his own porn star. Masturbation is cool but maybe he could start edging at an early edge to help build stamina instead of focusing on gains.

Or focusing on other EQ based PE???

Anyways thanks for your openness my guy. Best of luck.

@ Mrcsmxx

Yea I agree man. I just wanted to what other people thought about it. Yea I definitely encourage him for sure and always lift him up. I want him to be able to talk to me about any and all concerns.
He just had a physical and the doctor said he’s perfectly normal in all areas so I reminded him of that as well.

That is great my guy. I feel that your openness will really help him out, as well as cutting down on the porn. I mean hel ANYTHING over 5” is bigger than average and if he is anything like you he is gonna be well above average and has nothing to worry about.

When he is older, by all means I feel you can introduce him to more PE related things but for now you got this and sound like you are doing the right thing!

Keep it up brother!

I dunno. Would strength training or karate fall under the “body modification” category? What about teenage girls getting implants, nose jobs, and lip fillers? It’s the fastest-growing market for plastic surgery now; almost nobody questions it. There’s also leg-lengthening surgery - again, mostly done on females - where they undergo fairly brutal procedures that can take most of a year, just to get an inch or two taller.

He might not ever *need* a bigger dick… but it could add some extra confidence during the years of schoolmate hazing and mate selection.

Downside: while Child Services would probably be 100% approving of him wanting to cut his dick off and having a surgeon build him a fake vagina, I’d make a modest bet that they’d emphatically disapprove of “penis enhancement.” It would be something a wise parent would tell him to stay quiet about.

… Ugh. You are SO RIGHT ANDY. That is a sad reflection of society over everything.

I hate the fake body modification craze of plastic and silicone personally. But I am also against body mods like circumcision or piercing ears of toddlers. It just is not cool in my book as it goes against what yo body can do or should do.

I DO see your point about hazing… Hmmmm… I feel like as a father Dracula, you will be able to make a good choice. I feel either way (especially under that thought) could be beneficial.

I guess like I said before. Start him with things like manual stretching and whatnot and then see if he is still interested after some solid dedication in that department.

Maybe after a year or two of manual THEN go to devices. But also encouraging him as a man always helps.

His brain is still developing, let his 13 untill 20 be living life, studying, working a little bit, meeting girls, sports, cinema, arts, books etc.

It is not good for him to be worrying about dick size at this age, because most likely his final penis size will be at 18~19 years old. He should worry now about having experience, until he gets to 20 and life knocks the door.

I have the strong belief that pumping will not give him any gains at all. Majority of men who pumps DON’T HAVE REAL GAINS, and that goes for a few reasons. To your son it may give him pleasure and a false sensation of dick growing.

I’d be more worried about it affecting his state of mind and painting a biased picture in his head, potentially, creating objectifying views on sex; before his character has fully matured.

I guess all the pressure they put on kids these days to choose who they are “right damned now” isn’t any better, but still. Seems a bit early to me. Then again, I was chasing tail and trying to grow my dick at 13, as it is. I spent years unscrewing my mind though.

As dad and mentor, you might be able to lead him on the narrow. That sounds like a difficult task though. I’d wait. If he finds it himself, then do what you gotta do.

If he’s going to public school, he’s already been thoroughly indoctrinated with sex since before he was old enough to do anything about it.

I suspect PE might be the only sex-related topic he hasn’t been taught several times over.

Jelqs and manual stretching only until adulthood. I’ve contemplated this with my son when the time comes and that is where I stand.

I have to say, your kid is at the age many of us regret not knowing about PE decades ago. He is definitely in his prime for it, and he will thank you for the rest of his life. Pumping, I do not think so. However, due to his hormones about to burst, he will MASSIVELY benefit from manual stretches and light jelq. In fact he, more than anybody, can have tremendous results with a traction device over the years. Remember, one of our biggest limitations is hormones and growth plates. This is just like growing height. Once you pass 20 pretty much, you cant grow height anymore. Before that, while your growth plates are still open, everything is growing in your body. Tendons, ligaments, joints, bones, cartilage, everything.

So to make a answer short, yes absolutely your kid must start PEing if you have that trust and friendship with him. This is not about being normal size or not, is about being big which the majority of men dream and countless women seek. Just not pumping. Manual stretches, very disciplined established routine, and if possible a traction device with light pull for as many hours as possible every day. Even a light hanging routine based on stress relaxation would do wonders to him. We resort today to methods such as Ultrasound to produce ECM re-organization, in his case he would naturally benefit from his own tissue behavior.

Now about porn, try to keep him away from it at all costs. Porn is evil, is poison for the brain, is just like cocaine or heroine. I will desensitize him with reality and twist his perception of women, love, caring, social skills.

He’s within the “window of opportunity” to get maximum results from PE.

And while I have no doubt it has been said by someone/somewhere, but I’ve never heard any man say, “Gee, I wish my dick was smaller.”

No porn first of all, terribly unhealthy at his age. Look at the 20 something year olds with ED and major issues. Its a nightmare.

I wouldn’t have him do anything except just masturbate as much as possible. Any injury or even strain or stress could fuck up his penis’s natural ability to grow to what its supposed to be. Blood pressure plays a major role, so what if his cock grows through manual work and his penis is supposed to grow due to genetics and something goes awry and he has bad EQ starting in his teens because his penis can’t inflate with blood the way nature intended it to?

Too young to care about that, what if his penis is naturally going to be 8 inches and he makes it so in the middle of his growth- problems going in all the way for the rest of his life.

I would tell him exactly this, but however if he is really small down there and it affects him negatively I would recommend gentle jelqing half flaccid, being in growth phase already just a tiny bit of exercise would probably go a long way.

However I would advise him to stop at six inches as he would continue growing his member even without exercises, and there can definitely be too much of a good thing.