Pumping While Starting Puberty?

I remember when I was 13 my friend bought a penis pump and I asked him to try to get me one. He said it’s bullshit anyway so I never did - probably a blessing because I would’ve hurt myself. I am, However, very curious to see how much a traction device would help. I bet if he used one consistently, he’s got a 10 incher by 18. Then start pumping for girth. He would be the real alpha at his school and all the big dick rumors would be about him. Just reality. If you go through with this, I would really like to know!

I would double down in saying that he is at the right time and the right place to do what we have all dreamed for: Start before puberty. He is at his prime to develop those tissues in the way that for us is impossible. All of us across the board have started too late. Ideally, every single man must start PE before puberty. We dont because of culture, taboos and other things. After all, a kid telling his classmates that his dad is teaching him how to exercise his dick, wouldn’t be consider normal. Although, male kids in female outfit is being pushed as normal.

Anyways, go for it and help him develop a strictly disciplined PE routine. When he is an adult, he will worship you in gratitude.

If I had added PE on top of my already voracious jerking off schedule at 13, I would have been playing with my dick all day, every day.

I would let him know that he has a perfectly acceptable unit and keep him focused on more of the other developmental skills that others have already mentioned.

Pushing PE so young can quickly result in a child feeling that their penis is not adequate, and that’s a shame because for 99% of them, they have all that is needed.

If he focuses on traditional fitness, fun with friends, and education, this will serve him best right now.

Young guys with surging testosterone can’t hold themselves back from thinking ‘more is better’, ‘harder is better’, which is the sure route to an injury. A penile injury at a young age, when someone doesn’t have the mental maturity to deal with it, has potentially severe mental health consequences.

All the better to have some sensible guidance from a parent.

If he turns to the web for information, you know where he’s going to wind up: shady commercial sites trying to sell him something, not-very-reputable forums, “coaching”, Reddit, Facebook… He might find Thunder’s, but unless he’s the studious type he’ll just glance at it casually and click off to one of the more exciting places.

If he starts clicking on anything even vaguely sex-related, eventually links and ads are going to come up directing him to skeevy sites with questionable information. He doesn’t have the background (yet) to separate the BS out.

Yeah I don’t see the benefit for a boy that young. I know we let kids do boxing and karate and play some sports, so sensible exercise is fine. But I don’t think, personally, that it’s reasonable to do any serious PE at that age. Penis hygiene is probably the most important, he can get into a routine when he’s more developed. Same as body building, probably just not good for a kid that age. Also, knowing my arse, I’d probably have over pumped and over done it when my parent wasn’t looking. It’s up to you mate, you’re his father, but I don’t think I’d let my son do that. Of course I wouldn’t let my daughter do lip fillers or implants at that age either. Just grow into who you are first imo.

…like I do now : )

Personally I think its wrong to even introduce your son to this. If he comes up to you in a few years when he is 18 and he told you he had a 4 inch dick and he feels sad because all of his friends have a 6 incher, I would agree you can introduce him to PE. But at this age he 100% will grow to (youre words) 7 inch and thats far above average. As for even introducing him to this site can cause him mental problems in the future. Lets be honest we are all fucked up mentally on this website because were are growing are penisses and putting a lot of time and effort in it even when its not necessary and most of our guys have a normal penis to start with.

Look at me I started PE when I was 17 and this site made my insecurities bigger but my penis too. I even fucked up some of my friends who are too lazy to start but feel sad because my penis is bigger then theirs. And that at the age of 17 and you’re son is 13. For now you already screwed things up because he knows PE is real and if you tell him don’t start and he feels insecure he is gonna start 100% without you knowing.

I’m saying personally and I cant judge but I think its wrong to tell your son what you do. It can give a negative effect on his puberty and thoughts about the world. Im sorry but this message made me really angry especially because youre son could be me 1 day and I dont wish that to anybody.

I agree 100% with c3ifador

+1.

Came here to say everything igigi laid out nicely.

I would’ve killed for PE wisdom as a teenager. I would have followed my instructions (given to me by my father or whoever else) religiously. I would’ve consulted my mentor whenever I had questions or issues.

I didn’t discover it until I was 20 or so, once I had privacy and unrestricted internet access.

I don’t understand all the naysayers and worrywarts. I note many of them are not actually fathers themselves (significant point). I note many of them are worried about “mental health” and the “psychological state” of the teen. I don’t subscribe to this at all, and I know for certain a unit a boy is unashamed of is only going to increase the quality of his mental and emotional state - and the enjoyment of his ENTIRE life, having got it right in the beginning, rather than trying to correct it as a middle-aged man after numerous disappointments and chronic dissatisfaction.

I do think it’s good advice to stick with manual stretches and urge caution and injury avoidance. This is a simple father-son conversation, not an insurmountable hurdle - lots of signs of poor communicators among the naysayers. I find almost all these familial and “psychological state” issues are due to poor communication within the family. This is what I see around me - in friends’ and acquaintances’ dysfunctional families. I don’t see it in mine. And I’m certain “communication” is the reason. Watch a dramatic movie and let me know if any of the drama in the movie could even exist with proper communication between the relevant parties. Once you put awareness on this (pay attention to it, and notice it) you will never be able to un-see it again. Communication is the cure to drama.

Remember Bib’s PE story, the part where he’s discussing sex and PE issues with his wife via email (an idea he got from a friend who also used this technique) because they couldn’t communicate (like normal human beings) face to face about it?

Communication issue.

Having to communicate with your spouse via email is ridiculous. That is a great example of a communication issue. And many guys seem to think this kind of stuff is normal. I object to that. I’m here to tell ya it’s not normal. IMO we should fix the communication issue, not resort to some weird strategy to get around our communication issue, or avoid communication altogether (don’t you dare tell your teen son about PE!)

“Focusing on penile hygiene is probably the most important thing” 🤦🏻‍♂️
How hard is washing your dick guys? Were you one of those “stinky dick” teens? Is that a thing? Is this really peak parenting advice? Is this peak alpha?
Laughable, IMO.

Passing down PE wisdom to our sons is peak alpha.
Numerous examples of tribes and cultures around the world doing this for millennia before our modern neurotic taboos and ridiculousness about sex.
If my father had done this for me, I would’ve built him a shrine and prayed blessings upon him twice a day, and built him a mausoleum upon his death.
You naysayers are out of your minds, IMO. But of course all people are different, and parental judgement is required (clearly good judgement being used in this father’s case).

I am not aware of the current average IQ of teens, but I very well damn know that if I knew about PE when I was a pre-puber, I would be playing baseball with my dick today. This knowledge was exactly what I needed to be already a foot long of dick. No, I am sure I would not have inured myself, no, I am sure I would have not been a victim of nonsense and sure I know it would make an astronomical difference to start PE at such age.

Due to so many opinions on this topic and by being a strictly personal decision of a parent, of course it should stay up to them. Mine is just my 0.02.

Are we sure starting PE before puberty helps? People who start bodybuilding before puberty don’t seem to get anything special out of it. Is PE different?

(“Helps” as in, “You get more total growth than you would have if you had started a few years later”)

Sure? I’m not aware of any known cases, much less any controlled studies. Just knowing for sure if they got any gains past what they would have gotten unassisted would be quite a trick. For that matter, I’m not aware of any penis length studies comparing family members, so we don’t even have sibling and parent data for comparison.

The debate seems to be “gains and self-confidence” vs. “ruined their self-image.”

He’s gonna do whatever he wants, anyway.
There’s hundreds of years of history demonstrating how poorly we are able to control what teenagers do with their genitals!

If he wants to do PE, he’ll do it with or without his dad’s permission. So you might as well help him do it safely by allowing him access to information and equipment.

I would say “Go for it. Teach him the power of consistent work.”, but his dick is gonna grow anyway so it won’t matter lol. I’d have him start bodybuilding first so he learns how to feel what his body wants.

I found this forum by myself when I was 17 and needless to say I hurt myself pretty quick doing dumb stuff. Granted, I did not have my father supervising me, but I kept making silly mistakes in PE and getting hurt due to eagerness through all my 20s, getting a couple permanent injuries while at it. I’m not gonna say no, but it is your job as a parent who introduced him to it to make sure he goes the careful way 100% of the time.