Question to you "averagely-endowed" guys

I am average (6” NBPEL). But there’s so much more to a dick than length. (girth, glans shape, cut-status (whatever you prefer), smell, taste, angle, veins, pubes (or not), hardness.)

So far, 90% of my partners (male) have said they absolutely loved my cock. Without prompting! Some would literally say my cock is the nicest they’ve ever seen/sucked/etc

I am sure my cock is NOT the nicest out there, but it makes me feel pretty good they said it without prompting. And no, it doesn’t make me arrogant, because I myself would like to change a thing or 2. But it does make me feel more confident getting naked with someone.

Yeah I think some girls just like to compliment a guy in the same way that a guy likes to tell a girl that she’s the “hottest” girl in the room.. Even if she isn’t ;)

That’s disgusting to hear that people actually would do these a few days before a wedding. Hopefully she isn’t surprised when she gets a divorce.

And one must remeber women simply just love to talk out of their ass sometimes and don’t even think twice about what they say and think they are freaks if they don’t like huge dicks only because society has told them so. And ofc many also likes fucking with men’s fragile egos, just work on that part for yourselves and nothing, I mean absolutely nothing will ever get you down as long as you are confident about yourself.

Try bringing up the size thing with a group of guys and hear all the huge dicks that they got between their legs, fuck do we lie about our size, everytime I have joingly talked about it all the guys had like 8+ inches even though statistics tells a different story. Lol.

I’m 6.75 x 5.25 and have been with about 50 women. I’m 27 and confident and good looking. I’ve been complimented on size probably twice with 50 women.. One said I had a hot cock and one said it was nice and thick. I think it’s because I’m confident they don’t feel they need to or because they don’t wanna make me arrogant. Or because I’m not that big, which I can live with (for now).

My gf has been with around 30 guys and would have had lots of massive cocks probably, I’m not going to ask because I cannot win if I do. She said her ex “definitely didn’t have a big dick” but then didn’t say mine was better or bigger etc, she refused to compare (which made me think he was big). Then she said “you know what you’re doing and it feels incredible” without saying anything else. I was searching for some reassurance and didn’t get any comparisons, which is probably because she’s been with heaps of big ones.. I don’t know, I’ll just keep PEing.

This sort of thing seems to pop up a lot here, but when women are complementing and specifically not going into size at all, I don’t think it’s always a sort of valed way of saying your size is “meh” wrapped in an otherwise sincere compliment, I think it sometimes might be their way of making a compliment that is (for them and therefore they think for you) ‘better’ than any sort of size compliment. As in “you can/should be more proud of what you do then what you were born with.”

Anyway, borntodoit, is that length bp or nbp? I would actually think a 6.75nbp would be enough to make more than 2 out of 50 women comment.

I think so too. My ex that I talked about in my last post said during size conversation “I don’t even think girls compliment guys on size”. I found that a bit odd, but… she’s entitled to her own opinion :) . Also, I thought it was wise not to bring up the girls that had called me big in the past. :P

Warmachine1 it does suck to know woman would do that and she was a cool girl too. I didn’t hook up with her, but I have been with 2 chicks that told me they were divorced but weren’t. Also been with more then a few girls that had bfs 1 was even engaged. That’s why I don’t do commitment unless I really get to know the girl. Sorry don’t wanna get this thread off track.

1. Some women lie to make you feel worse
2. Some women lie to make you feel better
3. Size matters somewhat, more to some, less to others
4. Size is relative— if she is into you and you Rick her world she doesn’t think of you as small
5. Properly ‘motivated’, most women can take most of your hand in either downstairs port of call— once I grokked that all size insecurity disappeared
6. Don’t ever ever initiate these sorts of convos— you cannot win and will just sow seeds of discord
7. If she insists on size convos, let HER measure— then cheat her hand down the side like Bang Bros’ Ramon does- or let her measure from the underside up— you aren’t “lying”, your bunny doesn’t need TP style accuracy, and if she measures your cock at 9+ then SHE will dig your ‘big’ dick— it will permit her to let her inner whore free

Years back I had a lady friend, Celtic spinner type, built small— I always hit her CDS; she would ride me and touch her belly button to feel ms filling her up

She was hardly a virgin and had her share of cock, but was a ‘good girl’ and never talked size

One day we were going to into a toy for some DP play and she balked at the size of it— a jelly vibe ~7/7.5*5/5.5-ish — as too big
When I mentioned that shed already had bigger she couldn’t believe it

At the time I was just shy of 8*6

We broke out the tape and while I fudge the length to 9, she so freaked that she was fucking a live cock much biggert han a toy she thought too big that she literally was almost hysterical

And she went from a great bedmate to being an utter freak who would suck and fuck at the drop of a hat damn near anywhere- doorways, taxis, restrooms— and couldn’t keep her hands off my cock

Now while I was far above average, it was her brain that unleashed her truest nature— that and she felt safe in and unjudged for so doing

Why do I bring this story up, other than the memory turns me on?

To remind you guys that sex is at least 90% above the neck

I’m going to have to dig out the DVD I think :jelq: … .

I’m 6.25x5.5 which means I am on the high side of girth and although I don’t PE much these days the best info I received here was about squirting,etc. Knowing more about the gspot and how it works has made a world of difference in my abilities in bed. My wife regularly comes twice - once from clitoral stimulation and second from hitting the gspot during penetration when I pump hard and fast.

The scream she let out and the look on her face the first time I did it to her was priceless. Knowing what to do with whatever you have is way more important than anything else. Yes some women get off on the size but once you have given her a proper gspot orgasm with your penis you’ll understand what is important to her. Those guys that can do this and have done this will know what I’m talking about and the rest of you need to learn how to do this.

Back to the original question, I’ve been complimented on my thickness before. I originally came here thinking I needed to be bigger in order to please her more. Well, that was wrong - lol. All I needed was to know how to properly use my tool. She looks at me differently now even though my current size is just a tiny bit bigger than my starting size. Hell the difference may only partially be due to better erections even though I didn’t think they were that bad before. PE improved my erection quality and the other information on this site about female orgasms and such is what made the difference.

Hell, you could have a 4x4 penis and still make them scream if you know how to hit the gspot and what rhythm/force they like.

Would I like to have a bigger unit - maybe? I’m not sure now since I love the feeling of ramming her balls deep. This is something I think I might really miss which is why I’ve stopped PEing for size and just do the odd jelq/stretch here and there to keep the unit in tip top shape.

We take things too personally when it comes to our penis’. They are our first and favourite toy - lol.

Trust me, when you make her squeal with pleasure from a gspot hitting orgasm during sex you’ll understand. For the record, my wife and I have been together for more than 20 years and I just recently learned how to do this. She gets all excited about sex now so I know the issue was partially me but not my unit. I learned how to be better in bed and that has made the difference. Now another note about this is that she wasn’t too keen on the whole playing with the gspot thing until after she has her first orgasm which gets more blood rushing to the area. She literally has her second orgasm within 5 minutes of the first one and she’d probably have even more if I didn’t get so bloody excited and blow my load after she squeals - lol. I swear I could blow a load just hearing her moan and squeal - hehehe.

Before PE, I was NBPEL 4.5 (5.5 BP) with 4.5 EG. During many years of marriage, she never complained and often complimented our sexual encounters. Of course she was somewhat prejudiced, Nor has she complained about the extra 1/2” I have grown in length and girth since starting PE.

Why would they keep your self esteem down if they are your friend though? This is the hard part I have come to grasp with ones who just flat out won’t issue any complement or do the tear downs.

See, this is the thing— even her refusal to get sucked into a size convo becomes a ‘thing’.

The sheer number of hits this thread has received in a short time tells you how many ‘averagely endowed’ guys there are here who do not post or put up photos.

seems like most guys who are answering are above average, or way above average in girth.