Returning to PE, problems

To make long story short:

I had to give up PE because of painful “bubble” that formed on my cock. This time I’m not going to overdo it. 5 min Jelq and 5 min stretching, no more, for at least 3 months before I start forward. I did manage to gain a fair deal in short time, though, so I’m optimistic.

I wonder about kegels. I don’t think there is a reason to do them. I already can stop the ejaculation or even downright lose wood when squeezing my PC as strongly as I can. I tend to actually have problems with cumming (it takes long and sometimes I just can’t!). I noticed that I constrict the PC a lot during sex or jerking off, which causes the delays. Perhaps I should really not do ANY kegels at all then, since I have over-powered PC muscle already.

Also, my erection is weak. While it’s hard, it gets flaccid REALLY fast if not stroking. I don’t have morning wood at all, never. It got slightly better when I was doing 5mins of jelq and stretches, but it got worse after I got to 10 mins. I think I really should stay with 5 now, for a long time. But, won’t this be not good enough? I mean, 10 minutes total per day… doesn’t seem much, seeing what people here can do with their cocks.

A bubble, that could mean anything.A trombosed vain, fluid buidup, a infection.

Thing that worries me is your low EQ while doing minimal excercise. Maybe you are using too much force? If it doesn’t improve when you stopped training maybe its time to have a docter take a look at it.

It was a fluild buildup, fortunately it’s long gone.

As for the EQ, it is sort of natural for me: I am hard like steel but lose erection quickly if not stroking or stimulating the cock in any way, unless I don’t have sex for a week or so. perhaps I should consult it with a doctor, y…

Do you feel like the sensations on your cock are a little dull at times? Or is there any other reason why it takes you long to cum because that’s the only reason I can think of.

Yes, the sensations feel a bit dull at times. That’s why sex or masturbation feels really good only once per few days. I have no clue why.

I think it’s pretty normal. It happens to me also and I assume to most guys if not all. But still I can cum if I want to. Maybe our penises have good and bad days, I don’t know, hehe.

Well some of my friends can pretty much have sex 10 times per day. I feel jealous. ;) I can barely cum after second time, fourth is nearly impossible because the feelings are too dull.

How many times in a day do you jack off? It maybe a factor. Try not to worry about it that much. Sometimes it’s psychological. Anyway, I’ve read in another thread about Avena Sativa helping in increasing penis sensitivity. Maybe it’s worth a try.

Trie a sexual “reboot” About a year ago my penis was dull and it was hard to keep a erection.

Then I stopped watching porn totally and reduced my masterbation. That was very hard, just cumming once or twice a week.
But after two weeks I felt sexually reborn. I as sensetive again, got erections from girls in skirts just walking around and every touch to my dick felt good.

sexual reboot, that is a good term :)

How many times a day? :D Not a valid question…

once or twice per week to keep the feelings decent

once per week to make it as good as it should be >_>

I don’t have high libido, I can not jerk off for 2-3 weeks and not feel any urge to do so… :(

Ofc if I for example watch porn every day then I get aroused, I don’t have erection problems, etc… just dull sensations if I do it every day + quick erection loss (but the quality is good, it’s hard as steel.)

Perhaps I should really visit a doc… :(

It’s not just the frequency. The way you do it is also a factor (doing it aggressively). I think visiting a doctor would be a good idea. It might help you put your mind at rest once he tells you his diagnosis. I wish you all the best and please update us about the findings after you’re visit. I want to know too if occasional dull sensations are normal.