Reverse kegels / becoming multi orgasmic

I do my Kegels and during sex I can now do a reverse Kegel to hold off from cumming, at least for a minute or two more (then I simply cant hold it back any longer). I have read some folks say that reverse Kegeling allows them to become multi- orgasmic (which I would love to do of course). For those of you that are able to do this, are you saying that you can actually stop yourself from cumming by holding a reverse kegel? If so for how long do you have to hold, or do you need to do the entire time? Are my kegel exercises going to make my PC muscle strong enough to hold myself back from cumming and is that in fact what I am building myself up for with Kegels?

I’m just trying to understand better physically what is going on for those of you that are multi- orgasmic. I usually last about 5-10 minutes which usually gets the job done for my partner, but I want to keep going and get her and me off again. Should I be trying to extend that 5-10 minutes before my first orgasm or should I just try to defeat that first cum by being Multi- Orgasmic and push for another 10 minutes afterwards? I hope this makes sense.

Try it all. I like the get to that point and pretty much edge as long as I can or let the feelign die down a little. But if you do wind up cumming say baby we ain’t finished this is just the beginning. And get hard again and go for another. I usually last like 3 times longer after I cum once.

HeyHowAreYA, do you just keep going after you cum, and that gets “or keeps” you hard enough to keep having sex?

Maybe I just need to work harder on keeping stimulated after I cum?

You’d need a lot of practise to be able to keep orgasming while fucking with a reverse-kegel. I can do it masturbating and that took a lot of practise so I’m sure it’ll take even more self-control and practise to do it while fucking.

You don’t actually hold anything. You ‘let go’. It’s a matter of relaxing the muscle rather than holding it, but this is quite difficult as when you ejaculate your BC muscle involuntarily contracts. You have to gain control over the contraction and relax it entirely to keep yourself at the point where you feel the pleasure/energy of an orgasm channeling down your body. You can give yourself an orgasm for as long as you want really, though usually you get into it too much because of the pleasure and after 15 minutes or whatever you have to kegel to stop yourself from ejaculating.

Also you do not stimulate yourself at the same intensity that you would if you wanted to ejaculate. Just as you are about to cum, you slow down a lot to gain control over the feelings. You have to slow down and speed up according to how close you are to the point of no return, you keep at the point of no return by speeding up/slowing down accordingly.

It’s pretty simple once you’ve done it once, but I’m sure it sounds complex to the on-looker. I remember reading similar stuff some years back and thinking it impossible or very difficult, but it’s actually quite simple and easy.

The Beasty One, I need to explain that to my wife lol, I tell her to slow down or I slow down because I don’t want to cum yet but she gets antsy and starts grabbing my ass and moaning (and you know that ISN’T HELPING my mission! lol)

I guess that is something else I need to perhaps communicate to her better “right HeyHowAreYA?”

Just tell the bitch to concentrate on the pleasure she’s getting and not to be a greedy orgasm hog?

Hahahhaaah

lol, she is a bit of an orgasm hog. Maybe I need a spotter/coach, a hot one!

Hahah yes. And I dunno I guess cause I’m younger it works better. But sometimes I can sex right after I cum and sometimes we have to for play a little more to get me back hard again but I last longer after I cum once. I think the most in a sex session was like 5 or 6. A very long session ha ha. But I think edging and slowing down helps me control mt orgasms. Also kegeling really helps.

Oh you had to throw in a “cause I’m younger comment” lol

I’m not that damn old yet. By the way, I gave the wife just a little hint today, she was showing me some daily message board she was signed up on today about woman’s health. It had sex position of the day on it, I eventually worked that into telling her about Kegels for men and the cool website I found that explained it.

Sex position of the day was the “Caterpillar”. I told her, “we have done it, bit its been years” She said “well we will have toy it again”

Ha ha start bringing in the position of the day in here, id like to see. And I only threw in the younger thing cause it’s said alot that younger guys have more woody potential. But I’m sure there are young guys with problems too. Ill leave it at “It’s The Kegels!” ; ] Ha ha

The only position I remember is the ‘Pregnant’ position. lol

Just as there are older guys with lots of ‘woody potential’.