Seeing Results Already!

Wow! I am on cloud 9! I started PE on March 6th, and I can already tell the difference! And, even better, Im not the only one seeing it, my wife can tell, she knows I do it and even helps me with it, but the real proof happened last night. My wife is bi-sexual, and we have several partners we hook up with ocassionaly. Last night, one of her friends stayed over for a hot tub party, we got to drinking and after an hour or so they began to make out. I watched for a few minutes and drank a few beers, then I joined in. After a few more minutes, I removed my shorts, and the first thing Tammy did was stop, reach out and grab my cock, and said it looked a lot bigger! She doesn’t know I have been doing any kind of exercise, and my wife and I have been with her many, many times (just oral, no vaginal penetration). So she and my wife starts giving me a blowjob, and when she started sucking me, she pulled it out and said it again! I can’t explain how ecstatic I was, I felt like a damn porn star! I thought I was getting bigger, and my wife says it as well, but of course we are aware of the exercises, and I figured maybe we were wanting to see gains and maybe were convincing ourselves it had grown when it really hadn’t. But Tammy has no clue I have been doing any exercises, I made sure and asked my wife if she had told her, and she assured me that she hadn’t. I am having to restrain myself from grabbing a measuring tape! I said I was going to wait a complete month before measuring, but I am sooooo tempted! I can definetly tell a difference in my flaccid state, I hang real good now. I also just started using a pump in my sessions, I bought one from https://www.vacutech.com , it was expensive, $260 total, but I wanted a good one, and it has the vacuum gauge on it, with a one-hand pistol grip lever, it works really smooth! I also got 2 cylinders with it, one for length only, and one for length and girth. I am extremely happy with the whole set. I also do jelquing every day, and manual stretching. It is obviously working for me!!

It may be wise not to set a date on your goals. You might start doing counterproductive things just to reach your goal by a certain date. If you are “only” 7 inches by next year, will that be a failure?

regards,

I agree with mgus.
You have set VEERY optimistic goals and when/if you start to see that you aren’t on schedule, you might get disappointed and loose faith. It is better to not set a target date because in PE you can’t really control the speed of growth.

When you start out, gains comes easy (for some) and it is so easy to extrapolate into the future and see that “wow, I will be a X” BPEL next year”. Then when gains stall, you get more and more frustrated, you increase the intensity or you start changing the routine, because you think you can control the speed of gains, which you most of the time can’t. Either you get injured or you mess up your routine and get even more frustrated.

It is much better to accept that the gains will come in due time. Sometimes they come easy, sometimes you don’t gain at all, but in the long run you will gain.

Just my humble opinion, based on my own experiences.

Oden

No, I will not be disappointed at all if I am “just 7 inches” by next year. I always set my goals high in whatever I do, and if I am not where I want to be, I simply set another goal. I expect I will likely be around 6.5 or so by next year at goal date, but I will definetly be happy with reaching even that! I am really excited about finding this site and not going through any type of surgery.

Not that it matters, but if you don’t expect to be at your goal by your goal date, why do you set a date? Why not set a goal of 8 inches before you quit?

By the way, your statistics - is that BPEL or NBPEL? For reasons of tracking progress, some people feel it is good to measure - and keep track of - in both erect and flaccid states. Also, bone-pressed measurements will not be affected if you loose or gain weight. Weight loss would of course be very encouraging, but weight gains would otherwise result in threads along the lines of “Help! I am loosing gains!”.

Good luck,