She finally said it...

Yesterday it finally happened. My wife & I had fooled around that afternoon. It went well, a little sucky sucky, some missionary, she came first (like I always make sure happens), then me, etc. It was good.

Then later at night after the kids had gone to bed we watched a tv show and were just chatting afterwards. We’ve both been losing weight this year (I’ve lost over 50lbs since Feb) and we were talking about various health related things when the topic of my exercises came up. Now my wife knows something of my PEing but I’ve always told her it was for ding-dong health and maintaining good circulation to it. I’m borderline diabetic so this was not a hard sell and I actually do believe that PE, even if nothing measurable is ever gained, is great for overall male member health. Of course I am PEing to grow a bigger, badder ding-dong but, well you know…

Anyway, I mentioned something about doing kegels and how I wish I could get back to that stiffness I had back when I was 19 years old. Then she said “why, you’ve never had any issues getting it hard.” I said “yeah but I wish I could get rock hard as often & as easily as I did back then. I can feel better blood flow happening and it seems more vascular to me. Does it seem more veiny to you?”. She responds, “not that I’ve noticed. It seems just bigger and I have to be more careful with head because of that gag reflex. It’s definitely more of a mouthful now”. I said cooly, “really? Does it seem any different inside you, you know like when we fuck?”. She made some comment about not being able to tell much because of having had our two kids things aren’t the same down there for her or something to that effect. Then I got a phone call, then we noticed how late it was and off to bed we went then straight to sleep. End of conversation.

I know some of it is due to a somewhat thinner fat pad from the weight loss but still I know I’ve made measurable gains. She seems to be more into sex especially when I insert it. Frequency isn’t up much but she’s seems to be more into it. It may not have seemed like much of a conversation to her but it (quietly) made my year, no decade! I haven’t reached my ultimate PE goals, in fact I haven’t measured in months nor do I plan to till year’s end but I know I’m damn close to 6x5 if not there already. Next stop her is CDS,,,,, eventually.

Thanks bro’s for all the support and just being there. :D

Congratulations on both the gains and the weight loss! That’s got to feel pretty awesome hearing those things. Should be excellent positive motivation for you as you continue on toward your long term goals.

Way to go!

That’s pretty awesome!

Great stuff. Keep up the good work.

Take care and happy gains.

That is the reason we do this, congrats man and what a great wife!

You mentioned that your lady didn’t feel much of a difference, and she had two kids. Maybe if you could convince her to do kegels as well it will help her reach orgasms even greater than before. My wife and I both exercise our genitalia so she can keep her vaginal floor and walls intact. Also so I can please her even better than we first were together. We also have kids so when I got her started she thought it was funny, but she saw the difference and is now hooked on keeping an exercise routine. Just some thoughts!

thanks to everyone for the words of encouragement. That’s a good idea and I’ve talked to her about it as well but my wife just doesn’t go for it. She likes the act of foreplay & sex but not anything beyond that. She’s the “guy” sometimes in that once she’s gotten hers she’s done, time to sleep, do laundry, read a book, or just about anything else that has nothing to do with her or my genitalia until the next encounter. Kinda funny how I’M the one wanting to hold her (at least for a little while) after sex and she’s Mrs. Hit it & quit it afterwards. She’s always had a strange view of sex outside of the act itself, most of the time she loathes any talk about sex which is why this was a big deal to me.

Good job man! Tackling two things at once is hard but it looks like you’re making great progress.

Keep it up. You’ll get back your 19-year old wood soon enough!

Congrats. Love to hear stories like this. Thanks for sharing and keep it up.

Great story! Good gains!

Congratulations man thats great!

That is funny I get the same treatment. We do what we can but good luck.

If I may reiterate the sentiment from the others. You have a great and rewarding adventure ahead of you. Keep up the good work.

More news. We were foolin around this morning, started with a bit of head then I go down on her until she has her O. Back to a bit more head then I decide to enter her missionary, then lifted her legs and kinda did the “nudge nudge” Root thing for a bit AND then it happened,,,,,, I felt myself bottom out for the first time! She even made some new sounds I haven’t heard before and she said I was definitely hitting something in there. Of course this new experience sent me over the edge much sooner than I wanted to and it was definitely doing something extra for her as sensed she was getting close to another O. Now if I can only get my itchy trigger dick under control I think I’ll be able to push her over the edge,,,,,kegel, kegel, kegel, kegel,,,,