Should I start dating or get a big penis first? (Page 2)

10-13-2021, 07:50 PM

Wanting10

Date and PE!

Start (8/30/21): 6.5"BPEL X 5.25" MSEG

Now (12/5/22): 8.75" BPEL X 5.75" MSEG

Goal 9.5"BPEL X 7" MSEG My Journey

10-13-2021, 07:52 PM

Crimsonwarrior

You should definitely date and learn how to seduce women. Take a girl dancing or dance lessons. Learn how to slow dance to something like Alabama “The closer you get”.

Sex is just as mental as it is physical.

10-13-2021, 07:57 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by 5.5Squared

You know that thing called Foreplay that guys do before sex/penetration happens?
Well, girls call that sex! Do a few searches on clitoris and g-spot. Get a basic idea of the moves and then get your ass out there and practice.
When it’s time for penetration do not stay in straight missionary too long. Most other guys have jack hammered her. Change positions.
Like the guys above said. Get a girl off a few times before penetration and she’ll come back.
Take a look at my starting length of 5.5”. I had girls following me around like puppies in my mid twenties.

Haha that’s true man.. Yeah my foreplay game is not solid enough to make them cum, need to do some research on this..

This is probably BC I’m insecure about my penis, but when I think about all the other guys that have been pounding her with a big dick, it makes me not want to even try to fuck her..

When I was at college last year I had a pretty hot girl tryna hangout with me in my dorm, and I ended up cancelling on her 3 or 4 times. BC I knew she probably been fucked a lot, and I didn’t want her to even look at my dick.

10-13-2021, 07:59 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by masterofpuppet

Codysimpson98, in my opinion you need more sex, enjoy sex. You can ask her if she likes what you are doing to her or not, have confidence. I, with a similar size, had a great time and they looked for me again for years.

Yh right now I find sex stressful and something that I don’t even look forward to anymore, just makes me nervous thinking about it..

I know the only way to improve is to have more experience, maybe I should start fucking some ugly girls to get my experience up

10-13-2021, 08:02 PM

thelonggame

All solid advice…I can only echo the same…

Date and PE!

Originally Posted by Don Logan

Just remind yourself that it’s 10% about sticking your dick in and 90% about all those other things you can do or say.
If you get that 90% right, by the time you stick your cock in, she'll see fireworks.

Start: BPEL: 7” MSEG: 5" | Current: BPEL: 8.25” MSEG: 5.75" | Goal: BPEL: 8.5” MSEG: 6"

1st Goal: 7.5" x 5.5" | Achieved: 01/15/2021 | 2nd Goal: 8.25 x 5.75 | Achieved: 05/19/2021

Progress Pics: Road to 8x6 | My Log: Daros PE Notes and Progress Reports | Routine: Hanging with FIRe

10-13-2021, 08:07 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by c3ifador

11,43cm girth really a thin dick and bellow average, but you can do somethings for women to feel more like foreplay, stimulate her clit during penetration etc.
I do not think you should stop seeking sex, sex should be fun, energetic, intimacy, respect etc. Learn to use your hands, you’ll soon learn that sex is not much about dick, but how to stimulate her body.
The way I do sex I spent almost half of the time using my dick and the other half with foreplay: licking and sucking (they love when sucked) clitoris until orgasm, making them orgasm/squirt through my hands (g-spot), making out, making out while fingering, eating ass, stimulating those titties, smell their neck, hair, some leg, pussy, ass and back massage etc. Eye contact while fucking, eye contact while oral play, eye contact while fingering and making them squirt, eye contact for everything. I don’t say to brag, but I’m very praised by my sex skills, handle women’s body, learned that through porn. The more I had sex the more I experimented things I learned in porn and each time I got better and better, of course women are different from one another and that is good because you can analyse things before sex and during it create a perception to calibrate intensity, time, periodization, edge her and energy for things to work and have great fun and pleasure.
It is understandable that beautiful women would not come back to you after bad sex, she is beautiful and have 20~50 guys talking to her simultaneously, she’ll pick the best one for her, if she picked you before be grateful, now you have to improve what you are lacking, and it is good that you know what you lack, majority of people are ignorant of things they know and most important of the things they don’t know that they don’t.
Advice: I learned a lot from this guy’s videos named “hunkhands”. I can’t express how this man is important for mankind.

We do but I lived in the US so I’ve been Americanised.

Thanks for the all the foreplay tips!! I’m gonna put some more research into what you said..

Yh exactly I know that hot girls usually have about 10 other guys talking to her at the same time.. Right now I’m living in South America full of Latina woman and I know they love sex.. So that’s another reason I’ve been hesitant to start going on dates with girls here.

True.. I need to improve my sex performance.

Thanks for recommending “hunk hands” I looked him up and I will watch his videos

Last edited by codysimpson98 : 10-13-2021 at 08:17 PM.

10-13-2021, 08:08 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by Berghuis374

I’m sure no expert in sex but 6 NBP length is probably above average or average and 4.5 girth is under average. So work on your girth instead of your length (my opinion). Girth is more important then length in most cases.

I think that’s what I should start doing

10-13-2021, 08:09 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by 32quarters

One of the largest studies (Veale, et al) found average girth to be 4.59”, so 4.5” is in that range. It also found the average BPEL is 5.17” so 6” NBP is much larger than average.

Maybe I should focus on getting my girth you a bit more then. Thanks for the info

10-13-2021, 08:11 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by Crimsonwarrior

You should definitely date and learn how to seduce women. Take a girl dancing or dance lessons. Learn how to slow dance to something like Alabama “The closer you get”.
Sex is just as mental as it is physical.

Do you think I shouldn’t have sex with them until with built a strong connection? BC maybe I’m jumping into sex too soon with them.. Which is why they are relunctant to dump me after sex.

10-13-2021, 08:12 PM

32quarters

Originally Posted by codysimpson98

Yeah I meant 4.5 inches girth.
Yeah makes sense, previously I would maybe eat her out and finger her for like 5 minutes.. And then we would start fucking. So I probably need to start spending more time playing with her pussy before I put my dick in..
Also my fingering and pussy eating skills are probably not that great, this is something I need to learn more about

Tell the/a girl you need her help for a project. You want to be the best pussy eater there ever has been and would she help you work on getting there?

Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG

Current: 7-7/8” BPEL; 7-3/8” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.

Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.

10-13-2021, 08:16 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by 32quarters

Tell the/a girl you need her help for a project. You want to be the best pussy eater there ever has been and would she help you work on getting there?

Hahahah that’s a great one. Maybe I should start saying that, honestly.

10-13-2021, 08:31 PM

Hankreardon

All these guys gave you the right advice and I’m going to say the same just with a little story that for sure changed my perception on sex. My current Gf and I both enjoy bringing in another girl into bed every now and again when the opportunity presents itself. We had done it multiple times with different women but for the most part they were chicks I picked up and convinced to come play with my girl and I. What this lead to was girls more focused on me and or getting penetrated then my girl. However one time we were at a bar on vacation and a women there kept eyeing my girl.

Long story short it was my girl who bagged her and we brought her back to our airbnb. Totally different experience because although she was Bi and I was still hitting it she clearly preferred my girl and went to town on her. Made her cum like a million times and she had no dick! Just REALLY good with her mouth and fingers. Blew my mind cause it was for sure the best sex my GF had ever had and she has been with a guy with a truly huge dick before. Btw I was always so so about blowjobs but this women was on another level with that too and changed my perception on that too. She was just extremely enthusiastic and a worker! 3 hours in I was dead tired came like 4 times my GF was also about to pass out although didnt want to stop and this little energizer bunny needed more. Also she was doing coke so that had something to do with it lol but still. After that my mentality is I am going to make you cum a ton by any means necessary. I’ll put my foot in you if I have to but your going to get off. The dick is just one of many tools available fuck I have since used dildos do double penetrate my girl etc shit that before might have fucked with me mentally now its like at the end of the day I am going to out work anyone you’ve been with and your going to remember it. That said I still want to get more girth because I would like to improve my tools so I get the desire for a bigger dick but don’t let it be your all.

10-13-2021, 08:33 PM

codysimpson98

I also forgot to mention that I’m currently living in South America (I’m originally from England).. And I’ve noticed that the woman here are very passionate and seem very into sex.. They also have thicker bodies (bigger butts).

I don’t want to sound like a bitch, but this has made me a bit more reluctant to having sex with the girls I’m talking too here. Because I imagine they are very used to having passionate and good quality sex.

I’m not sure if this is scientifically true but maybe even bigger penis’s.

I just wish that my PE gains had been coming in quicker. BC I really wanna fuck these Latina woman.. But as you guys said maybe I should just go for it and focus on foreplay.. And hope they aren’t too much of size queens..

And for me its not just about having sex, I wanna have a relationship. Trying to keep a girl hooked is something I’ve never accomplished

10-13-2021, 08:37 PM

codysimpson98

Originally Posted by Hankreardon

All these guys gave you the right advice and I’m going to say the same just with a little story that for sure changed my perception on sex. My current Gf and I both enjoy bringing in another girl into bed every now and again when the opportunity presents itself. We had done it multiple times with different women but for the most part they were chicks I picked up and convinced to come play with my girl and I. What this lead to was girls more focused on me and or getting penetrated then my girl. However one time we were at a bar on vacation and a women there kept eyeing my girl.
Long story short it was my girl who bagged her and we brought her back to our airbnb. Totally different experience because although she was Bi and I was still hitting it she clearly preferred my girl and went to town on her. Made her cum like a million times and she had no dick! Just REALLY good with her mouth and fingers. Blew my mind cause it was for sure the best sex my GF had ever had and she has been with a guy with a truly huge dick before. Btw I was always so so about blowjobs but this women was on another level with that too and changed my perception on that too. She was just extremely enthusiastic and a worker! 3 hours in I was dead tired came like 4 times my GF was also about to pass out although didnt want to stop and this little energizer bunny needed more. Also she was doing coke so that had something to do with it lol but still. After that my mentality is I am going to make you cum a ton by any means necessary. I’ll put my foot in you if I have to but your going to get off. The dick is just one of many tools available fuck I have since used dildos do double penetrate my girl etc shit that before might have fucked with me mentally now its like at the end of the day I am going to out work anyone you’ve been with and your going to remember it. That said I still want to get more girth because I would like to improve my tools so I get the desire for a bigger dick but don’t let it be your all.

Wow man, that’s a great story. Thanks for sharing..

Do you have any tips on what that girl was doing to make your partner so satisfied??

Maybe I shouldn’t even use my dick at all lol. Just spend the whole time using my hands and tongue.

10-13-2021, 09:18 PM

pumpedmember

Dude 6” non bone pressed, that’s what you have?? You are fine!

Start sucking these girls clits, don’t suck too hard, but suck gently, make their clit pull slightly and gently out and away from their body. They’ll lose their minds. Trust me. My wife loves when I suck her clit.

Foreplay is the best way to get it going on. If you have a larger penis and they aren’t ready, you’ll have them reacting to being hurt instead of not reacting at all. At least you aren’t hurting them!

Technique is everything! Make your hips do the movements, don’t lower and raise your whole body while thrusting (well, sometimes you can do that and its okay and/or needed). But, the hips pivot for a reason, and the angle at which you can make your pelvis move is a good angle for perfect thrusting and g-spot stimulation. My wife cums more times than we can both count and all I’m doing is moving my pelvis.

Lastly, dude you are HAVING SEX!!! Congrats on that! But you gotta get more foreplay going on. You need to make their pussy want the sex more than they do; once you have teased her enough and started to give her Os with your mouth, or fingers, or preferably both, your cock will feel like the only thing they want, in them or otherwise.

Good luck with this! You are already moving in the right direction. Keep having sex whatever you do and work on your cock in the off time ;)

Starting length, Spring 2003: bpel 6 3/8", bpfsl ~6 1/2", flaccid ~3-4" (never measured flaccid stretched or hanging flaccid; starting girth was probably ~5"-5 1/4")

Summer 2004: bpel 7 7/8", bpfsl 8 1/8", flaccid ~4", erect girth 5.3"

Spring 2018: bpel 7 1/4", bpfsl 7 5/8", erect girth 5 1/8"; Spring 2020: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth 5 3/8". Current - August 2023: bpel 7 3/4", bpfsl 8", erect girth mid shaft 5 1/4" (5 1/2" at base)