Should I start dating or get a big penis first?

So my dick is 6inch NBPL and 4.5inch wide.. I know that’s pretty average, but to me it feels pretty small..

But from my past dating experiences I’ve never really been able to satisfy my partner. Take it mind that I’m not great at sex (not terrible but not great) , but when I put my dick in chicks and start fucking them.. I never really get much of a reaction.

And in most cases the girls aren’t really interested in seeing me anymore after the first time we have sex (especially the hot ones).. Which has hurt my confidence a bit.

So at the moment I’ve been talking to a few girls about going on a date (pretty attractive btw), but I’m thinking maybe I should get a bigger penis before I start going on dates again..

Because I’m really paranoid that I’m gonna end up getting the same outcome at before.. If I had a bigger unit lets say 7inch NBPL and 5inch wide I would feel SOOO much more confident going on dates with girls. BC I probably satisfy them a lot more.

I know when it comes to a relationship SEX inst the most important thing for a girl, but if you don’t have good SEX it seems a lot harder to keep these girls interested in having a relationship.

Anyways some additional info:

-I’ve been PEing for 9 months, and have only gained about 0.1inch of NBPEL. But I never plan on quitting PE until I get to my goals. (I was just hoping I would have made more gains by now)
- I’m 22 years old.
-the first dates usually go really well, but as soon as we get to the bedroom things usually end after.. So its not like they are ending things because my personality sucks ass.
-I have a decently fit body.
-I’ve had sex with 5 different girls, overall I’ve had sex about 12 times.
-I’ve never made a girl cum

Now do you think it’s a good idea to instead of going out and enjoying life to stay home and work on your dick? Think!

Go on dates and have fun. Being good at sex comes from experience, not from a bigger dick. Being a good lover takes time.

I think you mean girth, not wide. A 4.5” wide dick would be a elephant.

Sex over PE always. Never give up an opportunity for sex.

If you are concerned with satisfying your partner, remember to include fingers and tongue. Getting them off orally (and digitally) before penis insertion makes a woman very happy. Getting them off multiple times before insertion almost guarantees a second date. And when giving them oral, make sure you are giving it full effort. Women know when guy is just going through the motions to check the box; i.e., only doing it because he thinks he has to.

Have you noticed the difference in a BJ from a girl enjoys it vs a girl just doing it to make you happy?

If you are enthusiastically into eating pussy your girl will be very pleased, and dick work will just be extra.

I dated and got married with a slightly smaller length and about same girth. Penis size was never even mentioned, but my oral skills definitely made sure no complaints. Just pe while shopping!!

Just remind yourself that it’s 10% about sticking your dick in and 90% about all those other things you can do or say.

If you get that 90% right, by the time you stick your cock in, she’ll see fireworks.

You know that thing called Foreplay that guys do before sex/penetration happens?

Well, girls call that sex! Do a few searches on clitoris and g-spot. Get a basic idea of the moves and then get your ass out there and practice.
When it’s time for penetration do not stay in straight missionary too long. Most other guys have jack hammered her. Change positions.

Like the guys above said. Get a girl off a few times before penetration and she’ll come back.

Take a look at my starting length of 5.5”. I had girls following me around like puppies in my mid twenties.

codysimpson98, in my opinion you need more sex, enjoy sex. You can ask her if she likes what you are doing to her or not, have confidence. I, with a similar size, had a great time and they looked for me again for years.

11,43cm girth really a thin dick and bellow average, but you can do somethings for women to feel more like foreplay, stimulate her clit during penetration etc.

I do not think you should stop seeking sex, sex should be fun, energetic, intimacy, respect etc. Learn to use your hands, you’ll soon learn that sex is not much about dick, but how to stimulate her body.

The way I do sex I spent almost half of the time using my dick and the other half with foreplay: licking and sucking (they love when sucked) clitoris until orgasm, making them orgasm/squirt through my hands (g-spot), making out, making out while fingering, eating ass, stimulating those titties, smell their neck, hair, some leg, pussy, ass and back massage etc. Eye contact while fucking, eye contact while oral play, eye contact while fingering and making them squirt, eye contact for everything. I don’t say to brag, but I’m very praised by my sex skills, handle women’s body, learned that through porn. The more I had sex the more I experimented things I learned in porn and each time I got better and better, of course women are different from one another and that is good because you can analyse things before sex and during it create a perception to calibrate intensity, time, periodization, edge her and energy for things to work and have great fun and pleasure.

It is understandable that beautiful women would not come back to you after bad sex, she is beautiful and have 20~50 guys talking to her simultaneously, she’ll pick the best one for her, if she picked you before be grateful, now you have to improve what you are lacking, and it is good that you know what you lack, majority of people are ignorant of things they know and most important of the things they don’t know that they don’t.

Advice: I learned a lot from this guy’s videos named “hunkhands”. I can’t express how this man is important for mankind.

Im sure no expert in sex but 6 nbp length is probably above average or average and 4.5 girth is under average. So work on your girth instead of your length (my opinion). Girth is more important then length in most cases.

One of the largest studies (Veale, et al) found average girth to be 4.59”, so 4.5” is in that range. It also found the average bpel is 5.17” so 6” nbp is much larger than average.

To be honest my original plan was to not have sex again until I get a bigger penis.. Those previous experiences were pretty painful. Its pretty frustrating putting a lot of time and energy into a girl for them to say “I think we just be friends” the next day after having sex.

But my only worry is that it could take me years to see gains or maybe I never will. As I’ve spent 9 months doing PE and haven’t seen much gains.

So yeah maybe you are right, it might not be the smartest plan..

I just know I would I feel like a different man if my dick was a bit bigger.

Yeah I meant 4.5 inches girth.

Yeah makes sense, previously I would maybe eat her out and finger her for like 5 minutes.. And then we would start fucking. So I probably need to start spending more time playing with her pussy before I put my dick in..

Also my fingering and pussy eating skills are probably not that great, this is something I need to learn more about

Thanks for the advice. And that’s good to hear, I’m just being a bit of a bitch about getting rejected again. Because what if I find the prefect girl and then I’m not able to satisfy her sexually.. In my mind I’m thinking that if I waited another year of PE maybe I could go on this same date with a bigger penis and have a higher chance of getting her to want to stay with me..

But yh its good to hear that oral skills were useful in getting the job done

That makes me feel better sir.. When you put it like that.