I started at about 4.5 NBPEL and 4.4 EG. I am currently 5 BPEL and 4.9 EG. You can add a little over 1” to get my BP measurements.
Attherange, you did not mention whether your measurements are BP or NBP.
Somehow, I believe genetics set us back and there is nothing we did that caused our dicks not to grow beyond average. The only mistake we made was not learning about PE earliy enough. In my case I waited over 50 years. Luckily, I found my wife who was more interested in the whole person rather than just one body part. Unless you separated because of your average dick size, you found one too. So you see, they are out there.
I truly understand the emasculating effect a small dick can have on your ego, but you need to keep in mind that under passionate circumstances, erection size is not that important to your partner. Love, compassion and tenderness are much more important. Isn’t this what attracted your wife to you in the beginning? 50% of the guys out there are average or below so the odds that the women out there are mostly size queens is not that great.
Don’t let your size deter you for going for the gold ring, if you are rejected because of your size, than that’s her loss.