So I heard of this Miracle.

I’m not missing it now, my man. But the pony’s not screwing little high school girls anymore, either. In my day, I pissed a couple off, though.

Faversham!

I guess I’m aiming high.. But I still want big even if it’s just the slightest difference. Every single bit counts, Never know if that little bit is all thats needed to take the cake.

Every girl I’ve ever gotten head from did it without me saying anything. The first time I was trying to be respectful and not come in her mouth, but she didn’t move when I tried to move her head. From then on I was sold.

I’m ex-president-for-life at my local (#6969) Gay Club. I didn’t think anyone but gays knew about them. :)

Don’t wait for your dick to get bigger Sasune. You can have sex now and few, if any, of the girls will complain about your size. If they do, there are plenty of others willing to give you a try.

There’s nothing wrong with aiming high, as long as it doesn’t discourage you from making merely discernable improvements along the way.

You said in your initial post that you’re 5 - 6 inches, and in a later post that your goal is 8 x 6. What if you wound up at ‘merely’ seven inches? Would you declare your time wasted, or would you be grateful that you had one inch more than you started with? Seven inches is big.

Nope, the girls are going for the guys that are confident for the most part.

I don’t know to be honest. Since I’m a virgin I’m kind of nervous if I end up screwing up my first time ( even if it is inevitable ) If I suck at the very least I want her to know I’m inside.. I don’t know how to explain it. If I’m not good at sex first I want to be able to you know.. Receive head ( I’ve gotten Offers ) Without worrying.. ( Uh oh.Am I too small? ) “Um.. Sorry maybe later” I guess I should just go for it.

Sasune: I know I’m repeating what others have said, but a little more reassurance never hurts. It sounds like we’re about the same age (18) and about equal cock size; I mean, average/ a little below. That’s my situation, anyway.

I had the same fears as you; I was totally nervous and afraid that I wouldn’t be big enough.

The first time I had sex, it was terrible (and really funny), partly because I was totally not expecting it when she came into my house first thing in the morning and woke me up after a long night out, but mostly because it was the first time!! I always expect myself to succeed, but I’m never too hard on myself if I don’t succeed at something I’ve never tried before right away.

The second time was f***ing amazing, because:

We talked about it. If I have any magic sex tip for you, it’s talk about things, have some faith in yourself, be honest and be confident. A good lover is someone who is responsive, intuitive and creative, somebody who’s not afraid or embarrassed to talk to their lover about what they want, what their boundaries are, what works best for them, and your own desires too.. Not just a guy with a big cock.

I’ve had a lot of good sex since then, and, what’s probably more relevant for you to hear, I have ex-girlfriends who confessedly have been with much bigger guys since me (8-9 inches, big girth too.. Yeah, we talk about everything) that are champing at the bit to get back in bed with me. And like I said, I’m average! Especially girth, I think that’s a little below average for me. When it takes the resistance of every fibre in your body to refuse the offers being made by beautiful girls who could have (and have had) much bigger guys, you realize that there’s a lot more to it. Learn how to hit the right spots, learn how to control your ejaculation (has more to do with pace, for me, than anything.. And I’m not afraid to pull out and go down on her for a minute if I have to give myself a break), learn how to come at the same time and how to make her come before you. Learn how to give good head! And learn to appreciate women; that one’s really important, to me anyway. Too many women have a lot of shame and dislike for what’s between their legs.. Which is something I try to challenge in every relationship.

So; my point is you have nothing to fear. It’s a learning process, but if you go into it with knowledge and compassion (and the desire to please your lover above your own desire for sexual satisfaction) you’ll do fine. Communication is the key.. As always.

Good luck, comrade.

Johnny Kay, I mean Steppenwolf has got it right. And let’s say you wind up with another virgin the first time. It’s easier to deflower one with a smaller dick than a bigger dick. Less painful for both of you, too.

And if you should be lucky and get an older gal, even a housewife, that’s a little bit on the aggressive side, you’ve probably got it made, my friend! Just tell her you’re a virgin and let her vanity take over. Chances are she’ll really go through her paces for you! You probably won’t have to move a muscle, except to keep your eyes from getting screwed out.

Good luck.

It seems every young guy here talks about school and college age girls who have been with guys (plural) with 8 and 9 inch cocks. Well, I’m bisexual and have seen quite a few cocks over the last 20 years. I’ve only ever seen one 8 incher in that time, so I think you can all take these girls statements with a very large pinch of salt. Most girls have absolutely no concept of size, and if they do, they are telling you lies for ego or other reasons.

How often have you told a friend that some girl you bedded had huge tits, or a beautiful butt, when in reality they only had good size tits or a fairly nice butt? Exaggeration is one of the great characteristics of youth (and way beyond youth!). :)

Yes. 5 to 6 inches is in the average size range for most males on this planet.

Yes. Maybe do an accurate measurement. Nobody has a 5-6” penis; real people have specific measurements.

Sasune, you have a negative outlook. There is a lot of negative thinking in your posts. Here’s an example:

You need to look at that and figure out how to change it. That sort of thinking helps to create failure and miserable outcomes.

This is also a related, and problematic issue:

That’s a pretty heavy whack off schedule, even for a young person.

I’d venture to say, I think the porn is not doing you any favors. It is a distorted and fantastical representation of sex. It can be fun in a limited context, but it is not reality and you should not be comparing yourself to it. It’s really not good for you to do so. Especially as you have no real personal experience.

Spend more time with real girls and less time with the Internet porn. It’s just a good rule of thumb.

Very true, iamaru. I hope you’re paying attention, Sasune.

Generally speaking, girls have no way of knowing who has the biggest penis; this assumption of yours is based on your values (in this case built on insecurity), and not theirs.

Don’t build it up in your mind to be an impossible task.

Everybody has to lose their virginity. Oftentimes for men this means less-than-stellar performance the first time around. What’s much more important is how you approach the whole event. If you do that part right, you’ll get another chance to do better. If you haven’t been masturbating three times a day you might just get a chance right away.

Be aware that the girls you’re likely to hook up with are in the same boat; even the most ‘experienced’ of them are still relatively new to the wonderful world of sex, and they’re as worried and insecure as you are.

You want, therefore, to be confident; it’s easiest to be confident when you feel safe and secure. People are most likely to feel safe and secure with people they trust. Therefore, you want it to be with a girl you like who likes you; someone you can trust. Someone who is a good friend and who turns you on and who is turned on by you. You want the whole event to be about something that the two of you are doing together.

You DON’T want to focus on your penis, it’s size, or your ‘performance’; that leaves the girl out -and that will make you seem selfish or insecure. You don’t want that.

Instead you want to put your attention on the girl. You want it to be some fun that the two of you are creating for each other’s benefit.

Your job in that is to make it be about what is fun for her. What feels good to her. Her job is to do the same for you.

If you both can do that, I guarantee it’ll be fun.

I wouldn’t worry too much about girls talking about their other boyfriends. A lot of girls say things just to impress and I know it has already been said but I’m sure not many of them have actually measured. I’ve read that girls have no concept of size and that they overestimate by usually a couple inches.

About PE, the good thing is a lot of people see gains quick when they first start. Just follow the newbie routine and think better about yourself, if you’re looking in the right places your penis is probably the last thing a girl really is looking forward too.

Good luck!

I’ll tell you a little secret:

If you don’t wack off for a week, you’re body will push you to talk to girls more. ;)

Start doing fitness, or weight lifting. A fit body is a great basis for a fit mind. Not to mention confidence.

In the wise words of grandpa cat:
Stop playing with your dick and get some ass you pussy! Man up soldier, and get to doing.