Originally Posted by varna
So I finally got myself to start. Not even sure I got how to do kegels but I decided to start without them, safe to say it looks much harder to me than I’ve though. Don’t think I’ve done it right but I had to start to see my mistakes:So for the hot wrap, I wasn’t sure if the water was hot enough, I put the sink on max hot but should it be so hot you can’t touch it with a finger or normal very hot? My dick is horribly small when flaccid so it was hard to wrap it around but I think I did 5 mins or whatever.
Then the manual stretches. Damn, again the nightmare of a small dick, its really small when flaccid and its a terrible pain doing stretches when flaccid. I pulled in each direction for 5 mins in total but wasn’t sure on how strong my pull should be, should it be as hard as I can?
Then the jelqing. Titleist the OG told me ”do C Grip jelqing for 10 minutes only, trust me” so I did it. Do you think that’s a good advice or I should do all kinds of jelqs? The problem here was that after the first excercises my penis was shattered and left on no energy basically. Even porn could barely get it on. I had this weird experience in the past when trying to masturbate after a long day and my dick wouldn’t fill with blood or whatever because it would go longer in length to almost its max but not in girth wtf? It was really hard to do C grip jelqs on my dead little penis for 10 minutes, I was sweating like a pig. Can jelqing be put first before the manual stretches? Also, can I have some little breaks per let’s say 50 jelqs for like a minute or two? What should my ideal erection % be if I’m targeting length?
Don’t see how I can ever reach the 10 mins of pulling and 30 mins of jelqing after 6 weeks if I can’t have breaks. It was really hard to maintain an erection during jelqing too. Don’t think I did well today but I had to start and see what it was all about. Any advice from experienced members would be greatly appreciated.
Slow down. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Listen to your penis.
The first 6 months of your PE journey should be entirely to familiarize yourself with how your penis responds to different stresses and strains that PE places on it.
You should do the newbie routine, and start carefully, without a lot of force and slowly work your way up to more intense force while looking for positive neutral and negative PIs.
Concentrate on your form and the quality of each repetition rather than on numbers.
The slower you perform each jelq, the better. Try to work up to 10seconds per jelq. Be especially careful with the intensity of your grip when jelqing and don’t do it close to 100% erect, or you will be heading to an injury quickly.
You should be resting between stretches to give your penis time to re-circulate blood to the glans that you were just gripping with a death grip… btw, don’t have a death grip, use the least amount of strength that won’t slip, and don’t pull as hard as you can, pull enough to feel the internal tissues get nice and stretched but so that it doesn’t hurt.
When someone says 5 minutes total of stretching in all directions, they mean individual stretches each lasting ~30secs or longer, that together add up to 5 minutes, not that you should do them all back to back so that you may fit them into the 5 minute time frame.
Personally, I like at least 30 seconds between each stretch.
Jelqs are done back to back, but you can and should take a break every 30 seconds to a couple of minutes, plus or minus your experience and unique physiology.
Unfortunately, everyone’s penis is different, and that’s why above all else, you need to learn your own physiology in order to be successful in PE.
So, if you rush to just do more instead of learning yourself, you will fail and have setback after setback.
STARTING: BPEL: 5.9in EG: 5.0in
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NOW (start 1/2024): BPEL: 6.9in. EG: 5.4in