Starting my penis enlargement journey.

Good day,

I am Grant.

I originally bought a penis pump from Bath-Mate two years ago. Over the course of the past two years I believe the longest I went with using it consistently has been one month. I often use it month on month off. I just had not really had the motivation to do it every single day. Now things are changing. I really want a bigger dick.

I found this page from Leo and Longevity (Rest in Peace). He recommended it for people starting out.

When I first bought the pump I was 6.5 inches erect. I am not sure exactly how to measure bone press length, so this measurement was done with a string and a ruler. I would get my self hard and place the string at the base of my boner and trace it up to the top, then mark the string and place it beside the ruler. Now I just use the pump with it’s own built in ruler. After messing around with the pump for two years and doing some stretches I pretty consistently get 6.75 inch boners. I have never measured my girth but I suspect it is right around average for a 6.75 inch penis (I will measure it later this week).

If you are interested I will expand on why I wish to have a bigger dick now. I have always wanted a bigger dick, yet every time I have sex it functions totally fine and is big enough that women say they love it. So when I bought the pump a few years ago I wasn’t really willing to go through the pain of the routine to fix something that was mostly fine. But the other day something hit a nerve in me and motivated the fuck out of me (sorry if I can’t swear).

I was out having lunch with my good friend and his sister. I would never fuck her because she is my best friends sister, but she is a hot little piece and I am attracted to her. So anyways we are eating and we get on the topic of sex or something, and she happens to mention how she fucked a guy once that had a massive dick and it was 9 inches and so thick that she couldn’t fit her hands around it. Then she put her hands on the table to show the size of it, it was massive. It was so much longer then my what I thought was decent 6.75 inch dick. I couldn’t believe it. I was so fucking jealous.

It is like I was hit by bus or something my heart sank into my chest and I couldn’t even focus. I don’t think I have ever felt so emasculated, I felt so embarrassed and ashamed of my dick, being so tiny compared to the man she was with one time.

She went on the explain that she didn’t even like it and it was painful and the guy basically fucked her dry so it was shit. Yet all I could imagine is every girl I liked or fucked being pounded by a huge cock and begging for it and stroking the ego of the man and complementing them about how big it was. I was devastated.

I understand this is something I should probably go to therapy for and it is not the place to be sharing things like that, but I wanted to give some reason behind my motivation. I never want to feel ashamed of my dick again, I want to be proud and confident of my dick.

I know I will likely never get a thick 9 inch dick, and that is okay. I want my dick to be big enough that I think it is awesome.

My dream goal is to get a 8 inch long erected penis, and to have it be pretty thick. I never want to feel that level of masculine shame again.

Now that story time is over, I have a few questions.

Where is the best place to being?

What routine should I do if I only have a pump and 30 minutes a day?

How can I optimally gain my first inch, in a decent amount of time?

Right now I think I am just going to start with getting back into the swing of things with a 10 minute shower pump in the morning, as I learn more I will adapt my process.

As for me personally I am 23 years old and I run a small business that help nutritionist with client acquisition, I started it myself and I am pretty proud:)

Thanks for any help and for reading, I hope you have a great day.

G

Hey Grant! Try not to feel too bad - it sounds as though the girl might have been a size-queen… or exaggerating to "impress" you. At 6.75" though, you already have a big/very big penis! (the average size is 5.2" erect).

Plus, a lot of girls tend to think the penis of the guy they’re with is much bigger than it actually is (…her "9 inches" could actually be closer to 7 inches).

^ this is the important thing you (she) mentioned. Although the guy had (according to her) a thick 9 inch dick… she actually didn’t like it(!). A lot of girls/women wouldn’t like one that big… especially being too thick: in a survey done of sexually active women, the average ideal penis size was 6.4" length by 5" girth. So it looks as though you’re already bigger than the average ideal size.

Anyway, I’m just trying to put some perspective on things. Having said all that, most guys (me included!) will still want a big/bigger dick for all sorts of reasons… I think the best way to gain would be by manual stretches and wearing an extender for a few hours a day - it worked for me. Hopefully, some other members will put forward their suggestions too. Good luck my friend! 💪

The best place to begin is by perusing the forum and getting ideas about how you would like to begin. Everyone is different in terms of what appeals to them and what kind of time and resource they want to invest. The newbie routine is a great start, at least to consider. Try searching for it.

Most guys don’t gain much permanent length with pumping, at least without a dedicated and informed approach that is somewhat specialized. So check out the pumping section and see how you feel about different ways to work with a pump. Bathmates are a bit limited as a tool for permanent gains IMO, but opinions vary.

No one can tell you how long it will take to gain your first inch in length. It depends on your physiology, consistency and efforts. But many guys gain 0.5-0.75 inches fairly quickly as ‘newbie gains.’ Though not all so no way to predict. Newbie gains gain last anywhere from 1-12 months, if you are lucky enough to experience them. Again, no way to predict so you just have to dive in and see how it goes for you.

Well performed manual stretches can be really effective and cost nothing but time and effort. So it might be a good place to start for length. Add some pumping and you might get some good results in a reasonable amount of time. You might consider 15-30 minutes of manual stretching in the morning and three five minute pumping sets in the evening to start. Maybe 3 or 4 days on, one off. Or if you only have 30 minutes, then do stretches 2 days, pump the third and repeat. There’s a million ways to go.

The best two pieces of advice are:
1. to be consistent. Be aware that there will be learning curves where nothing seems to happen, and dry spells where the results don’t seem to come in for a while. Just keep going and make adjustments as needed.

2. to keep a detailed log of your efforts and results. You can measure at any interval you like, but the main way to know if you are making progress or need to make a change, or take a break to let the tissues re-soften, is to chart your results. Figure out a consistent way to measure and do it on a regular, planned interval. Once you get past the newbie gains it is a game of millimeters and it you might only gain a couple mm per month, which can be hard to exactly measure. So tracking over time is key since the 2mm per month becomes clear after several months. I like to log training and measurements on an online spreadsheet, so that might be something you consider.

Good luck!

Hey G- You are starting at the perfect time. No need to be stressed out. When you are 45 like me you will be on Cloud 9 that you started at this day in age and with the expertise of all. Leo was an inspiration to me too and RIP to him. When I started 14 years ago on my first round there was less information than there is now.

I too have had ego crushed, so I can relate 1000% and it is why I started my PE journey. Mine I would say is a bit worse than you, I married my dream wife only to discover she was with a 8 x 5? but again, she told me what I am telling you , a big dick is not everything you think it is when it is too big. It hurt her, my goal from then was never to be his size but to be the biggest before any pain and get into the erogenous level of that pussy. I’m still on that journey but with just one year of PE I’m already on Cloud 9- see my stats and posts.

Please note, there are size queens and then there are normal women. Size queens are a different animal so talking about that is crazy and only relevant to a few. The normal women will be VERY impressed and get into that heated zone with anything 6.75 BPEL + and 4.75 EG +.With that size you are getting into the big dick conversation. The max for that ideal IMO is 7.5 BPEL and 5.75 EG.

So now with Routine:
Discover the following and spend 100 hrs on this forum and MOS matters of size blog
- Red & NIR pad / MOsRED
- Manual Stretches - See all HINK on youtube videos
- 5 x 5 x 3 later for girth
- Get 2 cylinder with Gauge, you need to measure what you are doing now, no more bathmate until you reach your goal
- I personally don’t recommend Clamping but I do encourage ULI #3 after your newbie routine.

Thanks man it means a lot I really appreciate you leaving a comment on my post.

Where can I go to learn about stretching and how to stretch and what routine did you do?

Thanks so much. I will start to learn what "Red & NIR pad / MOsRED" means and develop a plan of action.

Thank you for the support I do really appreciate it.

All of this is going into my notes folder on Notion, so thank you my friend.