Starting out, with focus on girth

I’m just starting out. No routine yet as I’m still reading.

Current stats: 6.25BPEL, 5EG

My main goal is for girth, but I want to add some length as well, so I don’t too imbalanced.

My wife is rather petite, so too much length would not be a good thing - she dated a very well hung guy (probably 10”+EL and at around 7”EG) for a few years but could never take him all the way (probably no more than 8-9”) and I don’t want to end up with that happening to me. She liked the girth though, so I’m hoping to put on a bit discreetly to surprise her. Also, we’ll be having kids soon, so bulking up a bit couldn’t hurt. She’s happy with my size and enjoys sex, but I’m aiming for ecstatic :-D

My goal is for 7-9”BPEL (keep going until she says stop) and then trying for 7-8” EG. I’d also like a fatter head, so maybe 7”EG, and 8”head?

I’ve just got a few questions before I get started.

[*Planning:*]
What should I plan for - eg. If I think 9EL is her max, then should I aim for 8 EL and then start working on girth? Ie. Can I add girth without worrying about additional length gains, or can I just cement the girth gains without cementing the length gains if I get too long?

[*Equipment*]
For the warm up and warm down, would one of those athletes microwave gel packs wrapped in a towel be ok? I think a sock full of rice could attract some unwanted attention :-p

[*Technique*]
A normal, even look is of most importance to me. I’ll happily sacrifice faster/total gains to make sure I don’t look like a freak. I understand the importance of warm up and warm down and ensuring exercises are implemented evenly and gradually, but are there any other ideas I should be keeping in mind while doing this?

Sorry if these questions come up a lot. I’ve spent about 10 hours reading already and there’s so much info and I’m keen to get started, as I know it’s best done as a long term process.

You should plan for the max number = 9EL and if you get to 8EL and find you like it and your wife likes it than stay there.

The microwave gel pack seems like it wouldn’t be a bad idea for a warm up wrap.

Always do Jelqs or any girth exercises as close to the base as possible so to not get the baseball bat effect. Other than that I can’t really think of anything.

Just be careful and start out slow with the newbie routine for the first 2 weeks at least. You don’t want to overdue anything and have to take time off of PE to let an injury heal.

You should spend a bit of time looking threw the injuries section to get an idea of what not to do and how to avoid some of the common injuries.

Try to read as much as you possible can

Welcome to the wonderful world of PE

Do you have any idea of how unlikely this is, statistically? There are plenty of threads about size statistics and plenty of experience on the board about the notoriously poor measurements given by women.

10 hours is nothing.

Start by following the newbie routine - believe me, gains aren’t gonna just jump at you anyway.

If you want to focus on girth, then do the newbie routine for at least 3 months. Gradually increase the hardness while jelqing, so you can condition your dick for later advanced excercises.

But don’t rush it. Even if you did PE for a whole day you can’t get gains in a month.

DO you have any idea how much 8” of girth is? Nearly no porn star has that girth, no not even Shane Diesel, and there is a reason for that. Next to that putting that size on your head prevents you from nearly everything. You won’t get any blow jobs anymore, anal won’t become an option for life and except when your wife has an XXL pussy vaginal sex will become rare and will be painful for your wife.

In my opinion 9x7” is the absolute max and that 7” of girth is attached to base, mid shaft at most. Aiming for 6” of girth would be a good idea, blow jobs still remain an option with that size:D while it is massive none the less.

I agree! 2-1/2” diameter(8” girth) is like having your wife do a can of Raid!! Highly uncomfortable.
This would be just for you an no one else! Could you put a can of raid in your mouth?

Not too many people could. Size is nice but keep it reasonable!

Good luck with your goals!

Cheers, that gives me some more confidence when starting.

Ok. I’ve just spent an hour or two there, I’ll read some more over the next week and then kick off.

I know how unlikely it is, but I know a few other women who’ve been with him and there is some consensus there. I wasn’t given measurements, just comparisons to objects.

I understand. The problem is I’m a perfectionist and if I left it until I felt 100% ready, I’d never get started, so I’m just trying to get the ball rolling.

Ok. I just don’t want to give myself any injuries - and I plan to make only gradual gains anyway.

That sounds sensible. I’m pushing myself to get started, but I’m not in a rush to make progress.

Hmm, maybe I should tone it back a bit, 6.5 EG, 7 at the head?

Well, I have a big mouth, and a flexible spine.. But I’m not trying to be full of myself :-p

I’ll revise the target then. :-)

I’ve been trying to find out what X% erect means.

Ie. Is 70% erect, 70% of length? 70% of angle? 70% of girth? 70% of volume? 70% of rigidity (and if so, how do you objectively measure rigidity?)

The other problem that I have is that are these % figures accurate for everyone - ie. You could have the same erect stats as someone else, but flaccid stats could be very different, so how can you describe something on the same scale?

I can only give you an idea about % erection.

As far as I know, 70%-80% erection (which I have for jelqing) is a state where your penis is capable to get into a vagina, yet the CC is still soft enough that you can feel the balooning when you jelq. 90% is hard that I can hardly feel/see the balooning effect, and 100% is something which is close to orgasm, and 110% is about the clamping. Finally, after a good jelq session, my dick will be very well flaccid pumped, and I will refer it as 30-40% erect, and good for length-jelq.

Welcome to Thunder’s Place allswell,

As meiya777 suggested, erection percentage is the amount stiffness felt in the penis at a given moment. 0% is total flaccid, 30-40% is a plumped flaccid - good to work on for jelqs. Anything over 50% you can feel the inner workings of the penis stiffen so the flaccid starts to raise up. 90% is a regular good erection and 100% is the ultimate, superhard boner.

There are no hard and fast rules on this - as you continue your PE journey, you’ll be able to guage for yourself what a 50% or 70% erection feels and looks like. :)