Need help figuring out what future girth goals I should have

Luckily, I was blessed with a great natural girth. Even better, that girth has gone up in the nearly 3 months I’ve been doing PE. Even while concentrating exclusively on length, I’ve gained about as much girth as length (I haven’t measured for about a month, but I’m sure it’s gone up even more since my last measuring session, we’ll see when I do my 3 month benchmark in a couple days).

My question is this: What should I put my new girth goal as? To be honest, I would have no problem at all if I never gained an eighth of an inch for the rest of my life (as long as I got some length :) ). However, I started big naturally and the growth comes so easily that I’m wondering if I should actually go for an extreme girth (I.e. Implement clamping or high erection jelqs in the next couple of weeks instead of working on length only). I’m already in the top 5%, if not higher, and being in that top one or two percent would be insane. It’s almost guaranteed that any girl I would get with would never have had a guy as thick as me, and since the consensus is that girth is usually the most important factor to a girl’s pleasure (in the length vs. Girth debate at least), that would be a great thing to have. I’m just worried that if I get *too* big it will really limit my sex life. I’ve already had experiences with one night stands or a weekend fling where a girl will be too tight for me and I’ll end up hurting her more than getting her off. Any girl I’ve had sex with more than a few times gets used to it and falls in love with it, but those one night stands usually don’t go too well. If I was sporting a 6.75 mid shaft, I can only imagine the type of conditioning I’d have to put a girl through to get her to the level where she’d really enjoy it.

In this forum it’s almost always said that “the more girth the better”. Like I’ve said, I’ve already had some experiences where this isn’t true, but I’ve also had some experiences where this was 100% true. When it boils down to it, am I past the point of no return? Would putting another half inch of girth on me only help? I’m thinking that if a girl can take what I have right now off the bat, she can probably take another half inch of EG, and if a girl can’t take what I have right now then it wouldn’t make a difference if I was bigger because the result would be the same. If that’s true, I might as well increase the EG since it won’t limit the girls I can get with and will only help with the girls that can naturally take me.

It’s kinda hard to explain, but I hope I was clear enough for some replies :)

Did these one-night-stands find you too tight when you were 5.75” mid shaft, or since you’ve been closer to 5.9” mid shaft?

I’d continue to focus on the length, for now. You’ll probably put on some more girth doing this. Then, when you are in a steady relationship with a woman, if you think that she’d like even more girth, you can start focusing on girth.

Yes, the more girth the better, up to a point! Women like the full feeling, but they don’t enjoy pain (well, most of them don’t!). I can’t tell what girth is ideal for most women. But based on your experiences, you may be nearly there!

I haven’t had any one night stands in the past 3 months, so the ones I did have were at the 5.75” mid. I kinda worry about what it will be like with the 5.9” mid (which has probably gone above the 6” mark in the last month if my observations are correct) but, on the other hand, I’m kinda excited too :)

Depends what you care about.

1. If you want to be capable of pain-free “quickies” with women in your future, try not to gain any more girth than you already have. Some women will always require substantial foreplay and arousal before intercourse with a 6+” girth.

2. If you want to be capable of relatively painless extended intercourse sessions (following substantial foreplay) with women in your future, try not to go past 6-6.5” midshaft girth. Many women get quite sore after an hour or so of intercourse with such a girth, even with sufficient lubrication, and having several sex sessions in a weekend becomes highly problematic. This is true even if you’ve been with the woman for a while and she has “adjusted” to your girth.

3. If you don’t mind always having to engage in extensive foreplay and not being able to go at it for long periods (or without long breaks between bangings) — or if you have settled on a partner whose pussy you know can handle it — then a 6.5+” midshaft girth might start to make sense.

In summary, I think most guys would do well to stop at about 6” girth if they know what’s good for them. The main exception is if you’re married and know your partner would enjoy more (and you can see how it affects your sex life as you gradually increase girth).

Hmm

I’m still young and don’t have a long relationship in sight, and since I’m back at school and one night stands are much more available, keeping on the path that I’m going on right now sounds like the best plan. Perhaps in the future if I can find a special girl who wants something really thick I’ll bump up the girth on purpose, but I’d rather a girl say I’m “thick but able to take it” than “incredibly thick but it hurt”.

Sounds like you have your values straight, Butterbean :nodding: