Originally Posted by kingpole
I’m not going to tell him “size does not matter”. That phrase is such an irritation, it does matter in a sick and insecure world. So I would start him out at an early age say 16 with some simple stretches and say it is for penis health. When 18 if he pushes the issue I would introduce him to TP. If he asked me my size I would say what my size is. When I was young I saw older boys and men with bigger dicks, it made me feel like shit. Until I was in high school I had never seen a flaccid hang on any male. They were always erect.
Yeah, KP, sadly it does, as you say, “matter in a sick and insecure world.”
When I was in junior high and high school, I occasionally saw other boy’s cocks in the locker room or in porn mags. I really didn’t give it much thought. The pleasure and pursuit of pleasure was the big deal to me, and having fun with the cock I had/have. If anything, the only comparing myself to other men was that I was inclined to admire the muscularity of the big rugby jocks…. I was a skinny runner. While I might have been intimidated or just impressed by their physique, I didn’t care about their cocks.
Another thought in this whole thing, back to sons…. Though I doubt my son would talk to me about it, if he ever mentioned that a girl (or guy I suppose), rejected him because of the size of his penis, at that point I would tell him that size does not define a man’s worth, or at least it should not, and that someone who would choose to like him based on his penis size or reject him for perceived insufficient size, is shallow and probably not a quality person to have a relationship with anyway. Guys who seem to live just in the pursuit of more holes to plug with their “big tool” are not the kind of guy that I want to raise my son to be, and yeah, I have the right to decide how I will raise my son. How he turns out, though, is of course ultimately up to him.
In my opinion, size is important when it comes to pleasure (for oneself and one’s partner), and I don’t think it’s wrong to be proud of having a big penis. However, to fixate on it as the most important attribute of being a man is immature in my opinion, and probably a sign of other psychological issues going on. As I think that most kids going through puberty are naturally immature and prone to feelings of insecurity, I expect it to be something they’d worry about. And because of that, I think it is proper for a father to assure his son that he need not get sucked into the “sick and insecure world” mentality that a man should be ashamed of an average or less than average cock size.
As much as I am proud of my penis enlargement accomplishments, there is so much more to life!
There is one situation where I would definitely intervene with my son without waiting to be asked. If I discovered that his body was not growing right, such as gonads not enlarging like they should at puberty, I would take him to my urologist so he could get the medical care he’d need to get proper development to happen. Long time ago I had a friend who actually trusted me enough to show me his “micropenis.” Honestly, my friend’s penis is no bigger than what my two year old son has now, and his testes were small too. He didn’t get the DHT or IGF-1 or didn’t have the proper androgen receptors. That’s a serious medical condition. If I knew my son had that medical problem, I would NOT wait for my son to bring it up. I’d get him to a doctor ASAP.
BFLR