Originally Posted by garga22
Maybe he’s very late in puberty and som steroids will fix his unit big?
Bad idea.
Whatever you may think about the issue of size, steroids do not hold the answer.
First of all, they will not grow your cock - even if you’re pubescent. In fact there is evidence to suggest they may do the opposite.
Repeat: bad idea.
To seriously answer this question: be very careful about passing on your own insecurities and issues to your son. Check yourself before you do that.
It’s one thing to talk about this subject frankly (it’s really just a small part of the basic Birds & Bees conversation), and it’s another to put thoughts of inadequacy by comparison into his head before he’s had any chance to develop his own relationship to the wonderful world of sex, independent of you.
Adolescents have enough to deal with without the adults in their lives (who they look up to) loading them down with arbitrary ideas about penis size.
The issue of size has been debated on these boards ad nauseam (what else would you expect, I guess). The one thing that seems indisputable is that size matters most to men. A lot of women don’t care about it as long as it works, and others care about it to some - based largely on their own experiences of the men who are attached to said organ, rather than the organ itself.
For 14 year-olds, the mystery of sex isn’t loaded up with porn-fed fantasy (or at least it shouldn’t be).
Some guys are big, some are small. Some boobs are big, some are small. One way or another people find a way to get naked and have a good time with each other no matter what they’ve got.
The real question is: is your son going to make good choices about who he gets involved with on that level. Is he going to make good choices with girls who will treat him well and who he will treat well.
Sex is about a whole lot more than the parts.
With regard to male competitiveness in the locker room and such, my answer is the same.
The big challenge that adolescence presents to young people emotionally is all about self-acceptance.
Once that is achieved then self-improvement can be grappled with. If that entails Thunder's or the like, fine. But it’s not your job as a parent to give him this kind of ‘help’.
Your job as a parent is to lead him to a healthy self-acceptance; regardless of size.