Question?

I’m not sure if this has been discussed yet but here is my question… I don’t have children am I am not even married, but assuming we are all going to pass on the “I’m not satisfied with the size of my package” gene, would you share your PE wisdom with your adolescent son so that he would have the other kids in his class staring with envy in the locker room shower? Would that give him confidence that might help him excell at other things? I think of the confidence that I have achieved just knowing that I can be larger, and I have to wonder…. What would I be like now if I had that confidence during adolescence…..

I’m kinda thinking you wouldn’t want to start this until you were at least 18.

I’d wait until he is 16. Mature enough to take responsibility of such information. Ofcourse it depends on the individual.

Don’t force your insecurities onto someone who may not have the same problem, especially teenagers who have enough body acceptance issues as it is.

Hey Flyguy! I have a personal experience that may help.
My son is 11 years old now. He has self-esteem problems. I started him in Karate over 3 years ago to see if it would help. It turns out that he really likes Karate and always gives me a world of shit when we are running late to his classes or private lessons.

About a year ago he saw me get out of the shower and commented on how big a dick I had and that he only had a tiny one. I explained to him that he was still growing and that he to would have a nice sized cock when he grew up.

When he hits 18 and the subject of dick size comes up again I will not hesitate to share with him the art of PE. Maybe even before that. If it becomes an issue, say when he is 16 I may not show him my tool kit or methods but but will definitely steer him to a few sites like Thundersplace.

I don’t think anybody was forcing anything. If you let somebody know about the possibilities that exist, he/she may then take advantage of those possibilities if he/she wants.

Flyguy,

I think it would be good to tell your son about PE, but I wouldn’t expect any kind of life-altering experiences to come of it. Confidence issues usually occur between the ears and that is where they should be fixed.

Peace,
Taz

:rolling: LOL, Oh man. I don’t know what is, but when I read that I couldn’t stop laughing!! At least a good minute or so… I know it wasn’t your intention, but I just had to say thanks for making my day a lot better! :D

Maybe I’m just a little crazy =)

Boy, I can see this from both angles.

Most of us knew pretty early on where we fit on the size scale (at least relative to our peers). I certainly did. As young as 12 I knew that I was on the low side of average. I was glad to see some smaller, but most were larger. Of course that was flacid in the gym shower and such, but still…

I definitely wish I had the info in this forum when I was 14 and first starting to think about actually using my goods.

On the other hand, kids tend to overdo things in their zeal and optimism. I started lifting weights earlier than I should and had many injuries from working out too long, hard, or improperly. Was I responsible enough at 14 to know about PE? Maybe not. But I sure would like to have the option.

And anyway, the way things are nowadays, if anyone found out you had told a “kid” about this stuff then family services would probably be knocking on your door. :-(

busted bus

Hi there Flyguy,

You’ve raised an interesting issue here:) . For your info, I’m not really close with my dad neither my brothers, I sometime hoping that either my dad or one of my brother could talked to me, you know like man to man talk kind of thing. Plus my penis is small, I really need some encouragement, I know you could understand what I mean here. So, I think if I had a son one day, I’ve promised my self that I would be very open to him, he could ask anything that he wanted to know. If, he ask about size, I might tell him about this jelqing stuff and the web also.

Hi there bustedbus,

I like your point of view. You are right kids tend to overdo thing. Thats why they need older friend to assist them, thats when father or older brother came to play their role.

Seeya all:)

I will give the pe-information when he is 16 years old.

This is because he will probably hurt himself if he’s younger.

Yeah, you’re right. “Force” was the wrong word. I am still against adding any problems to someone going through puberty. Body issues are a part of that process and to even suggest that he has a small one just compounds an already difficult time in his life. I guess my advice would be to wait until he brings up the subject rather than offering information that might not be needed or wanted at the time.

You have to tell kids to keep their dick clean why not add to that to pull on it gently before going to sleep, tell them it’s for better circulation. If they don’t know it’s PE you won’t give them any extra insecurities.

I wish I had known about PE when I was around 18. However I would have been very embarassed if my Dad sat me down and explained to me how to get a bigger penis. Would this embarassment be worth the extra inches.

Probably!

Having found PE at 29, (Now thirty) - and only just starting to get stretching / hanging perfected - I also think what it would have been like to have known about it in my late teens.

If I had known about it however, I doubt I would have had the maturity and discipline to have done anything effective with the knowledge, so I’m glad I found it when I did. I’m giving myself 5 years of PE to see where I get.

I probably would tell my unborn sons about it when they’re old enough, but IMHO it is the cumulative frustration of unwanted comments, soured lovers, personal inadequacy and wife pleasing that fules my desire for a bigger member and this reached critical mass when I was older.

Citizen.