Weak Erection

Rrunner,

One of the guys on the site suggested I use Korean Ginseng and Gingko Biloba. Have started taking them in the last week. Things are definitely slightly better but that could be the PE exercises. I still go soft during sex as well; it is very off-putting.

Irishman, Thanks for the info. Actually two of the brands of the penis pills I took had both those ingredients in them. There was a little bit of a change in the flaccid length. According to the manufacturer of the pills these herbs allowed more blood into the penis chambers. But guess what.stop taking them and you’ll go right back to where you were. For me they were a waste of time and money. Perhaps for yourself or someone else they might help. A note to yeahthatguy.thanks for your input. I’ll ask my doctor for a sample of Cialis and see what happens. As with any medication I think if I have no choice, I’ll go for it. I’d rather try to keep my sex life healthy without that stuff if possible. The urologist explained to me that as we get older our tissue in the penile chambers begins to lose it’s ability to trap and maintain the blood flow. Hard erections are all about the blood supply to the chambers. To date I know of no surgery to correct this condition.that is degenerating penile tissue. There is some penis surgery available to lengthen and widen the penis but at my age it would be too risky and expensive, not to mention it still doesn’t solve the problem of the degenerating tissue. If the urologist is correct then medication may be that alternative. But before we go down that road as a permanent solution I’m going to utilize the knowledge from this web site to try to get out of it. I’m going to maintain a positive attitude and hope for the best.

Hi,
I noticed a few guys on this thread talking about how the gf has tried bigger dicks before. While I too want to be bigger, it’s not the “be all and end all”. I think love, technique and enthusiasm are KEY.

A little story…
A few years ago, an EX of mine (24 y/o at the time, and very experienced) came up to me in the street and said “I hope you don’t mind, we were playing the Truth Game, and the question was asked, who was your best lover? and I picked you”.

Well the fact is that I was 5.75 BPEL X 5.1 at most in those days - maybe less (I was only 18). I knew one of her EX’s had a whopper because she was an artist, and drew a very detailed nude pic of him. Also - fast forward 20 years later - we were chatting the other day and she said “yeah, he was big”. She then gave me a run down of who had what - something she refrained from doing while we were together - and she said one guy was almost too big.

Before you ask, she did not say what size she preferred. But I can tell you she knew how to use what ever she had to work with! I think it was Lind Lovelace who said something along the lines of: “I can ball with a matchstick”.

I believe (maybe incorrectly) that women are very impressed by big dicks so much so, I think perhaps on an unconscious level that women equate dick size with manliness. A large dick is a symbol of power both among men and women. This is what really grates me; Does my girlfriend look back at large ex’s and think ‘fuck they were manly’ or ‘they may have been shit in bed but fuck me they had some weapon’. For me, being a great lover comes second to being hung.

The well-hung man has a psychological advantage over his more modest brothers. All things being equal among two guys e.g. car, house, job, wife, career etc the guy with the bigger dick has a powerful advantage. The world is big-cock crazy, Sex and the City has given men insight into the female psyche and anyone with female friends will know that a lot of sexual conversation among women centres around who’s hung and who’s not. Fuck me, there is a fascination with white women about shagging a black man, how many women do you know are fascinated with shagging an Asian guy? We all know the reason is that black men (rightly or wrongly) are perceived to have bigger dicks.

Sorry to rant on, but obviously I’m a bit insecure about this issue. I don’t believe that women necessarily enjoy having sex more with a large cock than an average one but I believe that the vast majority of women would prefer a partner with a large penis if for nothing other than bragging rights. Women are almost as fascinated as men about cock size - thank god I’ve found this site!!!

Irishman79 -
You are thinking like a man.

Sex and the City is an insight into what a TV network thinks will sell well. Guess what? Sex, Money, Insecurity, jealousy - need I go on.

Mrs Marky says, she would rather have a man with a big sense of humour than a big dick. And that self-obsession is a bit of a turn off. And (she is dictating this to me as I type!) they like men who pay them lots of attention.

But it seems to me some of the issues here on this thread are not about what the woman thinks. It’s all about our own self image. She could say “You are an Adonis” until she is blue in the face… but will it be heard?

Listen when it comes to keeping the Mrs happy you are 100% right. But my penis enlargement is all about my own self-image; my goal to be in the leading percentile of everything that matters to me. I can objectively stand back and look at my attitude to life and know that it doesn’t lend to being happy; always wanting something more, never feeling satisfied. But fuck it, that’s why I will defy my genetics and give myself a large cock whereas someone who is content will not.

I will disagree with you slightly on Sex in the City. With fear of sounding like a bra burning feminist, I think the programme did a lot for women, giving them a voice for their sexuality. Of course the concept and characters are glamorised, but I believe it has lent fuel to the ‘have it all’ motto which seems to be consuming women in the western world - the perfect job, kids, husband, sexlife and yes I’m afraid; having the perfectly hung lover/partner/husband.

Wifey, is saying that you are setting up a “I will be happy when I get to X” scenario. Will you?

She’s completely right. I think it drives me to get ahead though. The hard part is knowing when you get there!

She also went on to say that after people give up searching for tangible goals, they get on the spiritual kick later in life and start seeking enlightenment. And of course there is big bux being made by people telling you it is just around the corner, just one more seminar/satsang/meditation. “That’ll be $400 dollars, thank you, have a nice day”

Smart girl, your Mrs. I would have to concur that one should find happiness first and then go after their goals. We all know happiness and Joy comes from within but we also know that anything ever worth achieving comes from an uncompromising hunger to achieve it. Great bridges, beautiful works of art and unnatural feats of physical endurance all arise from this hunger. This hunger drives people to achieve what can to some seem impossible; PE is a weak example of this but an example nontheless.

All of us on this site share a desire born out of insecurities. This desire drives us to defy all medical knowledge and advice and to embark on a potentially dangerous journey based on a simple believe that we can have more than our genetics granted us.

If I, you or anybody on this forum needs to dwell on the negativity and feed our insecurities in order to take us to a place where we are willing to take sizeable action, as uncomfortable and damaging as that may be, it might be necessary. However, of course it is very important to enjoy the journey and celebrate the little victories along the way.

I wish you every success with your PEing and apologies for the semi-philosophical lecture - I tend to ramble at times!!

If it hasn’t been mentioned, working out and healthy diet actually RAISE your testosterone levels. I know spinach and walnuts do, spinach actually affects the penis specifically. Weight training and general activity will increase your testosterone, something that drops after age 30 (roughly). So buy some frozen spinach for the week, it’s cheaper to buy (weight per dollar) than fresh, and keeps well. I use it in eggs and rice.

Hello to Irishman 79 from RRunner 69. I posted a thread in the newbie forum about my E.D issues. If you get a chance maybe you can look at it. Hope all is going well with you. I will overcome my E.D problems. Also thanks to marky 777 for his input and comments.

What kind/brand of extender did you get? How do you like it so far?

I found an extender called Omega. It’s design and structure is just as good as the more expensive brands and it was only $100.00 . I haven’t had a chance to use it consistently yet, but I’m hoping for some results. The basic theory behind the extender is to stretch the tissue to the point where it’s forced to repair itself, grow new cells, etc, etc. I really do hope it works. It’s a fairly comfortable unit. It has both the noose and strap devices for holding just behind the head. If you Google the Omega extender you’ll find it. Good Luck. Runner 69

Hey guys. Back form a weekend with my wench. ( not the captains) . Thought I would pass on the good news especially to Irishman 79 if he reads this reply. Had two successful sessions with my girlfriend without the Viagra. This is enormous progress.