Weak Erection

Hi Guys,

I’m new to PE and just joined the site yesterday, however, I have been looking at the threads etc. For the last few weeks.

I have two questions; firstly, I’m only 28 and for the last few years have been getting very pathetic erections (maybe 60-70%) and when I get a proper one I tend to loose it during sex, however, I know about kegals and have started doing them now. But I think part of the problem is when I mastrubate, I do so when it’s still kinda soft, only getting hard when I am about to shoot - Could this be building an association in my head that I don’t need to be fully hard to have sex? Basically has anybody experienced anything similar?
Second question; I have gone through the member pics looking for a valid before and after picture, Is there any that ye deem to be indisputable?

Anyway, I look forward to growing a big one? The reason is a bad one; some of my long term girlfriends ex’s had bigger ones than me and I still can’t come to terms with it. I suppose something has to get you started!

Good luck everyone and I’m glad to be a member of your community.

Haven’t done proper measurements yet but think I’m about 6.2 BPEL and 5.3 EG.
MY ultimate goal is 8x6 but my immediate goal is 7x5.5

Greetings from Ireland
C

Irishman, welcome to Thunders!

Your reasons are your alone, so whatever motivates you is fine as long as it doesn’t hurt others.

Concerning your problem - yes, you erections may be weak because of your masturbation habits. So the answer may be creating new patterns - look up on edging, I am sure it can only help.

Cheers Chicken, I’ll have a look at edging

I actually have a hard time keeping erect while Jelqing, it’s gone so bad.

Thanks

I have this same problem. Lately, in the shower I can’t even get erect enough to jelq. It’s almost to the point where I can’t get fully hard even if getting a bj.

Hey Irishman. I am 33 and that sounds like a familiar story.

I started exercising and eating healthily and stopped smoking as well as starting PE. I have gotten erections that are very hard since doing this. I now need to go get a new partner or two to see if it stays hard during actual sex. I have tried edging too. I think that it is isn’t mentioned enough that penile health can be greatly improved with the newbie routine and the advice given here.

Yeah M3Junkie I’m pretty much the same, even when I’m horny I don’t get a full erection. I think it’s all in my head though because I am physically able to get a full erection just very irregularly.

I going to give it a month of being more healthy - less drink etc. And stick to the newbie routine and I’ll post back and tell you how I got on. Thanks 74zowee86

So ya, one day of me being healthy, running, eating right, eating all meals, and vitamins. I am already noticing a difference in erection quality and frequency. All of this combined with the PE workouts should be great.

M3Junkie,

It takes two to three weeks for a healthy regime to provide full affect on your systems. Your erectile quality will improve.

Cardio helps cock-strength too, isn’t it about helping the heart to be a more effective pump and improvement of oxygen uptake?

Optimalss, yes!! Exactly!

Get that erection up to 100% I bet you would measure about 7”. You have nothing to worry about with your current size you are normal.

Took a viagra one night and it felt massive but I don’t imagine it was 7 inches.

Hello to everyone and a special hello to a fellow Irishman.

I went through the very same situation about a year ago. The cause of my weak erections was down to a litany of negative things that had been happening to me for the previous 3yrs. Emotional problems can cause havoc with your sex life and sex drive. I am lucky in that I have a loving, patient and understanding wife who helped me through this and the other problems.

I didn’t do anything extraordinary to get over the problem,just more positive thinking and a healthier lifestyle. One positive thing came out of the whole ED thing , I found Thunders Place. I was really impressed by the guys in these forums. The advice,no put downs and the encouragement given to each other.

So good luck Irishman,I’m sure you will reach your target. As far as your ex’s are concerned ,well they are ex’s now and their ex’s should not even be on your radar. My Target size is your present size, think about it.

Peebrain, Best of luck with your PEing, Keep me updated as to how you are getting on.

Greetings Irishman 79. I too have the same situation almost verbatim. I logged on this morning and you could have told my story. I have been somewhat silent on here but I have some issues.the guys on this forum seem very helpful, so maybe I can get some feedback. I tried pumping years ago and am afraid I did some penis damage. I noticed discoloration and some pain but I kept going determined to have a big one. I noticed a loss if sensitivity also but this actually helped me to last longer. I pumped furiously and got hardly any gain at all. Looking back now, it was a big mistake, as my erections became weaker. My flaccid size increased but erect size was a no gainer. I’m new to this forum, so I read about jelqing and tried that. Now I have bought a penis extender as my last hope. The girl I’m currently with has had partners (at least one) that were more well endowed than me. It came out on a conversation once and after I tried to get more detail she tried to downplay it and then deny it. It’s been a source of anger with me as she says she’s telling the truth but I’m not buying it. She didn’t love the guy at all but stayed with him for two years and admitted it was for the sex. So he had to be packing. I’m 56 now and softer erections might be somewhat normal but I’m not happy with it. I tried Viagra and it helped but I soon found myself depending on it for intercourse every time. I’ve heard that most women are not honest and straightforward when it comes to orgasms and their partners size, etc.. I’m on the verge of breaking it off with her. She says (“Your the best”) but do I believe that? Hell No. Maybe I can find a petite Asian with a small vagina. I’m hoping to crack the 6 inch barrier with this extender. Has anyone had success with these devices?

Hello Rrunner, It’s unbelievable how much the shit about ex’s get under your skin. Imagine this; when I started going out with my partner, she was still hanging around in the same group as some of her ex’s - one of them was known as ‘the Bulmer Bottle’ (pint bottle of cider) because of the size of his cock.

I’ve joined this site and I won’t give up untill I have the size and quality of erections I want - I advise you to do the same. Get the negativity out by writing about it and then focus on what you want - visualise the sexlife and penis you want and believe you can have it; that’s what I am doing and I guarantee you with hard work and visualisation we can both be successful.

I wish you all the best mate