Why they keep lying to me?

But hitting the a-spot with your dick is, apparently

Or if you can hit it with lifted missionary I can penetrate with almost 7 inch bit less so then I will be able to hit it right now with potentially every women.

What happened to your wife?

What do you mean?

Not all women are the same. Sure, they care about dick size but they also want guys to be physically fit, rich, mentally stable and emotionally fun. ##

You are already here in Thundersplace to grow your dick, and it is not gonna magically grow overnight. It takes time. At the same time, growing your wealth, abs, muscles, social skills and other talents also take time.

I’ll give you an example. I am good with my voice and guitar and somewhat I am physically fit. I am confident that I can flirt a woman by just serenading them. I know it sounds cheesy but it seems to work the most. Another, my mate has got a lambo, and in our social group, he gets the girls most. Well, i dont know about his penis size, but as far as I can tell, men’s dick size is just another factor that is a bonus points for girls, and it is not the main thing girls look at. Obviously, we are all in this forum to work our dicks, an area that I am weak at, but I do not overcomplicate things.

Good things take time. You are lucky to be in netherlands. Have a good height and dick size which almost most guys in the world will be envy of. Do not stress too much mate. Also, just a good ol advice for ya. Do this for yourself. Do not do PE for girls. Youre putting them on the pedestal too much. If you look after yourself with love, girls see your radiance and comes naturally.

I think he means that your discussing future girlfriends and pleasing other lovers. If you have a wife, why are you are you so concerned about pleasing other woman. I hope you find so happiness in your P.E journey. Wouldn’t the psychologist be saying to you, if she was over concerned about your size why would she marry you?

Psychologist mode, who’s getting more sex, a ugly big dick guy with no game or life skills, or a rich normal size, below average sized movie star, athlete, alpha male.

On a side note, it is very difficult to over come a self limiting belief about a certain subject what ever it may be.

Thats the problem im pretty short for the average length here is 180cm im 172. I dont look short and im muscular. Im gonna gain my penis to 7 inch BP and Im not ugly. Im doing this for myself to gain confidence and you said it yourself its a bigger then average dick is a bonus point and that bonus point I want to take and I can. Youre missing the point in my thread I mean why they keep lying to me the thread isnt: help my dick cant grow. I grew almost 1 inch to my goal but now I cant PE due issues in my head so thats the frustrating part. But I hope and think 7 inch BP (maybe even more) is called a bonus point and a above average dick

Who said I have a wife? Sorry this is very funny all of your comments help a lot so thanks guys really but some of you are misunderstanding the point. Im 21 and Im not married, im under average in height thats why I want to compensate it with an over average dick.

Also the point of the thread is that psychologists keep telling me size doesnt matter but it matters to me because you said it yourself its a bonus point for women and I want that bonus point so at least 7 inch BP should be called a bonus points I think.

My friends have both dicks smaller then 16cm BP and they are average I think so maybe im already there.

And 1 other time thanks guys really appreciate the comments and support.

How many girls have you have penetrating sex with?

2 girls didnt last long and I still had a penis of 6 inch BP where I started.

You seem obsessed in the way we men do about this. All you have said is so magnified by your obsession that you can’t see you really are above average.

PE should (and must) be a pleasant activity, focused on having a good time experimenting and discovering changes in your sexual anatomy and perfomance. This is ego activity. Love yourself, women don’t give a fuck about size.

And you’re missing my answer. Don’t stress yourself too much. On top of that, look on other areas in your life to improve on. PE takes time, and it is not only about PE. There is more to life to improve on than your dick.

Im doing that I said last christmas started my depression and I made a list of everything I want to improve on physically. Im working every day very hard but PE is on of them. I only need 0.6cm for my 7 BP goal and then PE will be on the bottom of the list for sure then its not too important anymore.

I dont know if provides any consolation to you, Berghuis, but even at my current size (see signature) I think I never gave a woman an a-spot orgasm hahahaha
So this may prove it is also technique after all :-D.

On a more serious note: There are studies done that being above average compared to being average is obviously a SLIGHT advantage. So if a psychologist denies that,
he or she is lying and doing you a disservice. But trust me, there are good ones out there who can tell you the truth. And i would definitely seek good professional help if I was in your shoes.
It is nothing to be ashamed of, quite the opposite.

The truth you may want to hear is “I am 8 cm too short and thus my life is miserable. My dick is 1 inch too short and thus all hope is lost”.
But that is not the objective truth. That is what you want it to be from your one-sided point of view. The reality is: If you are taller than the girl, you are most certainly good to go.
If she is 1.85cm you will be probably out of luck, but if she is 170cm or below you have nothing to worry about.
Well, in terms of dick size => automatic orgasm, see my comment. I fail to generate penetrative orgasms in most cases so far.
So either I am also not big enough or maybe maybe the other guys are right and technique, oral, the connection to the girl etc are the important points.

In the end, you can marry in 10 years, you dont need to rush anything. You could even marry in 15 years.
So by then, you have the time to get to 9 inches BPEL. Only to find out that the pursuit was completely useless for the goal you wanted to achieve [make the girl happy] :-D.

Well, actually size doesn’t matter that’s why “the average“ might seem as “small“ there are other factors, MANY FACTORS,