Wife doesn’t lIke PE

I just call jelqs exercise to my girl now because I don’t do them to grow now but I noticed my EQ fell off without them so I’m back to them. EQ is improved already and I explained why to her and said “exercises.” Like kegels, and she said Oh. Nice.

And it’s the goddamn truth so I don’t get the secrecy. My GF openly works on her kegels with her little contraption, she is very proud of being very tight and of the strength of her muscles there. She can clench me and make it hard for me to move inside her. She openly brags about exes begging her to let them fuck her just one last time because she’s tight (and she’s spectacularly hot too). The first time we made love, she was impressed because I didn’t blow my load prematurely, which she said pretty much every man has always done with her. I had to confess I did blow my first load very quickly, but she felt so good that I kept going and quickly overcame post coital semi-softness to fuck the hell out of her until I came again. :-) These days I have perfectly adjusted to her, I can pretty much orgasm whenever right with her. I also attribute that control to my PE awareness journey and dedicating some time every day to my penile health, just like I do with the rest of my body.

So she totally and absolutely gets it, and she likes my dick a lot, so she also encourages me, even though she refuses to fuck me right after I pump. She simply likes the fact I function well and believes me when I attribute that to doing some PE (and kegels). Plus I am way too lazy to hide my pump, and heck, any woman that spends enough time around you will eventually find your stash of hidden stuff, they excel at that stuff, so imho it’s a losing game to try hide something as big as a pump. Hiding it also makes it weird. Being completely self-assured about it, as in “every smart guy on the planet should do this stuff, come on, don’t be ignorant” wins it every day. I started PE in 2015 and have never hidden it, and in my experience if you’re open about it women don’t find it a subject worth talking about. Only my current GF -and should I say future wife- says it’s great I work on penile health, but as I said, refuses to fuck me right after pumping.

Sorry your wife doesn’t like it. I only recently started pumping periodically and my wife loves the spongy head to play with (she even calls it sponge cake), it’s good for at least fifteen minutes or so of oral play pre-coitus.