Wife knowing

While the wife was pretty up to date on the PE, she was not as aware of the extent of my participation and my posting on the site, and was a bit weird-ed out that I have been posting as much as I have and been posting pictures.

I do not see a problem, this is all anonymous, I try not to post anything to give up my identity…

She still found it odd, laughed it’s like penis pumpers anonymous or something…

So for those of you who’s wives know, do they know about Thunders?

Further on this topic, I was really touched by the post about A-Unit by Mrs A-Unit.

Thunders is really something unique, and I am glad to have found it and feel privileged to be part of this special community.

When I started 13 years ago I worked at home while the wife worked in an office. I didn’t say anything until the second or third time she commented during/after sex, “he’s bigger!”. Then I told her about it. She was cool with it for a while but finally said it was “enough” when I went from 5.5 BPEL/5.5 Base Girth to 7” BPEL/6.5” Base girth, which took about two years, manual stretches, jelqs, pumping and some light hanging.

Fast forward to last year she was away tending her ailing mother for most of the year so I measured again. I had lost 1/2” in both length and girth so started stretching again a few months ago , and hanging a few weeks ago, I also started clamping which I had always thought was “temporary”. I got back to where I was and now she wants me to go for it! She’s retired now and has more time and energy to enjoy the fruits of my labors. Just last night when I was watching TV hooked up to the high pulley on the BowFlex with my Bib starter, she quipped, “… Keep hangin’ for the bangin’!”

I know clamping in conjunction with hanging is a no no, but find I can maintain my girth gains at this point by clamping once a week or so and she likes that extra girth. After clamping I’m 6 1/4 at the circ scar, 6 1/2 mid shaft and 7 at the base. After a week or so without clamping subtract 1/4” from those.

I got incredibly lucky that my GF is supportive of me with this endeavor. Just the other night we were laying in bed watching tv while a did a pump session. She does say that she doesn’t mind where I’m at now but if I want to do PE that she will support me.

As of right now she doesn’t know about thunders. I don’t think she would have a problem with it. She’s even agreed to help me with measuring and before/after photos. Since I haven’t been doing PE for very long I’m taking a break for about a week to let any temporary gains go back down.

I don’t know if anyone else feels this way but I feel like it has helped her and I open up more. To allow ourselves to be vulnerable together. Before her and her being so accepting and supportive I couldn’t fathom the idea of a woman taking my measurements. I hope we are able to keep up the open communication.

-DJ

Sure she knows and is very supportive.

While I have no secret about what I’m doing, I still prefer privacy and quiet to be able to better focus.

The manual exercises I do have to be perfectly done, so I prefer a completely stimulus-free room.

Solution: I have a little “hubby is training on my office door” when I work out my dick.

I keep my pumps under my sink along with my Bathmate and Fleshlight. She’s obviously seen them but has never commented about them. I practice my PE in privacy so it’s something that isn’t talked about. I’ve been at it a year and have gained over an inch but she’s never commented about my size. I’m goi g to keep at it and maybe someday she’ll ask me about the new me!