Wife knowing

Does your wife or girlfriend know that you pump and are they ok with it?

Done in secret; however, I think she suspects something - may have left it out one day and realized after she got home. She never asked though.

My wife does know as I told her, a couple of times she has been with me when I pumped.

Mine knows and supports; much easier than trying to sneak some time in.

Yes she knows.

My wife knows that I do PE; although I don’t do it in front of her.

My wife knowing that I do PE is one of the key components to me being able to be consistent.

Told her about my pump last week. Then used it while going down on her and had sex with about 6.3” MSEG. Amazing. I was very close to cumming very early though and had to go slow for both our sakes, she did not take that thing easy :D .

Told her the day I started.

She doesn’t like seeing me do it. Says it’s a turn off and that she’s always been happy with my size. But she doesn’t give me a hard time about it.

My wife doesn’t know my secret life yet. She surprised me 2 times in a month while I was exercising PE…and I preferred to tell that I was flapping before confess the truth 😓.

I think that she is aware that I’ve a bigger size, and now that each day I’m getting a darker color in my pennis. But I want to live the PE as a spiritual part of my privacity. I want to be the only one connoisseur of this mate…me and the other only 400,000 Thunder ones, of course 😁.

You girl friend dosent know… ive mentioned it, and she came unglued… she prickauns im bugcenough already, and that if i get bigger it wont be a perfect fit anymore, so im having to sneak…

Neither know

In late 2017 when I was 34 I was sleeping with this old woman in her mid 60s (don’t go there lol, it was a very bad time, I was in a desperate place plus drinking a lot of alcohol most nights) and I told her all about my penis insecurities and trying to make it bigger, and even did PE in front of her ! Also another woman I slept with (early 50s) once in early 2018, I also told her about PE. Both of them told me my dick was fine but they just told me what I wanted to hear. The first woman felt like air to me (I had to perform allsorts of mental gymnastics to bring myself to get off with her), and I struggled to penetrate the second woman due to my size. Even though I was drinking alcohol at the time, it wasn’t that that was the problem, it was my size.

I have often told women in online dating about my penis size, my insecurities and about my PE.

My wife knows about my pumping for about 10 years now. I first started when she wasn’t home or when I took a shower. After awhile of doing this she noticed how thicker I was before and during sex and how it filled her up rubbing against her clit. I decided to explain to her what I was doing and showing her my different types of pumps and how they worked. She was amazed looking at the size of my cock inside the pump and got more and more interested in this technique. I’ll explain what followed in the next years in the coming posts.

My wife knows also. I pump while at my desk,at home, working on the computer but the pump is covered with a heating pad. She will always come in and sit in a chair next to the desk and talk like it is something I do, like working on the computer. The only comment she makes is “that looks like it hurts or you are very dedicated in doing that.” because I pump a lot.

My wife know after three years of keeping it secret. I pump to help with my ED, not necessarily gains, which I have had very little.