Will PE cause sensitivity problems?

Hi everyone. Just joined and am really impressed by the real mutual support here.

I am just starting out and have modest ambitions: I am 6.75 BPEL and 6.0 EG; an inch in length and 0.5 in girth would be fine and I don’t plan to pump or hang or take supplements (I am not a muscleman…) just kegel, stretch and jelk …

but I am somewhat anxious because I have problems cumming during intercourse and don’t want to make this worse!

Seems to be a dual issue; Mrs G really likes to masturbate her clit on my glans which is all very well and gives her a high time, but by the time she has finished my glans is too tender! (I am uncut but have a short foreskin so the glans is “out” if I am anything other than flaccid)

By contrast: my shaft by that stage is often DEsensitised, and needs a firm grip and a lightening fast movement to get me off - which means I jerk it off ‘cos she can’t manage it by hand let alone in her pussy - and she don’t do anal … though if she licks my shaved sac while I work, I get off damn quickly!

I have read elsewhere that PE enables guys to sustain better erections and also go for a lot longer … but I can go long enmough already! So if cumming is a problem BEFORE I start PE, is there a risk jelking and stretching will make it worse?

bump … is there really no one out there with an answer?

There is a risk golden. Just as masturbating frequently can diminish sensitivity.

Golden,

I have found that stretching and jelqing have reduced my sensitivity and allowed me to last longer. On the other hand cable clamping seems to do the opposite.

I also have problems reaching orgasm. My penis is a little unsensitive because some surgeon decided it was best to cut part of my foreskin away because I had some problems peeing when I was a kid. I’m trying to grow it back though, using tape. Hopefully that’ll make it a little easier for me to gain sensitivity. But as far as I know sensitivity usually comes back after the glans hasn’t been touched in a rough way.

I have heard this too from another guy. He said the sensitivity issue isn’t a problem and it works out for the better as he is able to last a lot longer.

I don’t really think you should worry about this, not a major concern really. (Well, it is if your dick explodes or something I suppose, but we’re talking extremes there!)

Hi Golden.

PE hasn’t changed me at all, I’m still senstive, plant flowers, am complimentary, etc etc. just kidding :-)

I have a little bit of ED, and also have the problem of “taking too long”, and the first month or so (I think I am in approximately 3 months now), the little guy was tired and a little weak, and I was a little worried also, because he was kind of like a wet noodle sometimes.

But after about a month, I have had stronger erections, and have woken up with “Woodrow Wilsons” in the early morning, which hasn’t happened to me in a long time. It’s hard to explain, but more of your focus and maybe your pride gets in there, and everything sort of improves.

Hope I didn’t bore you to tears, but if you stick with it, but dont over do it, I think you will be happy wit PE.

SM

How quickly can your glans become unsensitive through wrong PE-ing? Is it a matter of days, weeks or months?

Depends I suppose.

You would really have to do something drastically wrong to lose all sensitivity in your glans or penis. You shouldn’t be worrying about wrong PE anyway, you’re suppose to do it right. :)

Know your limits, don’t be stupid and you will have nothing to worry about.

SixerMan,

Love those a.m. Woodrow Wilsons!!! Whoooohoooo!!

Horse

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thanks guys for advice and solace; I’ll report back in a few weeks!

I have found that the exact opposite is true, if I PE hardcore for a week or two my sensitivity actually goes up. But, eventually subsides. It seems to stay the same to me as long as you don’t over do it or do anything stupid.

You could try gaining so much, your too big for a foreskin to cover at all, thereby reducing your sensitivity. Also look into edging to find and control ‘the point of no return’

Golden, make sure you don’t cum when doing your PE and your cock should be much more responsive and eager to shoot. Other than that you could maybe get a cat or dog to lick your balls while you shag Mrs G :D